According to Meng Si, she was young and had no intention of being too sensible. She simply thought that recognizing words was very interesting. She taught her well. She started out as a sensible lady and was actually a maid. No, she was even worse than a maid. At least Mi did not beat and scold the maid at every turn, and she didn't like anything she did. She had no entertainment activities, so she used recognizing words as entertainment.

But later, Mi found out and scolded her several times, saying that she was just a maid like her mother and could not become a master. She dared to study and did not let her study. Meng Yurou was not that material at all. Later, her family gradually became worse, and the nanny could not afford to hire her, and Meng Yurou stopped learning.

She couldn't learn it secretly, but she was afraid of forgetting it, so she secretly hid a broken three-character scripture from her brothers and didn't dare to practice at home. When she went to the mountain to pick up firewood, she used a few strokes to draw on the branches. After practicing over time, she was quite good.

It would be great for a girl who grew up in the country to have such a heart. What is commendable is that she seems to be good at heart. Meng Nian and she are not the same girl, but she treats Meng Nian as a girl. She always cares about Meng Nian when she has any delicious food. If her mother is condom, Meng Nian will do it.

Meng Nian said that she was often beaten by her aunt, but most of the boards fell on her sister, and her sister blocked her for her. The girl who could protect her sister would not be much damaged.

Mrs. Meng thought that the Meng family was quite interesting. Everyone born in the illegitimate family was good seedlings. If Meng Si was not lucky, no one was well educated, and had been living in the countryside, it seemed that she was a little worse. If she lived in a wealthy family, even if no one paid attention to it, she would naturally learn something.

Adversity is easier for a person to grow up. Since Meng Si is a good seedling, she will treat it as a good deed and ask a nanny to teach her. Of course, she can't just teach Meng Si and Meng Nian. Meng Yurou and Meng Yuegui also invite a nanny. As for whether they will study seriously, it depends on the individual. Anyway, she has given the opportunity, and whether she can seize it depends on them.

After that, Meng Yan came back.

Mrs. Meng was very happy. While instructing the kitchen to prepare the dishes her daughter liked, she pulled her daughter to talk about homework.

When asked why her daughter suddenly came back, Meng Yan said that a mentor from her husband's hometown had passed away. The mentor had a very good relationship with her husband. They were about to go back to their hometown to attend the funeral and came to say goodbye to her mother before leaving. Her husband is now saying goodbye to several friends he knew in Yancheng, so she took the time to go back to her parents' home.

It will probably take two or three months to come back. They got married in Yancheng. When they returned to their hometown, they would inevitably meet all the elders and relatives, as well as worshiping ancestors, etc.

When she thought of separating her daughter for two or three months, Mrs. Meng suddenly felt reluctant to leave, but this was impossible. The heaven, earth, the king, the teacher, and the teacher are sometimes more important than the father. It is necessary for scholars to value etiquette.

Mrs. Meng once again reminded her daughter to be respectful to her elders. Especially the Zhou family's scholarly family, but the Zhou family's official positions were not shown. She was obviously a low-marriage and was even more respectful. She should not show any arrogance of the daughter of the general.

Of course, there are many people in the Zhou family, and the situation is like this. It cannot be too soft to bully. Faced with some rude requests, no matter how difficult it is, you must not agree to it. There is one, there are two, and one will be agreed to one, and then there will be a second and third one. If you agree to the first one, you will not agree to the second and third one. If you refuse at that time, you will offend others.

These Mrs. Meng had already advised her daughter before, but just in case, she still reminded her again and again.

Meng Yan listened humbly. Over the past year, her temperament has changed a lot and become calm.

But at the end, she hesitated and asked, "Mother, what should I call the two mother-in-laws of the Zhou family?"

Before, Yang came to attend the wedding and was with Mr. Zhou. When celebrating tea, he also gave the two old men a respect. Some details that he didn't understand were vague. But now he is going to return to his hometown of Zhou, and his eyes are staring at him, so he can't be vague anymore.

Mrs. Meng said, "What's the point of asking about this? You can just follow your husband. His name is Mom, and you also call him. If he doesn't call him, you will be vague."

Meng Yan bit her lip, "But what if the elders in the clan call her mother?"

