678, The workplace does not believe in tears (2/3)
"Mom, mom." When Tang Sanjian opened the show on the stage, Tangtang'er called Huang Xiangning softly.
"What's wrong? Tangtang?" Huang Xiangning leaned down and put his ear on the little man's mouth.
Tangtang'er knew she couldn't speak now, but she wanted to speak, so she kept her voice low and covered her mouth with her hands, as if she were a thief. However, her voice was too low and Huang Xiangning didn't hear it clearly, leaving the little person
Speak louder. The little lady looked around. Except Pan Fugui, who paid attention to her, everyone was looking at the stage and listening to Sanjian's father speak.
"Dad doesn't just bully children."
This is what Tangtang'er wanted to say, which made Huang Xiangning dumbfounded. The little man was still thinking about being tricked by a trap question yesterday.
On the stage, after Tang Sanjian asked the eight people at the round table to introduce themselves, he took the initiative to ask a question. He said: "I want to ask everyone a question. This question is for primary school students, but I think many college students may also make mistakes. Is it faster for a rabbit to go up a mountain or down a mountain?
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Everyone on the scene immediately whispered to each other. Candy was even more surprised. It was the rabbit again. She hates the rabbit now! The rabbit cheated her snacks and ruined her beautiful life. But she didn’t hate all the rabbits, she only hated the rabbits in line and the ones going up the mountain.
She still loved the rabbit that came down the mountain, and other rabbits, such as Tang Xiaotang, who was holding her in her arms at the moment. Huang Xiangning repeatedly asked her to put it down, but she refused.
Tang Sanjian didn't wait for the students to answer, and took the initiative to say: "According to common sense, going up a mountain requires overcoming gravity, so the speed of going up the mountain is slow, but the rabbit is different. The rabbit's front legs are shorter than the hind legs. When it goes up the mountain, it can just overcome the slope, and when going down the mountain, it is different.
It’s easy to fall when you’re riding, so you have to slow down, causing the speed up the mountain to be faster than the speed down the mountain.”
"I give this example to say that what we learn in school is theoretical knowledge, and the test is also theoretical knowledge, but theoretical knowledge is not the same as work ability. Only by integrating theory with practice and starting from reality can we truly solve problems. Be able to solve problems
It is your ability that represents your value. One of the most common mistakes college graduates make when they first enter the society is to apply mechanically."
At this point, Tang Sanjian began to raise the topic to everyone at the round table: "Tang Shuang, what do you think?"
"Dad is attacking Xiaoshuang, how bad it is." Cantang'er muttered, she is completely on Tang Shuang's side now, Sanjian's father? Humph!
Everyone present who knew the relationship between Tang Shuang and Tang Sanjian smiled.
Tang Shuang said unhurriedly: "This example is very good. We can not only draw the truth that theory must be connected with practice, but also see many other issues. For example, a person's strengths and weaknesses."
"Rabbits go uphill quickly, but go downhill slowly. Each of us is just like a rabbit. We all have long and short boards. Obviously, there is no perfect all-rounder. When we were in school, the teacher repeatedly told us that there should be no shortcomings.
I'm good at Chinese but not good at math. If I'm not good at it, I'll fail the class and repeat the grade.
The thinking in school is different from the thinking in the workplace. In the workplace, you must recognize your strengths and weaknesses and acknowledge their existence. Mature people will develop their strengths, while those who are new to society will
Try to make up for your shortcomings and speak nicely, which is called the barrel effect."
"In my opinion, this theory is wrong. This is a typical all-round development thinking. Our education requires all-rounders, but our society never requires all-rounders, and it is impossible to find all-rounders.
Become an expert in your field of expertise, and the depth of your expertise is directly related to your growth."
"If everyone wants to be an all-rounder, why do we need to work in a team? One person can do it all."
As soon as Tang Shuang finished speaking, a boy from the School of Economics at the round table took the initiative to take over the topic and said: "Tang Shuang is right. Comprehensive development thinking is a common idea among students, but the reality is that comprehensive development thinking does not exist in our society.
Talent, everyone's energy is limited, there are things they are good at and things they are not good at. It is precisely because of this difference that society is richer and more diverse, and it is precisely because of this that it has a comparative advantage. A rabbit goes up a mountain faster than it goes down a mountain, which is an advantage.
It’s an ability that others don’t have.”
With the beginning, everyone gradually opened up the topic and talked a lot about the rabbit that goes up the mountain faster than it goes down the mountain. Candy in the audience was stunned for a while. She didn't understand most of the words, but she understood the rabbit.
I understand. I vaguely knew that everyone was talking about rabbits, but I didn’t understand what they were talking about specifically. When I asked Pan Fugui, Pan Fugui didn’t understand either and looked confused.
"Xiaotang, what are they talking about? Are they talking about rabbits?"
Helpless, Tangtang'er turned to Tang Xiaotang in her arms for help. Tang Xiaotang was also a rabbit, a cute pink rabbit doll. She said she was still young and couldn't understand.
Tangtang'er looked sideways at her mother. Her mother looked at the stage with a smile on her face, looking very serious. Tangtang'er followed her mother's gaze and looked over. It was Xiaoshuang. Her mother was looking at Xiaoshuang, and she was very proud.
Looks like, oh my, I really envy Xiaoshuang, she can make her mother proud.
Mom is proud of Xiaoshuang, so what Xiaoshuang said must be very good. Although Tangtang'er doesn't understand, it doesn't stop her from admiring her from the bottom of her heart. Xiaoshuang is awesome.
Look at me, look at me, look at me!!!
Tangtang'er stared at Tang Shuang on the stage, calling Xiaoshuang to look over quickly, she wanted to give him a thumbs up.
Tang Shuang seemed to have a connection and really looked over. Tangtang'er was pleasantly surprised and quickly waved to him and gave him a cute thumbs up. Tang Shuang smiled at her and continued to focus on the stage.
Focusing on the theme, everyone talked about the so-called thinking of college students, such as shyness, lack of self-judgment, being easily influenced by others, such as having no concept of ability boundaries, being obsessed with verbal battles about winning or losing, being prone to mental collapse, sometimes being too optimistic, and sometimes being too optimistic.
Pessimistic, emotionally unstable, and prone to losing control, such as always ignoring hidden costs.
"In order to save explicit costs, we often ignore implicit costs. Among them, time costs are the most easily overlooked. For example, I found a job in a wind and mine area and wanted to find a place to live at the same time. Now I have two options.
The first is to find a rental house near the wind and mine area, but the price is expensive. One month
One thousand, the second is to find a rental house in the suburbs, the rent is only 400. Freshly graduated college students often choose to live in the suburbs, but he never thought that if the daily commuting time to and from work is added, and the overtime wages are converted, a
The hidden capital lost every month is much more than the six hundred yuan saved..."
The speaker was another male student from the School of Economics, and he was talking eloquently.
Tang Shuang actively participated in the exchange at the beginning, but as he talked, he felt that the topic was straying. He did not agree with many opinions. For example, Ji Rubing from the School of Film and Television said that students’ thinking includes not knowing how to manage connections, and some people even asked if they didn’t understand.
This is the most typical student thinking.
"We don't believe in tears in the workplace, and we don't need them. We have to cry at home."
"You either stand out or you lose."
"Overtime, staying up late, KPI, competition, pressure..."
Chapter completed!