Chapter 895: Troubled
"And," Gu Qingling suddenly frowned and said, "Do you think the two boys in the big room seem to be too weak?"
I usually don’t think that when the four boys in the second house came, the two boys in the first house were suppressed and felt wronged at all times.
If she hadn't been sitting there, Gu Qingling would have suspected that Mrs. Yao would have gone to ask Mrs. Yao for reasoning.
Gu Qingling wondered if she paid too little attention to raising children in a big house?
"It's a bit, it's too easy to be wronged." Li Wenchong did feel this way.
As children, it is normal to play and make trouble, but the two boys in the big house are a little restrained and seem to be too rude.
Because I was following the rules, I wanted others to tell them together. But what I met was the second house who had the final say and was completely unreasonable, and the scholar met a soldier and felt that he was indecisive.
The two boys in the big house are still young and don’t know this sentence, but they give people this feeling.
"Is the eldest lady too tightly?" Li Wenchong said guessingly, "I remember you were anxious to let the two boys in the big room go to kindergarten before, because you were worried that the eldest lady was too strict and wanted them to relax."
"It seems that even if they go to kindergarten, they can't completely get rid of the influence of the eldest lady on them. I'm afraid they are a little strict in private. This is the case for children. It's not good if you manage too strictly, and it won't work either." No matter what the second wife looks like, it's like the big wife looks like.
Like when she trained her eldest granddaughter Yao Anxin, her second granddaughter Yao Anhong, her third granddaughter Yao Anyi, and her fourth granddaughter Yao Anling, she was the right medicine and put in hard work.
When everyone was still in Jinling, she could still take care of her, but later she remarried and couldn't take care of her.
She always insists on the involvement of Li's husband's family in Yao's affairs and can attract gossip. Gu Qingling doesn't want to play this evil person, so she doesn't care much about it when she supports the big direction and lets the two houses make trouble for themselves.
Li Wenchong: "Yes, it's hard to manage children. Every child has the personality of each child, and he has to pay attention to strategies in education. One must use another strategy, and there is no template that can be applied. No matter how experienced people are, they cannot guarantee that every child they raise is fine."
Even Gu Qingling dared not say that he taught Master Yao Jiu very perfectly now, so he can only say that the results are gratifying.
He didn't expect that Yao Jiuye was smart, extremely clever, and had a very broad vision, and had his own ideas.
Having ideas is a good thing, but on the other hand, it is a bad thing - if it weren't for his enlightened and open-minded brother, if he wasn't very favored, let alone Master Yao Jiu, he could have killed himself by himself even those ideas of Gu Qingling.
Without Li Wenchong's favor, looking for the foundation in front of him, if Li Wenchong had not reconciled in the middle, many things would not be today, and Gu Qingling would have lost her life in the moment when she emerged.
So, Gu Qingling is both successful and defeated. Many of her things depend on Li Wenchong in the middle. If she does not have him, she will end up miserably.
Of course, it is also because of him that Gu Qingling is so bold.
Otherwise, she wouldn't dare to be as bold as she is now. She must have been cautious and survived.
This is how people are, the courage to do the big things they have.
Li Wenchong helped her with the courage she had now.
The couple had a long conversation about parenting.
They didn't know how Mrs. Yao raised her children, but just by looking at the results, the situation might be unsatisfactory.
I don’t care if I see it, but how do I care to avoid causing misunderstandings from Mrs. Yao and take care of two children?
"I think you may have to start from the school." Li Wenchong said, "The school is more authoritative. Hold a parent-teacher meeting and let parents communicate with each other, and then ask the teacher to talk about the parenting scriptures... I can't say that it's all useful, but if I talk too much, I will always listen to it."
"We also need to make Mrs. Yao busy and make her have no time to take care of her children." Gu Qingling made up her mind that she would never let Mrs. Yao be idle for the next period of time.
She even had the idea of asking Mrs. Yao to have another baby - although it was a bit dangerous for an elderly mother, there was nothing to be afraid of with Lingquan here.
The only person who will suffer a little is probably Mrs. Yao.
"Uh..." Li Wenchong touched his nose in disappointment and said, "Did I not tell you? In fact, your eldest daughter-in-law... has never been contraceptive. Judging from her appearance, she seems to want to get pregnant with another baby."
Gu Qingling widened her eyes.
"It was very obvious when your second daughter-in-law gave birth. But later, before the fate came, she gradually became weak and focused on her two children." She even acted privately without telling her uncle Yao, and promised her that she would not give birth to her. She later regretted her, saying that she was Mrs. Yao.
Inadvertently, Li Wenchong revealed the information he was staring at the inner courtyards of each family.
Gu Qingling didn't say anything.
Li Wenchong had told her that he was the eyeliner of Emperor Mingguang and held Emperor Mingguang's secret guard in his hand.
It can be said that Li Wenchong was the last step of secret chess left to him by Emperor Mingguang.
Therefore, Li Wenchong knew about the inner courtyards of each family, and Gu Qingling didn't think it was strange.
"My second daughter-in-law probably doesn't want to give birth, right?"
"I don't know this. It's so far away, I can't find out so clearly. But you can tell her that the four children are so annoying that she probably won't want to give birth." Li Wenchong looked at Gu Qingling and said, "If you really plan to give birth to another daughter-in-law, you have to be mentally prepared."
"What mental preparation?"
"You have the mental preparation for a secret recipe for having a child." Which family in Beijing would dislike their daughter-in-law for giving birth to less children?
When Mrs. Yao was young, she was not old and was just over thirty years old. Mrs. Yao was almost forty years old and was "old clams were beads".
"It's okay, she is not fifty years old and is well maintained. Since she has time to worry about Shou Ge'er and Kang Ge'er's affairs, I think she has time to have a small baby."
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! "Are you afraid that she will spoil that little person then?"
Gu Qingling was silent for a moment: "Let's see it then. It really won't work. Let Sister Xin think of a solution. She is old and doesn't have so much time to take care of the children. Let her learn from the second room and hand over the younger one to the older brother."
"That depends on Brother Shou and Brother Kang was educated."
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Anyway, it’s not my own business, so Li Wenchong doesn’t care whether Mrs. Yao can have a new life.
If this could make Gu Qingling feel more at ease, he would be happy to let Mrs. Yao suffer for another time.
The next day, Yao Anling moved into Prince Chong's mansion happily in a package.
Gu Qingling indeed prepared a separate yard for her, which was very close to Master Yao Jiu's yard. The uncle and nephew could meet and talk even if they had nothing to do.
Of course, because Prince Chong's mansion had female relatives, it was not convenient for Mr. Yao Jiu to invite the prince to visit his house again.
They just happened to have their own "Baowuzhibao" and there are places for gatherings there, so there is no need to worry too much.
Some people were also curious about Yao Jiuye’s "big niece" and asked him what kind of person Miss Yao Si was.
Master Yao Jiu rolled his eyes: "Go and go, don't ask about my niece. Who can ask about other people's female relatives? Do you know the rules?"
Someone smiled and said, "Hehehe... Isn't this brother still single? Please help me think about it. No matter what, we are young talents, what's wrong with calling you a big nephew?"
"Go and go to the martial arts training ground to gesture."
After hearing this, the people on the side quickly encouraged: "Go and go, go quickly. Whoever doesn't go will be the puppy."
"Hahahaha...Who wants to go to the martial arts training ground? Take me one, I want to go too."
"This kid is thinking about his sister-in-law, Brother Can is angry."
"Oh, who is so brave that he dares to hit Brother Can's sister-in-law? Isn't his sister-in-law already married?"
"No, it's another one, from the second bedroom."
Chapter completed!