Mrs. Meng thought about it and this was a question. After pondering for a while, she said, "You can go there vaguely. If you really can't avoid it, you can only shout. I will discuss it with your husband in advance. I think he is a scholar and gentle, so he will definitely not resist too much... But Yan'er, have you not discussed these things with your husband in advance?"

Meng Yan shook her head: "I asked twice, and each time my husband's face was not very good. Although his tone was gentle, it was just... I could see that he was also very taboo. After asking, the atmosphere changed, so I didn't dare to ask."

Mrs. Meng frowned, "This is not OK. Yan'er, you must ask what you should ask. My mother told you before that you should not bear the embarrassing things caused by the Zhou family. You should not bear the situation alone. Just discuss with him. If you should not discuss when you should, the contradiction will become even greater in the future."

Meng Yan nodded, and she also knew that she had just not returned to her hometown and these questions would not be placed in front of her all at once. She just thought not to ask.

Mrs. Meng reminded again: "But no matter how your husband is in the face of Yang, you must be respectful. In any case, Yang is also the official daughter-in-law of the Zhou family. It is right for your elders to show respect for the elders. Never disrespect to Yang because of your husband or someone else's instigation. If something happens, you will always suffer. They are a family and have been in peace for so many years. When you go back, you will start to make trouble. No matter what the reason is, others will say that your new wife will not be a human being, and will make trouble when they marry in."

Meng Yanshen agreed: "This mother Ping has taught her daughter, but there is one thing. The daughter is a little undecided and wants to ask her mother's opinion... It is her husband's sister, Zhou Caier's marriage. Ping's mother asked about it over and over again, saying that the mother-in-law Yang was a little annoyed by the marriage."

"This is normal. Who can be happy when encountering such a thing?" Mrs. Meng thought for a moment and said, "If you get along well with Yang after you go back, she will definitely ask you about the matters of the Quan family, mainly about Quan Yaobei's character and knowledge. Just say it. You have been studying in the boudoir before, and the Quan family has another clan school. The girls are studying in the clan. You are not from the same place, and you don't have much contact with the Quan family, and you don't know much about Quan Yaobei. So you don't know what Quan Yaobei is, you only hear people say that he has a good knowledge."

"But if you say you are not familiar with your cousins ​​in the Quan family, do you seem to have a weak relationship with your relatives and have bad popularity?" Meng Yan had his own concerns.

Mrs. Meng said, "You just say that most of the time you usually have letters, or you have seen more cousins ​​with your aunt Quan Si's cousins. How can you be familiar with all the sisters in the Quan family? Just talk about a few other rooms. When chatting, you can adapt to the changes. Remember to speak more carefully and slowly. If you can think about it in a few sentences, you will have to be smarter. Your mother can't teach you word by word."

Meng Yan hesitated for half a day, as if she had something to say but didn't dare to say it.

Mrs. Meng was immediately displeased and gave a lesson, "Look at how you are now. If you have anything to say, just say it directly, or hide it better, and if you want to say it or not, it will appear sneaky."

"Yes. Mother." Meng Yan became more careful after getting married. She no longer had the casualness she had with her mother before. Perhaps she wanted to manage this marriage well, so she seemed extremely nervous.

Mrs. Meng couldn't help but sigh inwardly. Her proud and confident daughter, who used to be, became another person in just over a year. If possible, she really hoped that her daughter could live proudly. Unfortunately, reality told her that people would be gentle and humble to live a good life. Now her daughter's temperament is what she expects, but she feels sad.

Meng Yan calmed down and said, "Mother, you said that it is best to be kind to others in everything. My daughter thinks that the marriage of the Quan family is really inappropriate. Caier is the relative of her husband and she is the elder sister of her husband. She will never leave the skin. If Caier married her and lived a miserable life, how can we feel at ease? Since the mother-in-law of Yang also intends to withdraw from the marriage, if she mentions it, why not make a favor, ask her father to come forward, or trouble her second sister, and you can stop the marriage. How do you think?"

