Don't ask why.

Asked, Yao Anling thought Yao Anyi was more "easy to bully" and was more convenient to call.

After all, compared to Yao Anyi, Yao Anhong is her biological brother. She is "in poor health" since childhood, and Yao Anling is reluctant to disturb her biological brother's hard study. Yao Anxin is the only two girl in the group, and she is the oldest and is about to go to bed. Yao Anling is embarrassed to always use this cousin who is so many older than her.

The most important thing is that the two are too different in age, and Yao Anling always feels that her cousin doesn't understand what she is saying, and she is distressed.

Yao Anxin: “…”

——Are you sure I don’t understand?

——Are you sure it’s not because you have too many ideas and I can’t keep up with your brain circuit?

The group of people from the kindergarten group gave Gu Qingling a gift and went to everyone in a regular manner.

Yao Anling signaled that Yao Anyi was ready and she was about to start asking questions. After receiving Yao Anyi's response, Yao Anling took out the "questionnaire" and asked the old lady Gu Qingling one question at a time.

"It seems you have discovered it," Gu Qingling said with a smile, "It is true. Many people think that children don't understand anything. When they grow up, they will understand it. But in fact, it is not like this. We can assume that the child is a piece of blank paper and he doesn't understand anything at the beginning, but it is not that 'waiting that he grows up' that he will understand it naturally, but what he has learned and what he knows."

"Why do some adults think that even though he didn't teach, the child understood? In fact, it was not that he didn't teach, but that he didn't notice where the child learned it."

"A child's learning does not start by teaching him to read and recognize words, but by his birth, he has been learning. He has to learn to breathe, learn to drink milk, learn to eat, learn to understand the world..."

...

Gu Qingling opened a new door for these children, and she even used Yao's Academy as a metaphor.

There are so many yards at home, so she just needs to invite her husband to her home. Why do you have to set up a special academy and send them to the academy?

There are only four children in the family. Even if you have not yet married, you only have seven people, so there is no need to spend so much money to set up a separate academy.

But Gu Qingling told them that this is not the case.

The Yao Family Academy is compared to a "closed environment", and their food, drink, defecation and urination are all placed in it. So whether it is their academic situation or living habits, they must follow the rules of the Yao Family Academy. So in the long run, will they become what Yao Family Academy expects and grow into the Yao Family Academy?

"Don't rush to deny it. Think about it carefully. How did you develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early? Did you develop it in my yard or did you develop it with your parents at the command?"

"Did your etiquette and rules be developed slowly because you hired a nanny, or because you were placed in a general environment like Yao's Academy, and with the strict requirements of the nanny and the husband?"

"Look at you now, look at what you looked like before I interfered in your teachings, and compare them carefully. When did you start to change? And what changes have happened around you before and after this change?"

"People are one of the factors, and the environment is also very important. The environment I have shaped you is to make you progress better and become the person you want to be."

...

The consequence of asking the questionnaire with the old lady Gu Qingling is that she has a little essay when she goes back - writing a related ideological report summary.

"Wuwuwu...Why should I ask the old lady? Another homework, it's so miserable for us..." On the way back, Yao Anling cried for a while.

Yao Anyi looked at her and was speechless: Isn’t it tired to act like this every time?

But he didn't dare to say it, so he could only pretend that he didn't know it, and then lowered his head and recalled the old lady's words, thinking about whether it was like that.

Each of them, each of them, changed greatly after the old lady intervened.

Among them, because of the old lady, he was able to be a boy with honor and go to school with his cousin Yao Anhong, do homework and exercise together (but their exercise is boxing, while girls only play the Wuqin show).

As a girl, in order to cover up his secret, he had to lower his head and hold his chest down, for fear that others would see his secret.

In the eyes of others, he became "ugly and weak", which is what Yao Anling scolded him the most - a boy, like a sissy, is really annoying.

But what did the old lady say at that time?

The old lady specially called Yao Anling to the front and said, "Sister Ling, do you know why Brother Yi became like that?"

"How can I know why?"

"Because, he was raised as a girl since he was a child, and he had to follow the rules of girls and do what girls should do. If he doesn't do well, he will be punished. Anything that will be suspected to be a boy is you can do, but he can't."

...

This doesn't work, that doesn't work. Yao Anyi, who was forcibly restrained, has really lost his energy and dared to do something that others allow. That's it, he has to be frightened, afraid that his secret will be discovered.

At that time, the old lady gave a "specific example" just to "educate" Yao Anling, but now when she thinks about it, Yao Anyi seems to understand why the old lady is saying that.

Because the old lady really felt that it was not his fault that he looked like that, but because he was put into an "illusion" growth environment and grew up in a wrong model, he grew into the strange look that everyone hated.

Several people returned to their dedicated study. Yao Anling asked Yao Anyi for the well-documented questionnaire and read one question at a time.

While reading, she also confirmed with everyone how the old lady explained it at that time.

After all, the answers on the questionnaire are very simple, but the old lady gave a detailed explanation behind the answer. Yao Anyi didn't have time to write it down, so everyone could only remember it with their brains.

The reason why I quickly discussed it as soon as I came back from the investigation is that I was afraid that everyone would not remember it clearly when the time passed.

"Do you think what the old lady said is true? Does the environment have such a great impact on a person?" Yao Anling tilted her head, not understanding this question very much.

Yao Anyi said weakly: "I think... it should be true."

With everyone's eyes, he spoke a little scared, but he still had the courage to finish what he wanted to say.

"You see, don't you know?"

"I...I'm the best example."

"I'm a boy, but... I'm raised as a girl, so I'm... a little strange."
Chapter completed!