Chapter 77 Psychic Shock
After leaving Xia's house, Jiang Feng drove to find a hotel while thinking about the conversation he had just had with Xia Lingling.
In fact, there are some things that he doesn't need to say, such as talking about Xia Lingling's brothers. At best, this is playing the emotional card, but at worst, it is using the girl's family affection to persuade.
Although the ultimate goal is for the good of the other party, it must have caused trouble to the girl at the moment.
Jiang Feng knew this in his heart, but he ultimately chose to do this for three reasons:
First, it’s because of Xia Lingling’s character. Strictly speaking, she is not the kind of girl who is greedy for vanity. Although she also fantasizes about marrying a rich man, she will not give up her criteria for choosing a spouse just because the other person is a rich man.
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If Jiang Feng tries to persuade her and tells her what kind of life she can live after marrying a billionaire, she probably won't be able to convince her. After all, she is still young now and has never experienced the kind of money she needs urgently but cannot get it.
Then I looked around for someone to borrow and was helpless when I couldn't borrow it.
Therefore, serious persuasion will definitely not work.
Second, as a matchmaker, Jiang Feng has the obligation to help both men and women clearly explain all aspects of the interest relationship. Although the woman's parents can do this, doing so is actually the matchmaker's dereliction of duty.
Because it is normal for a matchmaker to persuade such things. This is the matchmaker's duty. No one will hate the matchmaker for this. But if you push this kind of thing to the parents to persuade, it will really hurt the woman.
This is completely irresponsible behavior. As a professional matchmaker, Jiang Feng certainly cannot make this mistake.
Third, Jiang Feng believes in his cheating ability. Since the relationship between Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling can reach 83 points, and the family relationship is as high as 84 points, it proves that the two of them can definitely be happy together.
Now that we know the result, we must try our best to match him, instead of giving up when the woman’s first impression of the man’s appearance is not good.
To put it bluntly, without his help, Xia Lingling might be able to marry into a good family, but it would be extremely difficult to marry someone whose relationship between husband and wife and family relationship is above 80 points!
After all, those who can reach this score are all model couples and model families selected from a thousand. This is really not something that can be encountered casually. Otherwise, the divorce rate in our country would not be so high.
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And the probability of her meeting a scumbag is not small. After all, a guy who can match her in appearance is an out-and-out handsome guy. There are many temptations around such a person, and it is not surprising to have an affair.
In short, without Jiang Feng's help, there would be a big question mark as to whether Xia Lingling could live a happy and stable life.
Based on the above, this is the reason why Jiang Feng chose to persuade Xia Lingling from the perspective of family ties.
Even though she was currently troubled, Jiang Feng still had the trump card of "reading faces". After she had thought about it, he would use "reading faces" to enhance her confidence in the marriage. After getting along with her, she discovered other things about Wei Xuefeng.
With the shining point, the relationship between the two people will naturally be improved to the ideal state.
Thinking of this, Jiang Feng, who felt at ease, stopped thinking about it and concentrated on driving!
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In front of Xiajia.
When Xia's mother was planning to use her life experience to talk to her daughter about what should be focused on in marriage, a taxi quickly drove over and stopped at their house.
Then, the eldest son of the neighbor next door got out of the taxi with a haggard look, walked quickly to them, and said with red eyes: "Uncle Xia, Aunt Xia, my dad was hospitalized for heart failure some time ago and needs a heart transplant. The surgery fee is
The total cost of before and after care and other aspects is nearly one million, and our family really can’t raise that much money!
I have no choice but to go back to the village and ask for help from everyone. I hope that Uncle Xia and Aunt Xia can lend me a sum of money. No matter how much or how little I borrow, our family will be grateful. We, the brothers and sisters, will definitely work hard to repay this money in the future!
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The three members of the Xia family couldn't help but look at each other in shock after hearing this.
As neighbors, they had known that each other's father had been sent to the hospital because he was feeling unwell, but they did not expect that it would be so serious that he suffered from heart failure.
Now that people's lives are at stake, and they are neighbors who have known each other for decades, even if the Xia family's economic conditions are average, this favor must be done.
Therefore, as the head of the family, Xia's father only thought about it for less than three seconds before sighing: "Da Jun, you also know the situation of our family. I can only lend you 20,000 yuan. If there is more, there is nothing we can do!"
Hearing this, Da Jun said with gratitude on his face: "Father Xia, I won't say more words of thanks. I will keep them all in my heart. If you need something later, just call me. We brothers and sisters will be here on call!"
Next, Xia's father scanned the QR code on WeChat and transferred 20,000 yuan to Dajun.
Then the family of three watched the army go to other houses to borrow money.
This sudden scene had a huge psychological impact on Xia Lingling.
In the past, whether it was a matchmaker or a mother, she would just listen to the question of how important money was in front of her, without much emotion. She always believed that the money was enough to spend, and there was no need to wrong herself for money.
I think when she was in college, there were already so-called successful people outside the school who wanted to take care of her. As long as she could be on call, they would give her 30,000 yuan a month.
She doesn't even look at this kind of thing.
But the scene just now really taught her the most realistic lesson.
In order to treat his father, the neighbor's eldest brother had to go door-to-door to ask for help. For the nearly one million medical expenses, the family would probably have to resort to selling iron and begging grandpa and grandma everywhere. I don't know if they can raise enough money for the huge medical expenses.
What would happen if this happened to their family?
Thinking of this, Xia Lingling couldn't help but shudder. She realized that if this hypothesis was true, then their family would probably be helpless and would have to go around asking for money like the neighbor's eldest brother.
Even if you ask for help, you probably won’t be able to raise so much money.
At this moment, Xia Lingling was no longer as resistant to her blind date with Wei Xuefeng as before.
Xia's mother sighed and said: "This army is quite pitiful. I heard that he had a girlfriend some time ago and the two of them had already planned to get married. But now that his father's incident has come out, it is estimated that this marriage is very likely to happen."
Eighty-nine is blown."
Xia's father also sighed: "The sky is unpredictable, and people are prone to misfortune and fortune. This kind of thing is beyond human control. Once a serious illness like this occurs, unless the sick person is left to die, the family will basically be in trouble."
Then it’s over!”
Chapter completed!