Chapter 340 The rest of my life
Women always have endless topics to talk about, but in the end, they all end up talking about men.
But at least there was a foreshadowing. We would talk about something else first, and then finally move on to the man.
Men are different in this regard. If it is a similar banquet, they will basically say: "That little bitch I had sex with last night..."
Liu Jianfeng listened to them talking about men with a smile on his face, treating it as a learning process.
And what they talked about was nothing more than Zhu Wenwen and their husbands, and Niu Xiyue's boyfriend. It was not just a small talk, but also a vague sense of comparison.
The so-called best friends are mostly used for comparison or to set off oneself.
Speaking of which, Zhu Wenwen is undoubtedly the most outstanding one. She comes from a family of cadres. Although she is not a senior official, she is still a small leader in relevant departments. She has also been admitted to the civil service and currently works in the court.
This type of family naturally pays attention to being well-matched, so she got married early. Her husband is a supervisor in a large state-owned company, and he has a bright future at a young age.
Liu Jianfeng also knew that this company was a large state-owned factory and mine, and it had many cooperations with the Lin Group. He had also spent tens of millions on research funding and asked Lin Zirou to help improve manufacturing and processing machinery.
It is indeed not easy to be a supervisor in such a large company at this age.
As for Yu Lili, she looks much more ordinary in comparison. Her parents are both working-class people, and she herself has no high education. Her parents funded a small business, and her husband also does a small business, in the seafood business.
Although they are not as good as Zhu Wenwen and his wife, they are both cadres and public servants within the system, but the business life of the young couple is still prosperous.
As for Niu Xiyue and her boyfriend, both of whom work in a foreign company, they are just like you and me, just ordinary people.
Therefore, in this situation, Zhu Wenwen naturally became the eldest sister. She is a staff member of the court and can be regarded as Yang Fan's immediate boss, let alone the other two.
As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups.
Most of the small circles that people are familiar with are people with similar identities and backgrounds and like-minded people. It is easy, happy and fair to get along with each other. Even if there is something that needs to be spent, the worst is that you treat today and I will pay the bill tomorrow. Only this kind of relationship can last long.
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Of course, there are also a small circle of one or two people whose status far exceeds that of others, and the others are flattering and fawning over them. Even if the eldest brother takes the younger brother with him, others will say that they are just following so and so.
The people in front of me are classmates who grew up together. The change in status only happened after entering society, but many years of affection and friendship have brought them together. This kind of circle is actually very awkward.
If I want to flatter you, just squeeze into a small circle, but everyone was obviously the same person before, but now they are completely different. Those who remain the same, or even get worse as they get along, will feel that
Awkward and slowly alienating.
This is one of the reasons why it is often said in Chicken Soup articles that some people fall apart while walking.
If you don't want to get separated, you have to adjust your mentality and position in time. For example, Yu Lili said: "By the way Wenwen, that damn guy in my house said that a new batch of sea cucumbers will be coming out in two days.
Ask him to send some for you and your brother-in-law to try. Your brother-in-law is always on business trips, and you are traveling all over the world.
If you are running, you need to take good care of it."
This is Yu Lili's change. She calls her brother-in-law and adjusts her position. The small circle in her student days has changed since she entered society. If she wants to maintain it, people will naturally change with it.
Zhu Wenwen waved her hands and said: "No, you are doing business. Sea cucumbers are expensive, so keep them and sell them for money."
"Oh, you won't make a fortune just by buying this thing. Besides, our little business will have to be taken care of by my brother-in-law in the future, right?" Yu Lili said: "Last time, my brother-in-law gave out Mid-Autumn Festival gifts to more than a thousand employees in his factory.
For New Year’s goods, many seafood and aquatic products are purchased from us, my brother-in-law is our God of Wealth!”
These words are a bit explicit. After all, this is a secret transaction. Leaders with purchasing power will naturally purchase from related households. The benefits involved are known to everyone, but they cannot be stated openly.
However, the reason why Yu Lili spoke out was, firstly, because there were no outsiders present, and secondly, of course, she wanted to praise Zhu Wenwen and express her own attitude.
Zhu Wenwen said calmly: "It's not a big deal. He is responsible for the purchase. It is completely in accordance with the regulations of the factory. Besides, your seafood is fresh and affordable. Wherever you buy it, you are not buying it."
The leaders naturally said that they should buy it wherever they go, but they had never seen them go to other places to buy it.
Yang Fan and Niu Xiyue obviously knew that they had such a relationship and were not surprised. They looked calm. After all, classmates take care of each other, which is a good thing.
"Why don't I just make a call right now. We're going out to have a dinner together. My brother-in-law is probably home alone and has to eat fast food. I'll just ask that damn guy from my family to send him sea cucumbers and some seafood." Yu Lili said as she spoke.
Take out your mobile phone, it's really easy to make calls.
