"Meier, please don't say such depressing words. Third brother told you this. As parents, we don't live solely for our children and grandchildren."

"In these short decades of life, we ourselves must live happily. Our children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Let us do our own thing well and leave the rest to God."

Yang Huazhong came forward, put his hand on the back of Yang Huamei's head, and touched it gently.

I am twenty years older than this Yaomei, so I say they are brother and sister, but I basically treat her as my daughter and have watched her grow up.

Seeing her like this, he felt... just like his old father, who was really uncomfortable, otherwise he wouldn't have been able to grit his teeth and say that he didn't care about her business every time, but in the end he couldn't help but do it.

"There is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, and the same is true for Xiao Hei. Perhaps, this is also a disaster destined for the child, or perhaps it is fate."

Yang Huamei was immersed in her own depression. When she heard Yang Huazhong's words, she slowly raised her head and looked at him: "Third brother, what do you mean by this? You don't want Xiao Hei to marry that Xu Qiaohong, right? Then

Impossible, she has been married before!"

Yang Huazhong is a man. Men don’t think like women. They think too much and think far ahead.

Especially when certain things are not completely eliminated with one shot, there will always be a slight possibility left.

"Mei'er, I can't say it for sure. Qiaohong may not be as easy as Qiaohong. More importantly, we have to consider Xiaohei's feelings. It doesn't matter even if we have been married before. Our Daqi people have open customs and widows can remarry.

, if she gets divorced, it’s not impossible to marry her!”

I don’t know if Yang Huamei listened to Yang Huazhong’s advice or not, but no matter what, she stopped crying or making trouble, and she seemed to be much calmer. She sat there with her hands on her temples, as if

think.

Seeing this, Yang Huazhong struck while the iron was hot and continued to comfort her: "Today is the Chinese New Year. It is rare that all the children have returned home, and a grandson has been added. A new house has been built this year. Let's live this New Year lively first, and wait until the new year is over.

After the New Year, let’s discuss Xiao Hei’s affairs.”

Yang Huamei thought for a while and nodded, "Third brother, I listen to you. Let's not mention this matter until after the New Year."

"As you said before, what if that boy Xiaohei regrets it again during the New Year and doesn't want to continue getting along with that daughter of the Xu family? Then wouldn't it save me more trouble?"

Yang Huazhong nodded, "Yes, so there are some things that we cannot rush. If we rush, we will get into trouble. Maybe the things that make us scratch our heads right now will be solved after a few days of cooling down."

Yang Huamei wished this was the case, nodded repeatedly, and even showed a smile that she hadn't seen in the past two days.

Seeing that Yang Huazhong was about to leave, she stood up and said, "Third brother, what, I want to tell you, tomorrow is the first day of the Lunar New Year. Will you go out to pay New Year's greetings on the first day of the Lunar New Year?"

Yang Huazhong thought for a while, "In the past years, we didn't go out in the morning on New Year's Day. In the morning, the whole family went to your third sister-in-law's natal family, Sun's house, to pay New Year's greetings. What? What do you mean? Is it because the eldest grandson came to visit?"

Yang Huamei smiled and nodded, "Yes, I want to come to you!"

The eldest grandson has visited Tan's house in the east room of the old house since he was one month old. He has not officially visited any of his uncles' houses.

Although for some reasons I was carried to the fifth and third bedrooms, and even slept at the third bedroom’s uncle’s house last night, the sense of ritual has not left me yet!

And Yang Huamei is a person who is very particular about these things, so she discussed this with Yang Huazhong eagerly.

"Third brother, we want to go to your house to pay New Year greetings in the morning. It's too early in the morning and I'm afraid that the child won't be able to get up. Moreover, he has to stay up late at night and won't be able to sleep well. I want him to sleep a little longer in the morning." Yang Huamei accompanied her again.

Discuss this with Yang Huazhong with a smile.

Yang Huazhong nodded without thinking: "Okay, then you guys come over in the morning. I will discuss it with your third sister-in-law and the others later in the morning, and go over in the morning to wish the Sun family New Year's greetings."

Naturally, Yang Huamei was most happy with this result, and she clasped her fingers and said to Yang Huazhong: "This is how we arranged this trip, because third brother, you are the oldest brother in my natal family, so I went to your house to pay New Year's greetings on the first day of the first lunar month.

I’ll go to my fourth brother’s house on the second day, my fifth brother’s house on the third day, my eldest grandson’s aunt’s house on the fourth day, and we’ll see you again on the fifth day.”

When Yang Huazhong heard Yang Huamei's arrangement, he wanted to remind her that when Dabai got married, the fourth bedroom didn't give any gifts.

At that time, because Dabai had a fight with his fourth uncle, Yang Huaming, the fourth room made it known that he would not move around with Dabai in the future, but he would still keep moving around with Yang Huamei and Xiao Hei.

Yang Huazhong really wanted to remind Yang Huamei not to arrange this matter unilaterally. The fourth sibling Liu might not agree, but seeing Yang Huamei's happy look, Yang Huazhong couldn't bear to pour cold water on her.

"Meier, your arrangements are very good, but third brother still recommends that you go and confirm with your other two sisters-in-law in advance, so as not to make them unclear when you go out to visit relatives." Yang Huazhong

It’s hard to say it directly, so I can only give a vague reminder.

"A waste of time?" Yang Huamei was also a little confused.

Yang Huazhong added: "You also know that now the children in each house have grown up, and everyone has added new relatives. Either the new relatives come to pay New Year's greetings, or they go to visit the new relatives, so you'd better make an agreement in advance.

It’s relatively safe!”

Yang Huamei accepted Yang Huazhong's description very well.

"That's for sure. I'll make some free time later to talk to Fourth Brother and Fifth Sister-in-law."

"You still have to find your fourth sister-in-law." Yang Huazhong reminded again.

Yang Huamei was stunned for a moment, then curled her lips and said, "I can just ask my fourth brother. It's hard for my fourth sister-in-law to shave her head and talk."

Yang Huazhong smiled bitterly, "The male is outside and the female is inside. Your fourth sister-in-law has to take care of the cooking. Your fourth brother is a man."

"A man is God, the backbone of a family. God has agreed, so what else can he do? Besides, I can definitely find the fourth brother. The fourth brother and I are brothers and sisters. He really loves his nephew and his grandnephew.

, the fourth sister-in-law is from a foreigner, so I won’t ask her!”

Seeing what Yang Huamei said, Yang Huazhong shook his head repeatedly: "Don't think that way, you listened to the third brother right!"

Yang Huamei was thinking about interrogating Xiao Hei and Xu Qiaohong in the hall, and didn't want to get entangled with Yang Huazhong on these topics anymore.

So he said perfunctorily: "Okay, okay, I'll just tell the fourth sister-in-law. Third brother, you go home and do your work first!"

When Yang Huazhong left, he took Lao Yangtou with him.

At the same time, he did not forget to say to Mrs. Tan: "Mom, come over for New Year's Eve dinner at night, and I will pick you up then."
Chapter completed!