Ning Weimin left in a hurry.
Because he was able to stay in the capital for a limited time, he just handled the matters he thought were more important.
However, this may not be the case for other people.
Xiao Tao fell into a relatively embarrassing and ashamed situation because of Ning Weimin's departure.
For nothing else, it was all about his girlfriend Sang Jing studying abroad.
Xiao Tao has mentioned this matter several times, and Ning Weimin also agreed, but he has not said anything about it for a long time.
Later, I saw that even Gu Sier and Sun Wufu had obtained a visa and passport and were about to go to Japan, but Sang Jing's affairs were still not moving. Xiao Tao was a little anxious and couldn't help but wonder if Ning Weimin was too busy and forgot about it.
Or they didn't take it to heart at all.
So when he saw him off, he couldn't help but ask about this again.
As for Ning Weimin's reply to him, "Brother, don't get me wrong. Gu Sier just went to Japan for a walk, which is actually similar to traveling. Sun Wufu got a labor visa, which is easier to handle. And what you want to do is study abroad. Besides, your girlfriend is still a medical student, so how can it be the same? Not to mention anything else, the procedures for studying abroad at Japanese Medical College are much more complicated, and I have to find a more reliable language school for your girlfriend, right? It all takes time. Be patient, anyway, I will tell you immediately whenever there is something wrong with this..."
So Xiao Tao not only made a big furious face, but after Ning Weimin left, he was scolded by Luo Guangliang, who came to send him off.
Luo Guangliang said that he was not only ignorant, but also silly.
"Weimin is so busy. Isn't it equivalent to urging me to ask me like this? And your Japanese sister-in-law is about to give birth again. Don't you know, do you think this is appropriate? Besides, good girlfriend, you won't catch it, you will quickly think about getting married, but you are in a hurry to send it abroad. What are you thinking? Your mind is in water?"
As a result, Xiao Tao was scolded by Luo Guangliang and almost couldn't raise his head, as he was both ashamed and ashamed.
But then again, even so, Xiao Tao still doesn't regret it, and he is a little obsessed with being infatuated and unrepentant.
After all, each era has its own characteristics.
After all, the degree of openness in this era is far less than that in decades. Neither people’s thoughts nor their love experience can be compared with those in thirty years later. Even the opposite sex has fewer ways of communicating and having sex with each other.
For Xiao Tao, he really didn't know how to be romantic, create an atmosphere, and say sweet words to the girl when he was in love for the first time.
But he believes in love, values ​​love, and respects love.
Luo Guangliang said he was stupid, but why didn’t he understand what was the best for him?
But in that case, he couldn't help but wonder, is it really good to Sang Jing?
Whether he is stupid or foolish to him, he just hopes that the girl he loves can be happy and doesn't want to see her disappointed.
It can be said that he was loving seriously with an attitude of selflessness, even to the point where he was unwilling to be a little philanthropic and selfish, and to the point where he was willing to sacrifice himself and fulfill the other party.
If you want to talk about the difference between Xiao Tao's behavior and the licking dog defined thirty years later, then it mainly depends on three points.
1. Xiao Tao did not face Sang Jing with a humble attitude, but his self-esteem was quite strong.
But at the same time, he did feel the gap between family and culture, and he dared not think about the future of the two people's union.
Maybe he is a little inferior.
He still can't believe that Sang Jing, a cadre's daughter, and a college student with excellent character and academic performance, could she fall in love with a commoner like him?
A person like him has been in a situation and is not as good as an ordinary person. It is really a lucky thing to be favored by Sang Jing.
2. Xiao Tao did not lose himself. He has his own principles and bottom line, and his own judgment ability.
Only when he feels from the bottom of his heart that it is a good thing for Sang Jing would he try to satisfy her.
And this was not what he asked by the other party, but his own initiative.
Otherwise, can it still be called love?
3. Xiao Tao has no substantial requirements for Sang Jing, such as if he does whatever he does.
For him, love is not about doing business.
He just made a kind of effort based on his instinct that he did not care about gains and losses and did not seek any rewards, and he himself enjoyed the process quite well.