Zhu Wenwen's expression changed, and she quickly grabbed her hand and said, "No, no, he just came back from a business trip yesterday and took a train all night. He is resting at home today, so he kicked me out."
When Yu Lili heard this, she nodded and said, "You can't disturb your brother-in-law's rest. Then in a few days, when your brother-in-law is free, go to my mother-in-law's fisherman's courtyard to eat fresh food."
"We'll talk about it then." Zhu Wenwen said politely, but her face showed a look of superiority and arrogance.
Next to her, Niu Xiyue seemed unwilling to take advantage of her and said, "Wenwen, you told me last time that you asked your husband to find me a place as a formal worker, so that I could also join a state-owned enterprise and hold an iron rice bowl and eat royal food.
, why hasn’t there been any movement? Is it because I didn’t give you a gift?”
Although Niu Xiyue spoke in a joking tone, it still made people feel a little embarrassed. Zhu Wenwen even said angrily: "Don't talk nonsense, when have we ever received gifts? What's more, we are still good sisters."
"Yes, Xiyue, what do you mean? We sisters give each other some seafood and fruits. This is called a relationship, not a gift. Besides, I have also given my seafood to you and to Yang Fan.
Yeah." Yu Lili said quickly.
The originally lively atmosphere suddenly cooled down. Liu Jianfeng smiled lightly and said nothing, thinking to himself: "These friends must not take advantage of each other."
For example, if you ask a friend to borrow money, you will fall out if you don't borrow the money. But when the time comes and you ask for money to pay, you will still fall out, and you may lose both your life and money.
As for asking friends to do things, it's even more difficult. Here you go
Do it, you may not appreciate it. Just like Niu Xiyue said, do you still need to give gifts? It seems that you should do things for her, just like asking someone to bring a cabbage with you. Don't they need to take care of this matter? No
Do you need to take risks but don’t need to operate?
But if you don't do this, your friends will also blame you. You are usually so awesome and you are all leaders. You can do this trivial matter with just one sentence, but you won't do it for me. It's really not a thing.
In this day and age, how many people can fall out with their brothers, sisters, or even biological parents because of their own interests, let alone friends.
The best way is to live your own life individually. If you are good, you can take it with you. If I am not good, I will tolerate it. If you have the conditions and feelings, just get together and keep in touch with each other. If it is not necessary, just stay safe.
However, there were all his classmates in front of him, especially when Yang Fan hesitated to speak and looked embarrassed, Liu Jianfeng laughed and said: "Old cow, you don't understand this. You can't just stare when asking for help.
, you have to drink some anyway, wait until you have had three rounds of drinking and you are in the hottest mood before mentioning it.
As the saying goes, if a woman doesn't get drunk, a man won't have a chance; if a leader doesn't drink too much, he won't be able to do things well...
Come, serve the food and wine!”
Liu Jianfeng shouted, and there were dedicated waiters outside the door of this elegant room. He immediately responded and trotted over to give the order. After all, it was the boss's order.
Moreover, Liu Jianfeng's nonsense immediately relieved the awkward atmosphere a lot. Yang Fan glanced at him, as if he was back in the class back then. This guy was a real treasure, and he was never left alone wherever he was.
The food was served quickly. There was no abalone, ginseng, wings and tripe, but they were all exquisite dishes. However, the wine was good. We are all social people, so we can all drink a little. What's more, there is no one who doesn't drink at a class reunion.
When the women looked at the rich table of leeks, Yu Lili couldn't help but ask: "Liu Jianfeng, you have been in the news for several years, have you made a fortune? Treating guests here, or such a table of food and wine, is expensive, right?"
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"Hey, how can I get rich? I'm just an idle worker. This meal is all my savings. Just to take advantage of today's opportunity, I hope one of you can take me in so that I can have a stable meal." Liu Jianfeng
Said pitifully.
The women immediately laughed, knowing that this guy always liked to tell nonsense. Everyone else was on a stable diet, but he was on a stable and soft diet. It was a shame that he could tell it.
Zhu Wenwen joked: "Then you invited me to dinner too late. Let's see if you can get Yang Fan drunk. Maybe you can still have a chance."
Liu Jianfeng poured wine for everyone with a smile, then raised his glass and said to Yang Fan: "Lawyer Yang, please take good care of me for the rest of your life."
Everyone laughed, thinking that he was climbing along the pole. Only Yang Fan was greatly moved. For the rest of his life, this guy was confessing his love.
She picked up the wine glass and said: "Then for the rest of your life, you will do the laundry, you will cook, you will do the dishes, you will make the money, and you will do the dirty work. Are you willing?"
Liu Jianfeng laughed and said: "As long as the baby is mine, I am willing."
The dog couldn't spit out ivory, so as everyone laughed, Yang Fan directly stuffed the wine glass into his mouth, held his nose and drank hard.
Chapter completed!