Wanghai County, Changping Village.

Yang Ruoqing only told Yang Huazhong and Luo Tiejiang that the old Wang family and the Xu family were getting married. As for the specific wedding time and arrangements, she didn't mention a word.

Yang Huazhong was confused, because he didn't hear anything more detailed or specific from Yang Ruoqing until the end, so he couldn't help but ask: "As Xiaohei's uncle's family, we don't care about the Xu family.

, or Lao Wang’s family, they should all come to us to discuss the specific wedding banquet procedures, right?”

No wonder Yang Huazhong would say this, because when getting married in this era, no matter whether it is a big family in the town or a farmer's family, the man will do a lot of preparations in advance before inviting a matchmaker to come to the house.

For example, either the man's father invites older relatives from the man's side to go to the woman's uncle's house in advance, or to sit and talk at the house of relatives such as uncles, which is equivalent to feeling out the situation.

Of course, you can’t go empty-handed, you have to bring gifts.

This is a warm-up work in advance, which expresses respect for the woman's relatives and friends, and also reflects the man's sincerity. In this way, it can also facilitate the smooth progress of other processes.

Moreover, the person invited by the man to warm up the scene must be someone of high seniority, sufficient weight, and someone who can speak with authority on the man's side.

The man’s father’s brother, or the man’s mother’s uncle, are the first choices.

Wang Shuanzi has no biological brothers, only cousins, namely the three sons of Wang Hongtao's family.

But Wang Hongtao and Wang Hongquan are cousins ​​themselves, and in Wang Shuanzi's generation, they are cousins. If they are asked to help Xiao Hei, their cousin, to "warm up" the relationship, the relationship seems to be distant and cannot be fully representative.

Therefore, the inertial thinking in Yang Huazhong's mind was that Mei'er would probably go to the old Yang family's brothers to warm up the show.

Xiao Hei's biological uncle, this weight is enough in the eyes of outsiders.

But inside, Yang Huazhong knew that young people like Xiao Hei didn't understand anything, not to mention his uncle, his father and I were just like that!

"Dad, this marriage is a matter between the Xu and Wang families. It has nothing to do with our old Yang family, so you must not take the initiative to ask for work."

Yang Ruoqing saw through Yang Huazhong's thoughts at a glance and directly cut off the fire in his heart.

"Don't just think that you have to get involved in Xiao Hei's matter just because you are Xiao Hei's biological uncle and Aunt Mei'er's eldest brother. Don't think like that. That's just being sentimental!"

Well, in order to extinguish the flames more completely, Yang Ruoqing simply spoke more straightforwardly.

Yang Huazhong's thoughts were exposed by one word, and he was a little embarrassed, "I didn't think that way, I just thought that since Xiao Hei is getting married, it is a big deal. Since it is a big deal, maybe your aunt will come to us to help with the overall situation.

, because that’s how it used to be.”

Yang Ruoqing said: "The past was the past, and now is the present."

In the past, whenever there was any big or small matter in Lao Wang's family, the first thing Yang Huamei thought of and found was Lao Yang's family.

In the eyes of outsiders, those who don't know may sigh: This Mei'er is really devoted to her mother's family, and she always looks to her mother's family to be the backbone of everything!

But only those who know the inside story will understand how is she trying to praise her parents?

She is eating her mother's family!

She likes to avoid and shirk responsibility.

In other words, if things are done well, that is what your parents, brothers and nephews should do, but if things are done poorly?

Sorry, I'll just throw the blame decisively.

And those things that involve letting your mother's family take over all the decisions are, to put it bluntly, innocuous and trivial matters.

And those matters that are related to the core of Lao Wang's family, such as Dabai, Hongmei, and Xiaohei's education issues... Yang Huamei is not weak at all at this time, she has great ideas!

Yang Ruoqing had already seen through this, but the rest of the old Yang family had been deceived.

But as time went by, as one thing happened, the rest of Lao Yang's family gradually came to their senses.

No, this time about Xiao Hei, everyone's patience has been broken. Otherwise, there would not be such a tacit understanding that they would never mention Xiao Hei, not think about his whereabouts, and not discuss Yang Huamei's situation.

Daily life in the town...

Everyone has come to the conclusion that sometimes, rather than angry condemnation and denunciation, indifference and ignorance are the best responses.

"Qing'er, don't worry, your father and I are not stupid. How could it be possible that my aunt didn't tell me and I went to take care of things for myself?" Yang Huazhong touched his head and said sheepishly.

If you rush to look for work, wouldn’t it be a burden to shave your head?

Yang Ruoqing corrected her: "No one is optimistic about the marriage between the father, Xu, and Wang families. Even if the two of them get married, it will be a mess in the future."

"Whenever they quarrel in the future, my aunt will immediately complain about the matchmaker."

"So, I would like to advise you seriously and loyally, even if my aunt comes to you to help with this matter, even if what she says is better than what she sings, even if she plays the family card with you with tears and snot in her nose,

, don’t waver, let alone take the job.”

"This time, let's be a quiet relative and avoid these muddy waters. When Xiao Hei and Xu Qiaohong officially get married, at worst, we can show off a few more dollars in the red envelope. Anyway, you must be responsible for this matter.

Don’t do it!”

Yang Huazhong was shocked by Yang Ruoqing's serious attitude and looked at Yang Ruoqing.

Blacksmith Luo next to him also frowned and helped Gong Huo: "Third brother, don't think Qing'er is exaggerating. I see, it is really possible for the old Wang family to do such a thing."

"In the past, you guys, brothers and uncles, were busy doing things and contributing money and effort, but what happened in the end? Did anyone in the old Wang family say a word about it?"

Blacksmith Luo's words were like iron fists, hitting Yang Huazhong's heart.

Let’s not talk about the far distance, let’s talk about the recent time.

Meier was suddenly so angry with Xiao Hei that her right leg lost all feeling and she couldn't stand up.

First, I asked Wang Sheng to come over and have a look. It turned out that Wang Sheng couldn't control it, so he suggested sending it to the town.

The hospital in the town was not open, so they rushed to the hospital in the county.

In that tense atmosphere at that time, Yang Huazhong couldn't think too much. Now that he has come back to his senses, he carefully recalls the scene. After arriving at the county hospital, Dabai has been by Mei'er's side.

Then I take care of things like taking medicines and prepaying the medical fees myself.

When I came back the next day, I brought back a lot of medicine, which I also got myself.

All told, this trip to the county town cost nearly three taels of silver.
Chapter completed!