About adoption
"My parents have to figure it out. Although the child is recorded in Jin Nan's name, he usually lives in an old house with Xiang's grandfather, but Xiang's father himself relies on Shengnan and Xiaoduo to support him. In the end, the burden of raising him fell on Shengnan and Duoer.
Shengnan is a man, the male lead is the outside, the female lead is the inside, taking care of the child, washing and washing, it is all Duo'er who is taking care of it. We still have to ask Duo'er's wishes carefully, and we must not force it!" Yang Ruoqing once again solemnly reminded.
Yang Huazhong and Sun both nodded seriously.
Yang Huazhong urged Sun: "Let's come to the grassland to see the calf tomorrow. You can take the time to convey our meaning to Duoer, and then ask her about her wishes."
Sun agreed.
She wanted to turn back and talk.
Yang Ruoqing added: "Mom also wants to convey my attitude. My attitude is to stand on Duoer's side. If she doesn't agree, I will help her with it. If she agrees, I will remain silent!"
Sun smiled and patted Yang Ruoqing's hand gently: "Okay, okay, I must make it clear."
When the matter was finished, the two or three miles from the grassland to the village was completed without realizing it.
When they arrived in the village, everyone was busy with their own things. Yang Ruoqing went home to wash her hands, changed her clothes, and took the time to visit Jiang Guiling and her daughter in the fifth room across the road. She talked for a while and then came back. In this way, she had been dealing with all kinds of idle things.
This is the life of the village households. There is no grand and vigorous life, only trivial things like water.
But every thing is closely related to our food, clothing, housing and transportation, and the joys, anger, sorrows, and happiness of the common people.
The next day, Sun had breakfast, washed the clothes of her and Yang Huazhong, fed all the chickens, ducks, geese, cats, and horses in the backyard, and then hurried to the grassland.
Yang Huazhong didn't go today because he had been delaying two days for the pasture.
Today I will stay in the village and go to the hundreds of acres of wheat and rapeseed fields at home in the whole day.
There are hundreds of acres, but not a day can be completed. He plans to go around the top of the day and then continue to go around the next day. Anyway, he will spend his time on this in the next few days.
If there is any problem, I will notify the long-term worker to do it. My boss must keep it in a good way.
Otherwise, you will rely on long-term workers to do everything, and they will only pay for their wages and will not really care about the crops in the fields.
Yang Ruoqing is also busy at home. While it is not raining, she naturally washes what should be washed and drys the house as it should be, making the house dry and neat.
Because the climate in this place will rain several times after winter every year, and it will cool down one round after another.
If you have the conditions, take this opportunity to pop out the cotton. Whether it is making new bedding or adding cotton coats, cotton pants and shoes for the elderly and children at home, you have to hold on.
After all, the solar term has passed the "Beginning of Winter", and further down there is "Little Snow". You can't be busy singing like the cold bird, and you're upset when the weather is cold and the north wind is howling!
I worked hard all day and took the time to go to my parents' house next door to see if Sun had returned.
As a result, not only did Sun not come back, but Yang Huazhong did not come back at noon. After the afternoon, the couple came back from the field together. Yang Ruoqing realized that he had gone to the grassland for free at noon. After dinner, the couple went to the field to check the situation, and then finished work and went home together.
"Mom, how is the situation on the grassland? Have the calves all gone?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Speaking of this, Sun was happy, "The eight calves in a lighter situation have all been well. Now they have eaten the forage and are also jumping around in the pasture."
"The two previous ones are not bad. Although they are not as energetic as the other eight, they are at least considered to be out of danger. Your cow dealer uncle praised you again, saying that this wave is all your credit. When this wave of cows is slaughtered next year, or if they sell killing meat, they will definitely send you beef!"
Yang Ruoqing was still smiling in the first half of the words that Sun brought back, but she couldn't laugh after hearing them.
In the end, the calves she tried hard to save could not escape the fate of being killed and sold meat?
Instead of doing that, it is better not to save them and let them end their lives early.
But then I thought again, Niu Niu and others were like humans. The first second they came to this world was destined to be death.
Life is originally a process that cannot be changed. Since it is a process, then let’s enjoy it well, why bother thinking about it?
In this process, humans have experienced various joys, angers, sorrows, sorrows, and happiness, from naivety to maturity, from gain to loss, and then gain and lose, and repeatedly, understanding what the true meaning of life is. This is a process of cultivating the mind.
And the Niu Niu, of course, is the same.
So no matter whether it is a human or an animal, there is no need to fear death. We must open our arms to embrace life. Even if tomorrow is death, then today I am still alive and I have to face everything with a smile.
If there is reincarnation, it is impossible to start again with a bowl of Mengpo soup. What are you afraid of?
"Qinger, I asked Duoer and others about adopting that girl. Come on, let's talk about it."
Sun came over and grabbed Yang Ruoqing's hand, and entered the yard with a mysterious look on his face.
Seeing her appearance, Yang Ruoqing guessed that it was probably because the Xiang family had discussed it. In addition, Sun went to Duoer to convey Yang Huazhong's meaning, so Duoer either figured it out or compromised.
"The Xiang family plans to wait until the calf is completely ready, so they go to the mountains to inquire about the situation of the girl. If it is almost the same, they will take it out to raise it."
"Well, where is that Duoer? What do you think?" Yang Ruoqing only focused on this.
"Duoer? I didn't speak when I went there. She took the initiative to tell me. Seeing that they discussed it after we left yesterday, Duoer seemed a little moved, and she looked half-hearted."
"But later she nodded happily after hearing what I mean by your father. Alas, everyone is doing it for Jiaojiao."
Yang Ruoqing could only laugh.
Sun continued: "Duoer said solely that she didn't want to adopt that orphan, she was not the kind of cold-blooded person. She was also taken back by you to our family to adopt it,"
"If our family doesn't adopt her, she won't have the good life she has now. So she also wants to be a kind person and pass on this kindness, especially if it can bring good luck to Jiaojiao, which will kill two birds with one stone."
"I advised her, and I said that kindness will definitely be rewarded. I thought that when she and Huaer came to our house at the age of six, I was kind to them. They all understood in their hearts that they were no different from their own daughters. They all respect me. I made a lot of money. Duoer laughed when she heard this and was more happy about adopting the orphan. Qing'er, do you think this is the case?"
Yang Ruoqing just laughed, laughing without saying a word.
People are different from others. It is not that you will definitely reward others if you dig your heart out.
Are there still fewer stories about Mr. Dongguo, the wolf, the farmer and the snake?
Adoption is one thing, and it is even more important to examine the child's character and subsequent teaching, otherwise it will be a disaster.
Chapter completed!