At this time, a mother who gave birth to a second child was very experienced and said, "It's very simple. He's used to calling him. For example, when my daughter was young, I asked her to call her father. So when she grew up, she would look for her father whenever she had something to do, and I was free."

The mothers sitting next to her were seeking scriptures from her.

It turns out that children call themselves mothers whenever they have something to do, but they are actually "indiscriminate" by mothers themselves.

Before the child can speak, he is a mother and has selfish intentions. He wants to hear the child call himself the first person he calls himself, and he keeps teaching his child to call him "mom". In order to induce his child to call himself, he also uses various benefits to "tempt" them.

When the children really learn it, the mothers are very happy. In order to consolidate their children's behavior, they continue to "tempt" them with various benefits.

In this process, mothers are actually telling their children - baby, mothers are the best for you, and no matter what you have, mothers will help you.

"It seems, isn't this a problem?" a mother asked in confusion.

The second child mother smiled: "No problem, I didn't say it has any problems. From a psychological perspective, for the child, this is a positive feedback. It teaches the child to ask for help from adults when encountering any problems. The person who asked for help is not someone else, but his mother. During the process of growing up and learning, the child suffered several experiments and found that this was a correct conclusion. What kind of reaction do you think he will have?"

"What kind of reaction?"

"Of course, no matter what happens, the first thing is to find your mother. As soon as he looks for you, you will help him. As soon as he looks for you, you will help him... After a long time, he will stir you up, who will he look for?"

The mothers were confused: "But... that's my child, I can't refuse him, right? And if I refuse too much, it's not good for the child, right?"

Second child mother: "I didn't ask you to reject the child, but wanted to teach the child, and ask the mother for help in part of the matter and the father for help in part. Let him learn to divide the time and ask for help in part of the matter."

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Although Gu Qingling also hoped that Master Yao Jiu would get close to him, she really didn't want Master Yao Jiu to call him "Mother" whenever he had anything to do in the future.

Let Master Yao Jiu get used to the existence of maids and let him know what things should be asked for help from whom so that she can relax.

Otherwise, if Mr. Yao Jiu can speak and run away, Gu Qingling will have really worked hard - it will be difficult to be mixed up by the child, and it will be difficult to do something else. This is why, in this era, the big family, the head maids, and the mothers will always arrange for the nurses, maids and other children to take care of the children, because if she didn't do that, she wouldn't be able to take action to manage the common affairs.

Gu Qingling didn't want to throw Master Yao Jiu to the nurse. He was close to the nurse and treated the nurse as another mother.

Just like Mrs. Yao, she was born in a scholarly family and was virtuous and kind, but she married into the Yao family and brought the nanny with her?

Not only did she bring the nurse, she also arranged work for the nurse, preparing to support her in her old age.

But what if it were a modern "nanny"?

In modern society, there are several children raised by nannies who will say after they grow up: "I want to support the nanny."

A nanny is just a job.

When a child learns to be independent, she should abdicate and give up the virtuous and return to her job.

Gu Qingling plans to arrange this way for the wet nurse beside Mr. Yao Jiu - only responsible for breastfeeding, everything else has nothing to do with you. One day, Mr. Yao Jiu no longer needs to drink milk, and the wet nurse can leave.

Gu Qingling can ask the maid to take care of Yao Jiuye’s daily life, but the child’s education issues must be held tightly in her hands.

Gu Qingling explained that the eldest maid Chuntian understood it, but unfortunately, she was an unmarried girl and had never taken care of her children. How could she understand the truth in it? She only thought that the old lady was "sorrowing" herself.

She smiled and said, "Old Mr. Wang, I am the one who serves my master. Master Jiu shouted and told me to do work. Isn't that right? If Master Jiu is willing to use me, I will be happy. This means Master Jiu likes me."

"That's right. If he likes to find you whenever he has something to do, he must like you and trust you, otherwise he won't look for you." Gu Qingling said, "I'm afraid that you will have too much trouble and will not be busy at that time. Now you know why I named his maid 'Shusu'?"

"Is it to facilitate Master Jiu to call her name? Old Lady, you have thought too carefully, right?" The eldest maid Chuntian finally realized.

She said, why is the maid's name different from everyone's? It turns out that she is waiting for everyone here.

"You are my maid, and you will definitely follow me in normal times. Even if Master Jiu wants to find you, you will not be able to follow him every day. Shu Su is my maid for him. He has been following him all day, so he naturally has to give him a name." As he said that, Gu Qingling smiled and looked at Shu Su, the eldest maid standing beside him.

The eldest maid Shusu was stunned for a moment, came to his senses, and hurriedly thanked Gu Qingling, saying that she would definitely serve Master Jiu well in the future and let Master Jiu grow up healthily.

When she was transferred to Master Yao Jiu, Shusu had already guessed the old lady's intention. She would definitely stay with Master Yao Jiu to serve him in the future.

But what Shu Su didn't expect was that the old lady had already made arrangements since she was naming her name.

Gu Qingling said: "I believe in you. I would have known that you were calm and down-to-earth, with fine and meticulous. I can rest assured as you serve Xiaojiu."

The news that Master Yao Jiu would call people spread throughout the Yao Mansion overnight.

Even Mr. Yao, who was preparing for the exam, ran to Gu Qingling, said goodbye to her, and joined in the fun. Mr. Yao Jiu called him "Brother".

“ge-ge!”

"Hey!" When Mr. Yao heard that Mr. Yao successfully called out "Brother", he was very happy. He carried Mr. Yao into his arms with a smile on his serious face.

It has been almost twelve years since Yao Anxin was born. It has been a long time since Mr. Yao held such a young child.

Now that I hold it in my arms, it feels a little different.

If Gu Qingling hadn't recognized Yao Jiu's son in advance, she would have wanted to take back their big house to raise the baby in front of her.

"Xiaojiu is so close to me. Whenever I teach, I will call you brother, hahahahaha..."

On the side, Mr. Yao rolled his eyes and said, "What do you know when you teach me? It was obvious that I taught me for an afternoon, but I finally taught me that I finally got a bargain."

As he said that, he asked Master Yao Jiu to call him brother.

Master Yao Jiu didn't know whether it was good or bad. Someone teased him, so he opened his mouth and shouted, "ge-ge."

The smile on his face was so cute.

Whether it was Mrs. Yao, Mrs. Yao Er, Mrs. Yao San, when they saw him, they were all jealous.

Yao Erfu secretly touched his stomach, hoping that the children he gave birth to in the future would be as cute as Yao Jiuye.
Chapter completed!