Xiaohua couldn't help but get a little excited and said, "Duo'er, that's a good question. Since the family is separated, there must be rules for family separation. So what did Shengnan say?"

Xiaoduo said: "Shengnan naturally swore that the Xiang family was really separated, and there was absolutely no deception of the Yang family."

"I said that's good. Since the families are separated, it's a matter of starting a new business over there. They are relatives, just like the relationship between my natal family and my uncles. We have to move around and get close, but we also have to have

A measure."

"If we find an excuse to get together to make a fire and cook, then we have an excuse every day, so why do we separate? Just live together together."

"Since the family is separated, there are rules for family separation. You are adopted into your uncle's name. Your uncle does not have to go to your mother's natal family, so after we get married, we naturally do not need to go to them to pay New Year's greetings.

Let's go for a walk. Unless something big happens with your uncles in the future, let's go for a walk to show that it's okay. We won't go for the usual courtesy exchanges and New Year greetings."

"So today, Shengnan's parents took Jin Nan to her parents' house to pay New Year's greetings. Shengnan and I went back to our own parents' house to pay New Year's greetings. We have nothing to do with each other," Xiaoduo said.

After saying so many words at once, my mouth was dry.

There were three tea bowls on the small table in front of her. Xiaoduo didn't bother to distinguish who belonged to whom. She took one of the bowls and drank several sips. This is the advantage of being in her mother's house. There is no need to distinguish between mother and Xiaohua.

Seeing Xiaoduo's appearance, Mrs. Sun's eyes felt warm.

The daughter-in-law who is cold and distant in the eyes of Mr. Sheng is also a well-behaved and considerate daughter of others.

Everyone has two sides, different identities, and different ways of dealing with things depending on the identity. Mrs. Sun is very glad that she is from her mother's side.

But at the same time, Baozi's grandson was a little dissatisfied with Xiaoduo's approach.

"Duo'er, although you agreed before you got married not to go around with Shengnan's uncle, you can go there to pay New Year's greetings. Normally, you don't have to go if there are any happy events at home or to visit the doctor. So, New Year's greetings

You can go, not to mention that you are a bride and it is your first year here. If you don’t go to his uncle’s house, they will definitely think that your wife is strong and arrogant, and she will have a bad reputation for you.”

Xiaoduo put down the tea bowl in her hand and said to Mrs. Sun: "Mom, if my sister is at home, she will definitely agree with what I am doing."

"For relatives of Uncle Katsuo's family, we went to give gifts to Katsuo's family last time when they entered their new house. Did you forget?"

"Everyone came here to chat, and they were all talking about relatives whom they couldn't even touch. Those people were like candies. If Shengnan and I provoked them, they would come over in a swarm to pay New Year greetings. We usually look for them.

For the first time, we can’t drive people away, because if they say New Year’s greetings, they are relatives, and it’s not appropriate to drive them away, but if they don’t say New Year’s greetings, they are not relatives, and they won’t find opportunities to visit.”

Xiaohua thought for a while and said: "I also agree with Duo'er's approach. Although it will give Uncle Shengnan's family a bad reputation at first, in the long run, it will still be beneficial to Duo'er. This is

Let the sharp sword cut the mess."

"Reputation, actually, sometimes it's not that important. The main thing is to live a comfortable life behind closed doors. Just like what my sister often says, no matter how well you do,

You are all beautiful, some people like you, and some people must hate you, so we don’t have to worry too much, it’s best to just follow Duo’er’s own wishes.”

Mrs. Sun smiled bitterly, "Well, you three sisters have grown up, and each one has more ideas than the other. I won't say anything, as long as you live well."

There is really nothing to say. When it comes to being a daughter-in-law, Mrs. Sun is very self-aware.

I am a failure. I have been living under the control of my mother-in-law for more than ten years. I can't even go back to my parents' home.

If it weren't for his eldest daughter Qing'er, who worked hard to separate the family and lead the family to make a fortune, I'm afraid that now I, an old wife in her forties, would have to continue to live under the fingers of the longevity mother-in-law.

I can’t even come up with any ideas!

Xiao Hua said: "Mom, don't say that. We are all your daughters, and our kindness is all based on yours."

Xiaoduo also smiled and said: "Yes, as the wife of the Xiang family, I ask myself that I will not be harsh. I will be filial to the cattle dealer uncle and live a good life with Sheng Nan. These are all the things my mother taught me when I was in my parents' home.

mine."

"But on some things, I have my own plans, especially the matter that Sheng Nan discussed with me. If I retreat, he will advance. If I had to make concessions from the beginning, then in the future,

, I’m afraid it will form a bad habit. It’s not that I don’t believe in Shengnan’s sincerity towards me. What I don’t believe is human nature. It’s human nature to push beyond the limits!”

Xiaohua nodded again: "Duo'er said it well, I seem to see the shadow of our sister in you."

Xiaoduo smiled bitterly, "How can I compare with my sister? My sister is more capable and luckier than me. My brother-in-law loved her to death, and he met such good mothers-in-law. The whole family lived together happily.

"

"I actually wanted to be a good, filial and considerate daughter-in-law at the beginning, treat Shengnan's parents well, and even support Brother Jinnan, but the incident between them and Cui'er chilled my heart, and I ended up like this now.

This is everyone’s creation, and I can’t help it either!”

Sun and Xiaohua both nodded, but that's right. Not only Xiaoduo was heartbroken, they were also heartbroken.

Moreover, the last time Sheng's father came to the door with a basket of eggs, he wanted to find some leisure time for Jin Nan in the Taoist temple.

After being rejected by Mrs. Sun, Shengnan’s father didn’t forget to take the basket of eggs with him when he left!

The impression is completely ruined.

"As long as you live a good life with Shengnan, you'll be better off than anything else," Sun said with a smile.

"From the current point of view, I still like Shengnan's temperament. He doesn't talk much, is hard-working, and treats you well. Don't bully others. You should be nice to Shengnan, but you can't be too nice, either.

Remember to be good to yourself. If you are not good to yourself, then he may not be good to you. This is also the way of husband and wife. Mom taught it to you and also to Hua'er. You must remember it."

Xiaoduo pursed her lips and smiled.

"Mom, you leave it to me to guard against this Sheng Nan, I understand this. But you teach Hua'er and let her leave Brother Da'an alone? I don't understand this." Xiao Duo joked.

Xiaohua smiled softly and said: "Brother Da'an and I are different from you. We are husband and wife and brother and sister. I can treat him even to death because I believe in him."

Mrs. Sun looked at Xiaohua happily and said: "You can say this. Mom is very relieved. Da'an is a man after all. Men doing things outside will inevitably make us women feel sad. From now on, Da'an is pretty good in that aspect.
Chapter completed!