Liu Jianfeng was happily admiring the beauty's peerless figure, when he suddenly heard Ji Yuxuan say: "Confucius said: A gentleman does not lose sight of others, does not lose sight of others, and does not lose sight of words. Therefore, a gentleman's appearance is enough to scare him, and his appearance is enough to scare him.

Believe what you say.

So you stare directly at the woman like this, describe her in a vulgar manner, look dirty, behave in an inappropriate manner, and have no dignified appearance. You are not even remotely a gentleman, so how can you make others awe and convince you?"

Liu Jianfeng suddenly felt dizzy. He quickly raised his eyes and stared into the other person's eyes politely and respectfully. Then he remembered that the other person was a retro girl who came out of a real women's school training class. Who could bear to quote scriptures when he opened his mouth? Communicate with her.

You also have to carry a copy of The Analects of Confucius with you so that you can translate it at any time.

The conversation in the clinic just now was quite normal and natural. I guess it was for the convenience of work. Now that I have taken off my white coat, I feel like I have suddenly become a different person, and I feel like I have traveled through time.

Liu Jianfeng could only bite the bullet and said: "My fair lady, a gentleman is so jealous."

Ji Yuxuan said: "A gentleman loves beauty, and he should treat her with courtesy."

Liu Jianfeng was speechless. He clasped his fists and said, "Young man Meng Lang, I have done something outrageous and offensive. Please forgive me."

It took so much effort to speak. I almost bit my tongue after saying a simple sentence. I couldn't help but said, "Girl, aren't we tired of talking like this?"

Ji Yuxuan smiled slightly and said: "I don't like to talk like this. Of course it's okay to speak in plain language. I just ask myself with traditional etiquette and demeanor, and I also hope that the people I interact with can be restrained and observe etiquette."

Liu Jianfeng nodded and said a long time ago that every girl is the same, so a man's routine must be flexible and changeable. He can't always go shopping, eat and watch movies. Of course, if a man has the ability, he can change the woman. If he doesn't, he can just change the woman.

Able to obey and accommodate.

Liu Jianfeng didn't think he had such ability, so he was willing to be pushed back by Yang Fan and act as Lin Zirou's internal affairs manager, because he really didn't want to and didn't have the energy to create any romance and warmth to please women, so he simply catered to her to the end.

"A gentleman should avoid sexual immorality. Choosing a friend is like seeking a teacher. Thank you for your advice, girl. Shall we leave now?" Liu Jianfeng stood up and spoke stiffly with only a few sentences he knew.

Standing in front of Ji Yuxuan, he was tall and strong, with sharp eyebrows and starry eyes. His whole body was full of fierce masculinity. No matter how hard he tried to speak, he could not show his bookishness.

So he felt like a scholar meets a soldier.

But Ji Yuxuan felt like a lady meeting a heroic general.

Ji Yuxuan looked at him, blushed inexplicably, turned away, turned slightly, and said: "As promised, I'll treat you to dinner. Thank you for helping me last time."

"Haha, then I'll just do as you please. It's better to obey your orders than to be respectful." Liu Jianfeng said eloquently.

Ji Yuxuan elegantly made a gesture of invitation, and then walked ahead. Liu Jianfeng stepped side by side with her, but kept a distance of about one meter. He didn't understand any ancient rules, but he understood some psychology.

When you first come into contact with the opposite sex, it is best to keep a distance of one meter to one and a half meters, so as to appear polite and enthusiastic without making the other person feel nervous.

After walking out of the hospital gate and turning onto the main road, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to walk on the left side of Ji Yuxuan and also

It's on the outside of the road, because there is a non-motorized lane next to it, and cars come and go. In order to prevent accidents, we take the initiative to give a safer position to women.

Of course Ji Yuxuan noticed this small gesture, and her graceful demeanor made her feel very warm. When she was crossing the road, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to come over and put his hand behind her to support her. There was no real physical contact, but he just made this in advance.

Protective actions so that you can respond quickly when an accident occurs.

When she crossed the street to hail a taxi, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to open the door for her. When he did not receive her invitation, he voluntarily gave up the back seat and became the co-pilot himself.

Arriving at the hotel that Ji Yuxuan had booked, Liu Jianfeng asked her to go first, and politely thanked the security guard who opened the door. He bowed slightly in return to the receptionist, went to the dining table, took the initiative to help Ji Yuxuan pull the stool, and specifically asked the waiter to bring a glass of warm water.

The weather outside is hot, and the whole body feels hot during the walk. If drinking ice water directly is not good for your health, warm water is best.

Although they are all trivial matters, at the beginning of their relationship, two people look at the inner meaning of small things and the essence in the details.

The waiter came over to ask them to order. Ji Yuxuan politely let the guests choose from the menu. Liu Jianfeng was not polite either. He picked up the menu, looked at it, and said to Ji Yuxuan: "You are a doctor. Your work is very intense and stressful. And

The night shift is reversed between day and night, and ophthalmology requires a high degree of concentration, so mental fatigue and lack of exercise are definitely sub-healthy. The best way is to increase exercise appropriately and maintain a healthy and reasonable diet.