This may be related to his living environment since childhood and his growth process.
It’s not that he is inferior, but that others will feel dizzy if they treat him better, but that he has never enjoyed the gentleness of the opposite sex.
Even if they just hold hands, put on shoulders, and hug them.
But what Sang Jing brought him was actually far more than what he asked for.
It is not important to see outsiders, the key is only the person involved’s own feelings.
Anyway, Xiao Tao was particularly satisfied, so he was grateful to the other party and naturally put the other party's happiness before everything.
This may be the simplest and purest view of love for the generation born in the 1960s.
Although there is indeed unfairness between them, the beauty of this love cannot be completely denied.
That's what Xiao Tao thought.
But it’s a pity that love is by no means a matter of one person, nor is it a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
Although Xiao Tao was not moved by the outside world and had a firm belief, he did not understand this.
Love also needs to be based on reality, otherwise it will be beautiful and it will be an illusory bubble.
What's more, girls often do not have the same persistence as him.
As the other party in love, Sang Jing also likes Xiao Tao very much, but it is difficult for her to maintain her initial popularity.
It is especially inevitable that it will be affected by the external environment, by the influence of family, especially the classmates around you, and by good friends.
Otherwise, if she could be as focused as Xiao Tao, their relationship and relationship might still be possible, so as to avoid changing in the seemingly destined direction according to the most common plot.
To be honest, Sang Jing and Xiao Tao have always been in contact with her family.
Because from the very beginning she knew that she and Xiao Tao were people from two worlds.
His parents would not accept Xiao Tao, a son-in-law who was born in an alley and had never been to college, even if he was a rich self-employed person.
However, girls can also find it difficult to extricate themselves when they enjoy the taste of love.
And I inevitably want to show off and share with my peers.
After all, Xiao Tao is quite cool. She wears sunglasses and has a bit of a cold killer temperament. She is generous to her and never counts her money.
Sang Jing felt that it would be quite considerate to have such a masculine boyfriend.
So he introduced Xiao Tao to his college classmates and friends.
Xiao Tao did not disappoint her, especially after he had a car to drive.
By treating guests to dinner, watching movies, picking up cars, sending flowers and gifts, Sang Jing gained a lot of face in front of these classmates.
However, there is only one person who seems to be an exception, that is Sang Jing’s classmate Liu Mei from elementary school to middle school.
From the beginning, Liu Mei had a clear attitude of pouring cold water on Sang Jing for this love, saying that they were not suitable at all.
He also told Sang Jing that her classmates had agreed that they just wanted to take advantage of the situation.
But don't believe it easily. Those people may say something behind their backs.
She also wants Sang Jing not to get stuck. For her future and her family, it is best to wake up and end this relationship quickly.
She even suspected that people like Xiao Tao had a tendency to be violent, and it was really dangerous to take action if they didn't agree.
The reason why Liu Mei dared to sow the relationship between Sang Jing and Xiao Tao so blatantly was naturally because her relationship with them was extraordinary.
In fact, Liu Mei and Sang Jing’s home are close to each other, and their parents work in the same unit.
In other words, they both grew up together and have always been their best friends.
When you are sad, you will hug each other and cry, and when you are happy, you will have fun together.
It’s a bit understatement to say that it’s a best friend. To be precise, they should be in a relationship that is not a real sister but is better than a real sister.
So many times, these two girls are far more important to each other than their boyfriends.
Liu Mei had never been to college and went to take the flight attendant exam after graduating from high school. She was responsible for the flight attendant work on domestic flights on the Shou Air Lines, which is commonly known as the flight attendant.
She and Sang Jing have essential differences in personality. She cannot study and study honestly, and is not a good baby in the eyes of parents and teachers. Instead, she is a girl who is very open-minded, unpretentious, independent and independent.
So her attitude towards Xiao Tao was different, such as others were short-lived in their mouths and short-lived in their hands, and when they saw Xiao Tao, they greeted him with a smile.
Liu Mei doesn't.