"My stupid child." Mrs. Meng sighed, "Your idea is good, but have you ever thought about what to do after quitting the marriage? Find another good family? Who will find it? Can you find it? Even if you can really get what you want, you can guarantee that your in-laws will not have another disaster in the short term. Your sister-in-law will definitely be able to be loved until old after marrying? If you make mistakes in these many joints, the responsibility will fall on you in the future."

"Ah! This... can you just watch Cai'er marry the Quan family like this?" Meng Yan also became troubled, "I just don't care. Cai'er's life is bad, and others will complain. After all, the Quan family is the daughter's foreign family, and this marriage is not very decent... In addition, the Quan family's idea of ​​beating our girl before will be leaked out in the future, and the Zhou family will also complain that it will not be reminded in advance. How can this matter be completely broken? Besides, it's all family. The Quan family is like this now. Cai'er's life is bad in the future, so they can come to trouble her parents' family every few days. The Zhou family is not in Yancheng, and all she can find is me, my sister-in-law. Can I ignore her?"

This is true. Mrs. Meng couldn't help but hate Mr. Quan again. The Quan family has no other relatives, so why are they just watching their family cheating?

There is no way to achieve both ways to achieve both things. In the end, Mrs. Meng could only say: "You can judge this by yourself when you arrive at the Zhou family. Whether it is your father or your second sister, you will be willing to help, but we cannot predict and stop some consequences."

Meng Yan bit her lip and said, "Mother, I never thought I could take care of Zhou Caier for the rest of my life. As long as I overcome the current hurdle and I gain a foothold in the Zhou family, the next thing will be fine. I can't marry you just because I brought such a thing to the Zhou family."

Mrs. Meng thought about it and pondered for a long time, then said, "You can do this. Come in and contact Zhou Caier more often. When you look at the character of their mother and daughter, if you really want to be able to live up to it, don't worry about it. But remember that even if you have to care, you can't agree so easily. It's easy to say it's difficult, and you can't let people complain afterwards."

"My daughter knows." Meng Yan actually had an idea in her mind, but she just wanted to ask her mother for confirmation.

After Mrs. Meng figured out her daughter's little thoughts, she felt a little relieved. No matter what, being scheming is better than being scheming.

Later, Mrs. Meng asked Meng Yan to go to Dingwang Mansion before leaving and say goodbye to her second sister.

The relatives are getting closer and closer. If they don’t meet for a long time, no matter how serious the relationship is, they will be worn away.

...

Su Yiqing saw Meng Yan in the small pavilion in the courtyard. Recently, she liked to stay outside for a while, but she was not that boring. After all, it was spring, and staying outside was much more comfortable than being in the house.

Because it was just a wedding, Meng Yan, who was used to wearing a big red satin dress when she went out, was envious when she saw Su Yiqing wearing a long dress with embroidered branches on white background, folded her hair with just a jade hairpin, not wearing other jewelry, and not wearing any makeup on her face, and looking leisurely and comfortable.

I only picked out clothes and jewelry before going out for half an hour, and put on makeup, applied rouge, etc. before going out for about more than an hour. I looked in the mirror repeatedly before going out to ensure that I was meticulous, for fear of being rude to come to Dingwang Mansion and letting the servants laugh at it.

However, when she first saw her second sister, she felt that she had been in vain in the morning. It seemed redundant to dress up in front of her leisurely dressed up. It might be better if she had known it would be easier.

Hey, no wonder others value being a good match. They are not only about marriage but also interpersonal communication. People with too many differences are difficult to become friends and interact with each other all the time. Different identities make it impossible for the party with a lower status to do anything. She wondered whether she had been feeling the same way and didn't want to come to Dingwang Mansion before, so why didn't her mother persuade her? I thought that my mother had known that there would be such a difference, probably because she was afraid that she would not force her to come.

"Sister Yan, sit down." Su Yiqing smiled slightly and greeted Meng Yan to sit down.

Meng Yan realized that she was almost stunning, so she calmed down and saluted her second sister, and then she sat down gently.

"Second Sister, are you in good health?" Meng Yan was always nervous in front of this second sister and couldn't find a good topic to make her opening remarks.

"I'm very good, but I'm getting old and I'm always lazy and feel a little tired." Su Yiqing said as she subconsciously stroked her stomach, but the smile on her face deepened.
Chapter completed!