So, let’s start with fried shrimps with broccoli, braised tofu, and steamed seabass, because fish, shrimps and soy products are rich in protein, which can play a great role in repairing people who overuse their brains.

Let’s have beef stew with carrots. Carrots are rich in vitamins, which can enhance immunity, prevent many acute diseases, and have beauty and anti-aging effects.

In addition, there is phosphorus, which is also one of the most important energy sources for the brain. There is nothing more rich in phosphorus than a bowl of mullet soup.

You are an ophthalmologist, and you stare at patients every day, which has a certain impact on your own eyesight, so finally we have a pot of chrysanthemum tea, which can clear the liver, improve eyesight, clear away heat and detoxify, it couldn't be better."

After listening to Liu Jianfeng's words, the waiter even forgot to take notes and looked at him with an infatuated expression, saying: "Sir, you are so considerate and considerate. My beautiful lady, you are so lucky to have such a boyfriend."

Ji Yuxuan forgot to correct him for a moment, and looked at Liu Jianfeng blankly, showing such thoughtfulness that she couldn't think of any other words to describe him.

Moreover, in this high-end, elegant and romantic restaurant, many men are basically like this. Although they are not as knowledgeable as him about food supplements and health maintenance, they are gentle, considerate and considerate to the women around them.

Ji Yuxuan naturally discovered this. In fact, she rarely has a private life, and this restaurant is often mentioned at the same time. If it were not to express her gratitude to Liu Jianfeng, she would not normally go out to the restaurant. Everyday lunch is cooked at home.

The lunch box and dinner you brought must be eaten at home. If you get home half an hour late, your mother will call to inquire.

She can be said to be a typical good girl, a lady in the world of flowers, who almost never leaves the house.

Seeing this situation, it was a little hard to understand for a while.

Liu Jianfeng

Seeing her confusion, he smiled and said: "Don't worry, this is not a country of gentlemen. Education, self-cultivation and self-cultivation are possessed by many people, and I think this is better than the teachings of saints and the virtues of a gentleman you emphasized."

More perfect.

In ancient my country, the status of women was very low. It could be said that they were completely men's appendages, props, and even playthings.

Even the saint you admire once said that only women and villains are difficult to raise, and other words that seriously discriminate against women.

As for the so-called virtues of a gentleman, whether it is loyalty, filial piety, integrity, shame and courage, benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and trust, or gentleness, courtesy and frugality, some of these virtues are for princes, generals, ministers, countries and nations, some are for the same gentlemen, scholar-bureaucrats, and some are for traffickers and lackeys, but there is no such virtue.

The virtues of women.

Therefore, there is no need to equate gentlemen with women. On the contrary, Western gentlemanly demeanor and chivalry reflect the great care for women.

Of course, Chinese studies are the essence of our nation’s culture. Many of the concepts, theories and principles of the sages are still useful today and have been blessed for thousands of years. It’s just that people today are more pragmatic. How can they regard the dogma of the sages as a code of conduct? Some people just want to

Money, even the legal provisions are ignored.

Moreover, many of the so-called Chinese studies classes that are popular on the market are mostly money-making scams. I have also heard of some women’s classes that teach women the three obediences and four virtues, taking the husband as the key link, tea ceremony for female workers, cooking, etc.

, seems to be specially trained for wealthy people to train useless little daughters-in-law who are obedient and submissive."

Liu Jianfeng talked so much in one breath that Ji Yuxuan did not dare to answer the words, because she had been taught the three obediences and four virtues since she was a child, and she firmly believed in them.

Even though she is a doctor, she has contact with many people but knows very little about them. Which patient would have the heart to chat with a doctor?

She doesn't participate in any social activities on weekdays, and goes home right after get off work. When she first came here, she was even picked up and dropped off by a dedicated driver. At first, she had a few suitors, but later, for some unknown reason, they all suddenly stayed away from her.

Listening to what Liu Jianfeng said at this time, it felt as if someone had already booked her and was just left to be groomed by her parents as a scorned little daughter-in-law.

However, her family's situation is different from ordinary families. Girls sent to so-called girls' schools may be really prepared for their future husband's family. They are basically those who can get in touch with the upper class but are not from the right family.

So I work hard to raise my daughter, hoping to marry into a wealthy family as a traditional woman who is hard-working, filial, dignified and virtuous.

The situation of Ji Yuxuan's family is completely different from this kind of family. What's more, she has never thought of rejecting her mother's arrangements for her. After more than 20 years, she has long been accustomed to this planned life path.

Seeing that she didn't say much, Liu Jianfeng also kept his mouth shut. This is the despicable nature of men who always subconsciously want to persuade good families to fall into trouble and try to persuade skilled women to become good.

Of course, Liu Jianfeng would like to raise some topics to understand her more deeply. After all, she is an important clue in tracing the Huangquan organization.

That's why I would be shameless and go directly to someone's door to ask them to treat me.
Chapter completed!