"Mom, why haven't dad been back yet?" Zhang Xian came back from school and didn't see his father home until very late. He felt a little strange.

Although her father is very busy on weekdays, he must go home on time every day, and is never an exception.

The situation today is a bit strange and I can't figure out what's going on.

"Early this morning, our beverage companies distributed throughout the country were urgently recycling the goods they sold before. I didn't have time to ask about the specific situation. Your father has not come back since he left in the morning and has been busy with calls. It seems that a big problem has occurred in the company!" Zhang Xian's mother looked worried.

"Why did it happen suddenly?" Zhang Xian was quite surprised. "Emergency recycling of the goods sold has never happened before!"

"Yes!" said Mrs. Zhang, "Unless there is a big problem with our drinks, it won't be like this."

"What's the problem with beverages? Haven't they been produced on the same standard?"

"I don't know either," Mrs. Zhang sighed, "Your father cares about the company's problems, and I don't even ask about it."

"Oh!" Zhang Xian couldn't figure it out, so he simply stopped wasting brain cells and sat directly next to his mother, "Mom, Dad will deal with the business matters anyway. I want to ask you some private matters!"

"Anyway, it's that guy called "Ru" again, right?" Mrs. Zhang saw through her daughter's thoughts at first glance.

"His name is Ren Bufan!" Zhang Xian hugged his mother's arm and said in a coquettish tone, "Mom, don't you always say that men basically love each other when they meet, but why did he just avoid me? There is only that Su Tian in his eyes?"

"It seems that you really like that boy!" Mrs. Zhang sighed, "Like your father, this look is really a father and daughter."

"Mom~ You said I am inferior to Su Tian?"

"I have never seen that girl named Su Tian before, how do you know?"

"Then...will you have any solutions? For some reason, he just doesn't like me and hides when he sees me. Do I hate that much?"

"Hey! I'm not blind to this kind of thing between men and women?" Mrs. Zhang was helpless, "Daughter! Your father and I are in a family marriage. We don't know each other before we get married. We don't know if the relationship we slowly cultivated after getting married. So in this situation, I don't know you better than you!"

Hearing this, Zhang Xian was obviously a little disappointed.

However, Mrs. Zhang quickly said: "Although I don't understand these things very much, I have some points to mention."

"Mom, tell me!" Zhang Xian quickly stared at his mother.

"First, you may never have noticed it yourself. In fact, your father and I have been spoiled by you since we were young. In addition, due to the family environment, you have some of the temper of a young lady and many things that are ignorant about the world. You even lack some common sense in terms of common sense! This is true in normal life, let alone the relationship that you have never been exposed to before?"

Hearing this, Zhang Xian remembered his inexplicable actions near the rockery by the lake that day. He didn't know if his mind was burned out, but he actually thought of kissing him secretly. As a result, not only did he not kiss him, he was also pushed into the water by Ren Bufan. It seemed that since then, he had disliked him very much and had a worse attitude.

Suddenly I felt that my mother's words made sense, and I really lacked common sense in this regard.

It’s useless to regret, and what has happened can’t be brought back.

Mrs. Zhang looked at her daughter and continued, "Secondly, although I have never met Ren Bufan and his girlfriend, from your description during this period, it is certain that their relationship is the best time. Although I don't have this experience, I often watch TV. The conclusions I get from TV dramas are the most difficult to insert into them at this time, let alone the impression you give to the other party is not so good, which is even more difficult!"

Zhang Xian nodded when he heard this, and this was very reasonable.

"Third, your dad's birthday party was so fussy, and people had a worse impression of you, so it was too late to hide from you!"

"What should I do?" Zhang Xian looked worried, and every sentence his mother analyzed was reasonable.

"Although there is a saying that "female chasing male veil", the timing is wrong, and I think it will be futile no matter how you do it!" Mrs. Zhang thought carefully, "On the contrary, the more you do it, it may become more and more annoying to others. Moreover, with your personality and inexperience in the world, you will accidentally do more things that make him bored."

"Well! That's true." Zhang Xian sighed, "Every time I try to improve my relationship, I always have the opposite effect. I don't know where I did it wrong! Mom, what should I do?"

"Baby, do you really like that boy?" Mrs. Zhang asked softly.

"I don't know either!" Zhang Xian shook his head slightly, "but I don't know why, and I don't know when, I always think about him in my heart. When I hear the girls discussing him, I can't walk away. I feel very happy when I see him, and I feel bored when I can't see him. When I see him and Su Tian stay intimately, I feel very uncomfortable..."