This era of being a flight attendant earned a lot of money, enough for her to live as she doesn’t have to look at anyone’s face.
Sang Jing introduced Xiaotao and Liu Mei to meet each other and arranged for their first meeting at Dadi Western Restaurant in Xidan.
The unique feature of this restaurant is that it is underground. At that time, Xicheng Catering Company converted an underground "civil defense fortification" into a restaurant.
As soon as the three of them sat down, a group of male servants surrounded him and handed over the menu.
This restaurant sells Russian cuisine.
Both Xiao Tao and Sang Jing have been here for the first time, and they all feel very difficult.
Only Liu Mei, wearing a pair of large golden earrings and red lipstick, looked at her freely, as if she was in water.
She showed that she was very familiar with the Soviet eating habits and the dishes of this restaurant. She recommended Xiao Tao and Sang Jing very well what they could eat, and she also specifically told the steak that the male servant gave them to "fry it a little older".
She herself ordered only a special salad made up of raw vegetables to maintain a slim figure.
As a result, when checking out after the meal, Rong Xiaotao did not show any attitude of paying the bill. Liu Mei called the waiter and quickly pulled out a little from the thick stack of money in his exquisite leather wallet and placed it on the silver plate held by the waiter.
And her words were also very powerful, "I recognized this meal today, but I will tell you the ugly words before, don't bully Xiaojing. I want to know, don't blame me for being rude to you!"
For a moment, looking at Liu Mei who did not hide her attitude, his eyes were extremely aggressive, and Xiao Tao nodded and felt numb.
It seemed that he had a feeling that at this time it was not meeting Sang Jing's friends, but Sang Jing's sister.
If she had a sister, then that's probably what she said.
In short, Xiao Tao had a bad first impression of Liu Mei. He had never seen such a arrogant girl's house.
A little scared.
Especially later, when Xiao Tao learned that Liu Mei’s job was a flight attendant on the plane, she knew that she was very picky and had been deliberately not looking for a boyfriend.
After having a lot of prejudice against men and having harsh requirements for choosing a spouse, Xiao Tao stayed away from him.
"My mother and father always urge me to have a boyfriend, and also introduced me to all the children of similar ages in their colleagues. It really makes me a headache and I am almost annoyed. But why do I do this? I don't rely on others. Now I make money by myself, and I spend as much as I am happy. Why do I have to find a boyfriend? Besides, I can't find someone who is not as good as mine? Otherwise, after marriage, who will support whom? Now, it's not easy to pick a good man. Either they are uneducated, have low knowledge, or have low incomes, and can't afford to even have a decent meal."
That's what Liu Mei told Sang Jing, and when talking about his contempt for men, he did not shy away from Xiao Tao at all.
"Then you can't stay single all the time. If you are so beautiful, it would be a pity if you are delayed and become an old girl?" Sang Jing joked at Liu Meize with teasing.
"Then you're really worried." Liu Mei said proudly, "I know why I like to be a flight attendant. It's not because I like to be busy in the air. What I want is the opportunity provided to me in special occasions. The guests I contact from morning to night are all people with status, either with authority or wealth. Even if I'm just serving them, I'm actually fishing. Do you understand? Girl."
"Then have you caught fish?"
"It's not good to cry and shout to take the bait, but it's not that easy. You can't hurry up and I have to choose slowly."
"Ah, do passengers often try to hook you up?"
"What's strange about this? There are so many people who are picking up a conversation for no reason."
"What should I do if I'm too unreasonable? Are you not afraid?"
"If there is anything scary, just avoid it."
"Is it okay to be thirsty and shame him?"
"That won't work, you have to send extra cold drinks."
"Miss' identity, maid's life."
“By the way.”
"Then do you like doing this business?"
"Listen to me, you are afraid of these people just because you don't understand them. In fact, men are sometimes very timid. It's not that I look down on them, but to be honest, they are just timid."
"Bold and timid?"
"that is……"
Listen, a girl like this is actually Sang Jing’s good friend. How could Xiao Tao not be afraid?
Chapter completed!