A shrew and a lady are two extreme forms of women. Men all want women to be ladies, but there are shrews in the world who are equal to those of ladies. Even if a woman is labeled as a shrew, her reputation will be over. If the reputation is gone, she might as well pursue practical things. All shrews are realists, and they always put interests first in the choice of fame and interests.

A shrew is not easy to be a shrew. Generally speaking, women who are shrews have several killer moves.

The first trick of the shrew's secret: I only have you in my eyes

Even if a shrew has a thousand evils, one thing that has to be admitted is that women who are shrews are mostly focused on their husbands and children. Shirts generally have no ambitions. The biggest wish is that their husbands will make a fortune and enjoy themselves. The smallest wish is that their husbands will not cheat on their relationship, do not hide their money, and obey their commands wholeheartedly. The upper limit set by shrews is not high and the lower limit is not low. This means that the shrews often feel depressed in a small space and live with shrews. However, once they adapt to this small environment, abandon the idea of ​​resistance and are willing to be obedient to the people, they will live a comfortable life. The shrews are all diligent people. A diligent woman has no ambitions. What will she do? Naturally, she is thinking about living a life.

The Ming Dynasty general Qi Jiguang was a famous "fearing his husband". He frightened the Japanese pirates on the battlefield. When he saw his wife at home, he was so angry that he didn't dare to breathe, which made people angry about him. In fact, Qi Jiguang had a warm memory in his heart. When his family was poor, his wife cooked a fish and cooked several times to serve him. He was reluctant to eat it, which moved Qi Jiguang. The wife of the Northern Song Dynasty scholar Shen Kuo was also a shrew. His wife died. Shen Kuo wanted to commit suicide several times. It must be that although his wife was powerful, she loved her husband very much, so he missed her like this.

If a shrew is just making a fuss and ignores her husband's life, people like Qi Jiguang and Shen Kuo are forced to force themselves, and stomp their feet away, leaving the shrew to live a widow. Now it is easier to get a divorce certificate. Many shrews join hands with their husbands for a lifetime. The reason is that although the shrew is strict in keeping her husband, he also devotes all his efforts to her husband. The husband is both afraid and grateful, and dare not, and cannot bear to separate from his wife.

The second trick of the shrew’s secret: cry, make a fuss and hang

Crying, making a fuss, and hanging three to hang is the traditional magic weapon of shrews, and it still has great lethality. Times have different times, shrews must keep pace with the times. For example, if hanging is too rustic, it can be changed to jumping off a building and cutting the wrist, which has a more shocking effect. Of course, this kind of performance is very dangerous and may cause physical harm or even endanger life. If a woman is determined to be a shrew, she should understand that shrews are a very dangerous industry. A qualified shrew must have the determination to lose both sides and the courage to die together, and the fearless spirit of "being willing to sacrifice one's body and dare to take down the emperor."

Recently, the TV station replayed "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo". Mrs. Liu Yong played by Deng Jie was really scattered. The emperor gave Liu Yong two concubines. She dared to beat her husband to kneel down and beg for mercy in front of the emperor. The emperor coveted her beauty and tricked her into the palace to commit ruthlessness. The virtuous woman had long been frightened. The shrew didn't care about these things and would be killed on the pillar of the palace. Such a shrew really exuded spirit, exuded state, made people happy and loved.

The third trick of the girl's secret: Take action when it's time

The shrew had a bright eyes and was guarding her small territory. Within her guardianship, no one could think of a piece of the pie. Hu Shi was gentle and knowledgeable, and his wife Jiang Dongxiu was short and fat and uneducated. Hu Shi met the young intellectual Ms. Cao Chengying, who wanted to divorce her wife. When his wife heard this, she picked up the kitchen knife and wanted to kill her two sons. Hu Shi was so scared that she would not dare to mention the word divorce for her whole life. It seems that being an excellent shrew requires the courage to cut off her arm.

Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions" did even more. When she heard that her husband had secretly married You Erjie, she was so angry that she slashed her teeth. Finally, she suppressed her anger, pretended to be a smile, and tricked You Erjie into the Grand View Garden. Little girl, there was no way to deal with you outside, and you would be in my hands when you entered the Jia Mansion. Then, she instigated her second sister's fiancé to sue, went to Ningguo Mansion to make trouble, and stole five hundred taels of silver. This is the method of a shrew. Her husband was a mistress and her wife made up her plans, not only did she not lose money, but she made a lot of money. The situation set up by Wang Xifeng was linked together, cutting off firewood from the bottom of the cauldron, hiding needles from the cotton, making something out of nothing, moving flowers and wood, knocking mountains and shaking tigers, and shook the shrew's scheming was no less than that of a general who was planning.

The fourth trick of the shrew's secret book: forgive others if you want to forgive others

A shrew is just a means, not an end. The purpose is to tie the husband around you and prevent your own interests from being damaged. Therefore, a smart shrew is good at observing words and expressions, adapting to changes, advancing and retreating, and being both soft and hard. Those women who do not distinguish between occasions and time are the inferior products of shrews, and high-quality shrews will sneer at it.

Who is the most popular woman in ancient and modern times? It is difficult to rank this ranking. Emperor Yang Jian’s wife, Empress Dugu, will definitely be able to sit in the first few seats. Which emperor in China is not the three palaces and six courtyards, but Yang Jian is the emperor. There are so many beautiful women in the palace, and he dare not look at it directly. - Only once, he met the beautiful palace maid Yuchi, and he couldn’t help but get a frightened heart and had a secret meeting with the beauty. In theory, this is nothing, in the words of Jackie Chan, this is a mistake that men make. But Empress Dugu just doesn’t allow her husband to make mistakes, so she takes advantage of her husband’s visit.

The court beat the beauty to death. When Yang Jian returned from court, he found that the beautiful woman was already a cold body. He couldn't help but feel sad. He rode a horse and ran away, running to the outside of the city, crying in the valley. When Dugu saw that the trouble was too big, if her husband saw through the world and became a monk, his position as queen could not be saved. When her husband returned, she knelt on the ground and cried and admitted her mistake. When did Yang Jian see that his wife was so pitiful, he immediately disappeared and he made up for her as before. It can be seen how strong the shrew was when he was gentle.
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