"That's just like it?" said Mrs. Zhang. "Your dad and I don't have this situation, so I can't understand your mood. However, in the TV series, I like you, I like someone."

"But he doesn't like me at all!" Zhang Xian sighed, "What's more, when Brother Hao intervenes, he annoys me even more!"

"Baby!" Mrs. Zhang touched her daughter's head with distress, "Actually, your conditions are so good that there is nothing that boys don't like. It's just that the timing is wrong, and no matter how you do it, it's wrong."

"What should I do?" Zhang Xian leaned his head against his mother's shoulder.

"Your mother, I am not an emotional expert, and I have never experienced these things. I can only rely on my years of interactions with others and watching TV series, and I can say a few words randomly, but I don't know if it's effective!" Mrs. Zhang said softly, "If you can succeed, your mother will naturally be happy. If you can't succeed, then you two are not destined to be together. There are so many good boys in the world, and you will always meet you like in the future!"

"Well! No matter what the result is, I just want to give it a try." Zhang Xian said.

"Okay! Then first, from the scenes you described to me every day and the birthday party, I probably see a little bit of that kid's personality." Mrs. Zhang said seriously, "If you do it like your father, he will definitely not submit, and even hate our family, and you will have a worse impression of you. If you are moved by him or his little girlfriend, you will secretly do something against them, such as being smart about yourself and involving the other party, not only will you not have a good result, but it may push the relationship to a more confrontation. Second, he and his girlfriend are in a good relationship, and no one can intervene at this moment. Even if you want to get close to him, you have to think clearly about your identity and not do extra things. At least make the relationship between the two people more natural!"

"What should I do?" Zhang Xian asked quickly.

"For the first point, be sincere!"

"sincere?"

"That's right! Sincerity! No matter when you face him, don't think too much, don't use complicated thoughts to calculate. Instead, you should be very sincere and let him feel your sincerity!"

"Sincere, sincerity?"

"It's the most real side from the heart." Mrs. Zhang said softly, "A real person cannot be hated by others."

"Real people..." Zhang Xian silently remembered this sentence.

"Secondly, any purposeful behavior now will cause discomfort to the other party." Mrs. Zhang continued, "So you have to cancel any purposeful behavior and appear around him in the most natural way. For example, aren't you joining the Calligraphy and Painting Association? It's just an opportunity. On weekdays, don't bother him like before, but focus on learning this talent."

"But he basically couldn't get over when he saw me in the Calligraphy and Painting Association." Zhang Xian said depressedly.

"Then you are in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, are you watching him more than normal in activities?"

"Um......"

"Isn't that all?" Mrs. Zhang said, "First of all, you have to let him go, and don't even care about his existence. If you are in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, study wholeheartedly and don't think about anything else. He can't keep avoiding you. When he finds that he is no longer entangled by you, he will let go of his guard. Even if he is in the Calligraphy and Painting Association, the chance of avoiding you will gradually decrease. He will gradually get used to it and let go of all his guard against you. You will at least move at the same time in the Association, and there will be no problem."

"But what's the use?" Zhang Xian sighed.

"At least your current situation can improve so that he will not be so repulsive of you, right?" Mrs. Zhang said softly, "When he does not reject you, first of all, it is a great progress. Then if you are the most real person, I don't believe that in the association activities, the two people do not have any intersection! Secondly, when you no longer show any interest in him and focus on other aspects, it may arouse his curiosity and create the idea of ​​why you have such a change. Once you have this idea, the situation may reverse. Everything starts with curiosity. What is it called to get? "

"Take a move!"

"Yes, that's what it means!" Mrs. Zhang touched her daughter's head, "Baby, all that mom can think of is this, and I don't know if I can help you! Anyway, try to try it."

"Mom, thank you!" Zhang Xian hugged his mother tightly, "Your words make sense, maybe it can really work. I will do what you said to see if there can be some changes. But...if it is the same..."

"If this is the case, it proves that there is no possibility between you and him!" Mrs. Zhang said, "When you can look at it for a long time, don't limit yourself to the present. Give up if you should, don't hesitate! In fact, what if there is no love? Don't live your life with your dad? Sometimes, a plain life is true, and everything else is empty."

"Well, I remember!" Zhang Xian nodded slightly, "Mom, I will do what you said and try to work hard at the end. If it still fails, I will try my best to accept it..."
Chapter completed!