Chapter 272 Marriage
Wu Yunyu's reaction was so great that she didn't want to accept many handsome men or open a harem. She just wanted a partner who could respect and support each other. In marriage, the man could help her financially. After all, she had always lived in a social environment where it was natural for men to support her family.
However, looking at the interstellar marriage law, if a man is asked to raise her, her status is not higher than that of the women here, then why would she get married?
Hearing such a cruel reality, Wu Yunyu had no confidence in the life she was going to face in the future, and was reluctant to lose the opportunity to see the stars and seas. Finally, she mustered up the courage and said, "I don't want to be a marriage nor a marriage. Can I not get married?"
"Of course, federal marriage is free, and no partner is found. There are as many as 50% of people who choose to be single for the rest of their lives. You are not an exception."
"So high? Then why are there anyone willing to be a marriage partner?" Jing Xi reported that the single rate was so high that Wu Yunyu was shocked.
"With demand, there is a market. There will always be people who want to take shortcuts or can't survive and choose this path. The law protects the power of the married man in addition to his offspring."
The amount of information received in one day was too large, which subverted her previous worldview, outlook on life, and values. Wu Yunyu felt that she really couldn't accept the messy federal marriage system, and she felt that she had no advantage in life in the interstellar world.
Seeing Wu Yunyu becoming more and more silent, Jing Xi guessed whether she was scaring Wu Yunyu. As an agent, she had always looked at the world from the perspective of a strong man, and she could not understand the mentality of a little woman.
In her eyes, the marriage system, which is very equal, may be cruel and inhumane in Wu Yunyu's opinion, and she is afraid that she will continue to say this. Wu Yunyu really backed down and quickly changed her communication method.
"The federal marriage law is very sound, and we have predicted most of the situations that will occur in marriage. We can't explain it clearly for a while. Tell me what kind of life you want. I will analyze for you based on actual experience, which marriage life is suitable for you."
When Wu Yunyu heard Jing Xi’s question, she basically didn’t expect it. She thought that she had no loss after saying it. She tried harder and asked Jing Xi to help her analyze it to see if she could survive in the interstellar world.
"The partner I am looking for, first of all, he loves me, wants to support me, treats me well, and respects me as an equal status. The two of them have equal status in marriage, and they must not cheat, and there is a mistress."
After saying that, Wu Yunyu looked at Jing Xi, afraid that she would laugh at her.
As a result, Jing Xi did not laugh and said seriously: "You must understand that marriage is a contract between the two genders. The reason for such a contract is that marriage involves many interests, including the issue of raising a family.
In federal marriages, only equal status is flat marriage. Generally, flat marriages are independent of each other and no one takes advantage of each other's economy. Therefore, both parties have equal status.
And you want to have equal status and want the other party to support you. This is not impossible. After all, if you want to live together, there will always be some compromises in some aspects. If you want to achieve this condition, you need to give up some power."
Wu Yunyu felt relieved when she heard Jing Xi say she could do it, but when she said she wanted her to give up some power, Wu Yunyu was very worried and asked hurriedly: "What do I want to give up?"
"After you say, you just want to be equal to your partner, ask him to respect you and support you financially, and there is no other requirement, right?"
When Wu Yunyu heard Jing Xi’s question, she wanted to refute it, but she didn’t know what to say, so she had to nod her head to agree.
Seeing Wu Yunyu agreeing, Jing Xi said: "If you only have these requirements, it means that in this marriage, you have given up the naming rights, custody rights and other rights of your children.
Most men who are willing to start a family value their offspring because when you sign a pre-marital agreement, they voluntarily give up their children's ownership. For your partner, it saves him a lot of trouble. As long as your living standards are not particularly high, many men should agree to your conditions."
"After you say that, are I suffering from such a marriage?"
Wu Yunyu never knew that marriage still has so many powers and obligations, and that children can also talk about it. Aren’t children born to belong to their parents?
Jing Xi said that it seemed like she had signed such an agreement, just like the child was not hers. No matter how she heard and twisted her, how could she not want her own child?
"Whether you lose or not depends on what you think. However, what I want to tell you is that a marriage contract like yours is real except for the partner paying for you. For example, the name of a flat marriage is false. If you remove this name, in this marriage, you are actually not even as good as a marriage partner.
After the marriage party is married, the partner must also support him and cannot have domestic violence or other physical or mental harm. If you divorce, the breakup fee and alimony paid by the marriage party are not low. As long as he does not find the next family, the marriage party must support him for the rest of his life. Divorce with children is even more troublesome. I won’t tell you in detail here.
For divorce in a marriage and divorce, if there is no agreement before marriage, there will be no breakup fees, alimony and other issues. If you want to choose a marriage, I suggest that you must sign the pre-marital agreement. Women are born major shareholders in the matter of children. If you want to make good use of this advantage, you can make a fuss about it.
A flat marriage is a false reputation and has no practical purpose. If the other party truly loves you and is willing to live with you for the rest of his life, he will not care about this. If you want the other party to raise you, the first child belongs to the other party. As long as your talent is not bad and your living standards are not high, this condition is enough, and the second child can belong to you.
Because you can’t afford to raise yourself and your children, you can negotiate terms with your third child and ask him to help you raise your second child.”
Wu Yunyu was dumbfounded and didn't know how to describe her mood. When she heard Jing Xi say the third child, she subconsciously asked: "What about the fourth one?"
"The federal fertility rate is not that high. It is normal for couples to have one child in their lifetime. Two is considered good. Three is lucky. Most men will not believe that they can have more than three children in their lifetime with a woman."
Many couples on this planet have more than a dozen children, so Wu Yunyu feels that she must be the exception.
"You know the situation on our planet, what if it happens?"
"You asked very well. You are different from other women in the federal government. You really need to pay attention to this. You can plan this agreement in a more detailed way. The first child is the condition for raising you, the third child is the condition for raising the child in your name, the fourth, fifth, sixth, etc. You can think about what you want and write the requirements one by one. After all, having children is an advantage of women. If the children you give birth to are all good talents, there should be a lot of men who offer generous rewards and only ask for one child."
Jing Xi told the truth. Wu Yunyu had reached the limit of her tolerance and said, "Isn't this a clear price for the child? Is this OK?"
"Children are the wealth of society. Is there any problem with clearly labeling prices?"
"But..."
Wu Yunyu wanted to refute but didn't know what to say, so she had to ask: "Why do you do that? Isn't it that going to ask someone to give birth to a child for you? Isn't that let the other party betray your marriage?"
When Jing Xi heard Wu Yunyu's question, she knew that Wu Yunyu didn't understand what she meant.
Explained: "In the mother's fetus, the mother needs a lot of spiritual power to relax the muscles and veins. Therefore, only children born from women have good talents. The stronger the mother, the better the talent of the child born.
Children raised by other methods are as weak as ordinary people here. For the Federation, such people are a burden to the country. Although pregnant women in the Federation require women to conceive, they can be artificially conceived. If you accept other men's children, you just sell an egg and help him with surrogacy, and you have not betrayed the marriage."
Chapter completed!