The parent was not hit, and saw that everyone was looking at him and sat down with awkward expression.

Gu Mo asked the parent, "As a parent, do you know that your child is very talented in sports when you ask your child to develop as you think?"

The parent was confused.

Gu Mo said: "The best record of your child's 100-meter sprint is 11.9 seconds. Do you know how long is the shortest sprint record in the world? It is 9.58 seconds. This means that your child is only more than the international one.

The championship was more than a second late."

The parent was stunned, "This, this... is my child really that powerful?"

"Look, you don't understand the child's talent at all and have not spent any effort to understand it. Just blame the child for not being excellent enough. Is it your fault or the child's fault?"

Gu Mo looked at the others.

"All you guys here, you hope that the children can understand what you think and grow up according to your ideas. So have you understood your own children? Do you know what to do to make them develop better?"

"What else do we need to know? How can we have that time when we are busy all day long..."

"Aren't children all that like that? I think it's like this, today is like this, tomorrow is like that, it's very fickle, who can understand it..."

"I'm worthy of him for giving him food and drink to him for his studies. I have to spend so much effort on my part, why should I give birth to him?"

"That's right, you gave birth to them and brought them to this world. Don't think that you have given birth to a child, it's a great kindness to the child. You think that your child has owed you all his life and have to pay off the debt..."

"You must know that when you gave birth to her, you never asked him if he would come to this world and be your child. So it is your own decision to give birth to him, and it is your one-sided choice for him to eat and drink.

Then no matter how hard it is for you to raise a child, it has nothing to do with this child..."

"Maybe they may give children a chance to choose which family to be born in. They may not necessarily choose you, so from this level, you think this child is not good, and for the child, you have no comparison with other parents.

Being selected to be a parent’s competitiveness…”

"When you want your children to become what you imagined, are you the kind of person you think?"

"You ask yourself again, are you excellent? You want your child to become like you?"

"You go back and ask your parents, are you the kind of children they want? If not, should you also take the class well? Let yourself become the kind of children their parents want?"

Every word Gu Mo said was loud and deafening.

The parents were silent, and the whole auditorium was silent.

"You haven't become the kind of children your parents want, why do you want your child to become the kind of children you want? Children are also individuals with independent consciousness and personality, so why can't they have their own personality and preferences?

?”

"It is undeniable that parents play an extremely important role in their children's lives, throughout the whole life, but what are the advantages of adults compared to children? The only advantage is that they are dozens of years older than their children, and they think they have rich life experience, so

When they begin to have their own thoughts, the best performance as parents is to learn to listen to their children's hearts, rather than using adult standards to ask them to teach them how to make a good accessory."

"What parents need to do is to love their children first, rather than letting them learn filial piety and gratitude first, because this is equivalent to overdrawing their feelings from their children in advance. When their children's feelings for you are consumed in advance, please ask, as parents, you

What's left?"

"And the arrival of children also creates value for you, satisfying your desire to be a parent, satisfying your need to pass on the family line, and satisfying your blood relationship, dreams and wishes, and the continuation of your family..."

"The children give you much more than you give them. If you think your child is not satisfied, you can beat or scold him at any time, or even abandon him easily. But what about the children? You must accept you after your life.

The pressure imposed on him by putting your expectations on him, all will and preferences can only be changed according to your preferences, so don’t think it’s not easy to have children, so take it for granted, so you will feel that your children owe you…”

"If you really just want to raise a child who obeys your own words and has no self-soul, then I suggest you don't have to work so hard to raise a child. Just raise a dog. If you shout, it will come and look at you immediately

Wag your tail.”

"Of course, it is wrong to say that the relationship between parents and children is so weak. After all, blood relationships are endless. Parents have the obligation to teach their children to grow up, and children also have the obligation to give back their parents' grace in the future..."

"So, the relationship between children and parents is a mutually beneficial symbiotic relationship. If the child does something wrong, parents should advise them, but the advice is moderate."

Intelligent brain, “…!?”

My master will become an engineer of the human soul if he disagrees.

He was so angry that he said it was a smart brain that he wanted to give birth to a baby and pull it out immediately!

At this moment, the parents were very silent and looked at each other, but they could not find a word to refute Gu Mo.

It is undeniable that parents love their children.

Because they once lived in an era when they were not rich, they missed many opportunities to take themselves to the next level.

When they have children, they pass on their regrets to their children, eager to hope that their children will become dragons, and hope that they can fulfill their unfulfilled wishes through their children's hands.

However, it is precisely because of their own limitations that they are eager to achieve success and cannot give their children better guidance.

Sometimes I even fall into a vicious circle of seeking medical treatment in a hurry, and eventually ruining my child, but I still don’t know where my failure is.

Gu Mo listed data and cases of children who committed suicide due to parental conflicts within the past five years.

This number is very large. At least hundreds of thousands of teenagers commit suicide every year due to parents' pressure.

"Maybe in your opinion, it may be very unfilial to spend so many years of effort to cultivate the child, but he did not appreciate it, but went to commit suicide instead."
Chapter completed!