Chapter 280: When moving towards something you like and long for, every step of preparation will make people feel happy(2/3)
【Hongli: Humph ~】
"Tsk tsk."
Heiyang looked at Hongli deliberately pretending to be funny. Does she still need to guess what little bit she has in her heart?
Heiyang shook his head and laughed. He gently scooped up a spoonful of fish soup and sent it to his rosy lips.
"uh-huh."
Hongli: "!!!"
Seeing Heiyang's appearance, Hongli's facial muscles were about to get cramped. She couldn't help laughing and handed Heiyang a look again, saying lyrics!
"Xiao Li drinks soup, it is nutritious and delicious!"
"Hey hey."
Hongli felt that if she had a tail, her tail would be raised at this time and opened her mouth with a smile.
"Ah...um! It's delicious!"
"Just like it."
Heiyang smiled helplessly and forgave him for being unable to resist when he opened his mouth and waited for feeding his girlfriend.
"Another spoonful, you can't leave if you can't finish drinking."
"Hehe, ah..."
Everyone could hear and see the table, but they tacitly did not disturb each other. It turned out that Heiyang, who was sitting on the right side of Hongli, had changed positions with her little cousin on her left and ran to Hongli's left.
And the little cousin sat next to "Brother Lele" as she wished...
Sin, forgive my fellow believers...
Heiyang murmured in his heart, he was not a cadre and could not withstand this temptation.
"Hehe, it's awesome!"
After drinking a bowl of fish soup, Hongli felt warm all over her body. She licked the corner of her mouth and smiled happily at Heiyang.
"Well, it's my turn."
Hongli picked up the chopsticks and she was going to feed Heiyang!
Hongli stared at the plate of beef on the table, thinking that she could get there by standing up and bent down, but she found that she jumped off the stool and was shorter out of thin air and no longer had to bend down.
“Hey hey…”
Hongli stretched out her arms and told Heiyang while picking up food.
"I'll tell you, this beef..."
Before she could finish her words, she suddenly heard someone calling her.
"Xiaoli!!!"
"Oh my god!"
"Bang!"
Hongli was so scared that her hands shivered suddenly. She turned her head to look and saw her mother waving to her.
"Come here, your grandma calls you."
Lan Yuying explained.
"Oh, that's it, that's it?"
Hongli suddenly realized something and looked at the dining table again, and found that everyone was looking at her in a daze, with big doubts in her eyes.
"Ah?"
Hongli's expression gradually disappeared. She lowered her head and found that her chopsticks had already pinched the beef, to be precise, penetrated the beef, then pierced the plate, and finally pierced the table.
Hongli: "…"
"that……"
Hongli said weakly: "I said I didn't mean it, you will believe it!"
"Xiaoli?"
"Hey, here we come!"
Hongli hurriedly ran over.
"Hahaha, I'll explain to you when I come back!"
“…”
"Ahem..."
Heiyang pretended to be calm and reached out to pull out the chopsticks, ate the few slices of beef skewed on it, with an expression of enjoyment on his face.
"Well, this beef is delicious!"
Heiyang laughed whisperingly: "Everyone, what are you watching me do? Eat it, eat it while it's hot!"
Hongli: "Heiyang, I'll ask you to join us."
"Hey, here we come!"
Heiyang ran away, and two chopsticks fell on the table and trembled, and finally lying on the body.
A deskmate: "????"
“…”
"What are you doing..."
Heiyang looked at Hongli who was running over at Xiaozhao, looking confused.
"Well, that..."
Hongli was a little shy when she was abnormally twisted. She lowered her head and walked to Heiyang, held Heiyang's hand and pulled him over.
Before Heiyang could say anything, Hongli's words also made his heart beat faster.
"Grandpa and the others want to know you and want to see what kind of person my fiancé is..."
Heiyang's brain suddenly became boiling, his waist was sore, and his legs were hurt. He was not sick all over his body and began to get sick.
You have to meet the elders of the Hongli family!
This is actually a bit different from seeing parents, because no matter whether these elders are satisfied with his Heiyang or not, it actually has no big impact on him and Hongli at all. Their marriage is a foregone conclusion.
However, this is a custom passed down for a long time. Generally speaking, during the first year of engagement, you need to take your partner to recognize your relatives, and at the same time let the relatives have a clear idea.
In this way, when you send them invitations when you get married, it will not appear abrupt. It is also a reminder that they can prepare what they need in advance.
During the wedding, the relatives of both men and women will take time to arrive at the scene and express their feelings on the way to the wedding unless they really have something special.
It can be precious jewelry or ordinary greeting cards. The value is second, mainly depends on the quantity.
A gift represents a relative. In addition to blessings, it also has the role of "support" and "supervising".
Support means telling the other side: If you treat someone bad to my family after getting married, will you see so many feelings? They will turn into "iron fist for the correction of husband and wife relationships" at any time.
Supervisors are easy to understand: When you get married, you are all witnesses. If you have a quarrel or a divorce in the future, it will be very bad.
It’s not that relatives will interfere in their marriage, but that they will add locks to the couple on a psychological level.
What they send are their sincere blessings. Before you quarrel, think about whether you are worthy of your blessings to you?
There are also couples who have no confidence in each other and secretly get married in private and will not tie themselves to death directly, so as to leave a way out.
One possibility for such a person is that he has to keep his hands on everything, and the other possibility is that his marriage is not supported by his family, just like the former sect leader of the Medicine King Sect of the Five Elements Sect.
Of course, the kind of guy who thinks about how to run away before getting married is not included.
Heiyang Hongli didn't need to leave any way out, nor did she think about leaving any way out, and they didn't need others to stabilize their relationship.
Their purpose is pure, just to make a sense of ritual, telling the other party that they value him (her).
So some people say this: the more relatives come and the more lively they come, the more loving they are, the more loving the couple are.
Although this is one-sided, it makes some sense.
What Heiyang Hongli is about to do is to meet with relatives and elders to advance future blessings.
This is a two-way promise. After the relatives called Heiyang, if they didn't say anything they were dissatisfied, they just agreed that they would definitely appear on the wedding day.
Even if you really have something to lose, you must ask someone to explain it, otherwise you will be thrown into a pile of bad things by some people who are shattered.
For example, if you are shameless and don’t keep your word, your reputation will become foul!
Of course, after all, it is not their own children. Everyone just recognizes individuals and looks familiar and will not use too strict standards to examine Heiyang.
You are strict without appearing to be responsible, but will leave a very tricky and mean impression.
You said that your original intention was to protect your children from being deceived, but few of them felt that you had protected her, and they would hate you together.
This is the same as Heiyang Hongli's failure to give her children juice. It will cause trouble if she interferes in other people's affairs.
To be continued...