Dragon-slaying illusion.

There is a saying that the ad slogan says...

Never be the second person, always be the first person...

If a person always tries to imitate others, then no matter how successful he is, he is at best just an imitator...

Just like a novel writer, no matter how similar he imitates a well-known writer, he can only act as a gunman at best, and at best he can only act as a shadow writer behind those well-known writers...

Only by being able to write his own style can he be truly recognized by others. If he just chooses to imitate, he can only be a shadow...

The so-called "that is better to be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix is ​​the reason...

In fact, many people know this truth very well, but when they really face a choice, they often make the opposite decisions...

Just like when choosing to start a business and work for others, most people often choose the latter, although they themselves know that choosing the latter means being controlled by others and not being able to obtain true freedom...

However, compared with the risks of starting a business, most people are often more willing to accept relatively comfortable jobs and relatively stable life...

Although many people know that most of the benefits they create during the process of working are actually occupied by their bosses, compared to the interests, what they care more about is this working model that does not have to take any risks...

After all, most people are often more willing to accept relatively simple and stable jobs. After all, most people have more or less inferiority complex...

They always feel that there are many things in this world that they often cannot do and cannot do...

It is because of this. Therefore, they are always unwilling and dare not be a leader. They are always used to being dominated by others...

Just like many people are in team games. Most of the time, they are not willing to express their opinions. Most of the time, they often silently and simply obey the command form...

In fact, if you have to find a reason, it is simply because they are always unwilling to take responsibility, they are always more inclined to take advantage of the situation, and they always like to hide in the crowd...

In fact, in essence, this approach is a typical inferiority complex at work...

Just like when many people are playing games, they always don’t like to act as commanders. Even if they are already very familiar with a dungeon, they always prefer to play soybeans in the team...

They always subconsciously feel that they are not good, that they cannot do it, that they cannot take on the responsibility of command, and that they do not have the ability to command a team...

This kind of psychology actually exists in the hearts of most people...

Especially in the eyes of many silk, they always deny themselves by subtle intentions, and always deny their abilities by subtle intentions. They always feel that they are not as good as others, they always feel that they cannot complete communication with beautiful women alone, and they always feel that they are not worthy of the goddess. So they are unwilling to strive for efforts...

Many times, many people are not without ability or potential, they simply lack confidence in doing something well...

Yes, confident!

Compared to other things, self-confidence is the source of success for many people!

Many people always blame their mediocrity on their appearance or their family background, but never consider it. In fact, these two may not be as important as they imagined...

It's like in many time travel or rebirth novels...

The protagonists often can still make their own name in a very short time after changing their bodies. If the reason is, on the one hand, although there are various golden finger relationships that the author has opened for the protagonist, the most critical problem actually comes from the protagonist...

Whether it is identity, background, or even body, it actually cannot have much impact on the protagonist's final achievements in the sense of the meaning. What really determines the achievements of a protagonist is essentially the soul of a protagonist!

In fact, the so-called soul, to put it simply, is the self!

Yes, self!

Everyone actually has a true self. This self itself has nothing to do with a person's body, has nothing to do with a person's identity, has nothing to do with a person's background, and has nothing to do with a person's height, shortness, fatness and thinness. The self is the self, the true self, and the true origin of a person!

In fact, no matter what kind of social background system you grow up in, you will always end up with the same goal...

Just like many scientific discoveries, whether Eastern or Westerners, the final conclusions are often consistent. There may be problems with different expression methods, but in essence, there are often no fundamental differences...

And the truth is often the same...

Just like the so-called concept of self...

In the eyes of Easterners, the so-called cultivation of truth is actually a process of finding the true self, eliminating the false and retaining the truth, abandoning all false searches, and finding the true meaning of the truth. This is the so-called cultivation of truth...

In the process of cultivating the truth, a person will gradually understand the world, and will gradually recognize himself and the various rules in the world. At the same time, he will naturally have some understanding of his past and present life, gradually understand what he is, and gradually realize what is his true self and what is his true pursuit...

Recognizing the rules of a world can often give a cultivator a powerful force, while recognizing himself can allow a cultivator to identify his true heart and truly understand his pursuit...

After all, it is nothing more than a pursuit of truth...

In the Western fantasy world, in essence, in the world of swords and magic, what magicians pursue is also such a true reality. The biggest difference between magicians and scientists is that after scientists understand the rules, they need to create various tools to use the power of the rules. As long as they have tools, even those who do not understand the rules can still use the power of the rules. However, magicians are different. After magicians understand the rules of the world, the power can only be attributed to themselves, and no one can plunder the power of a mage...

And the difference between the two has led to scientists being able to work only for those in power, while the magicians are the real masters of the world...

In many Western fantasy worlds, in many power systems, there are often settings of the so-called real name. After any creature is powerful to a certain extent, it will often awaken its true name. Unlike the conventional names above, the so-called real name is the name of the origin of truly possessing power. It is also the source of the power of a strong man. Each real name is a unique existence, and every strong man will have a completely different real name. Any strong man will not easily know their real name, because their power is often in their real name...

In fact, in a sense, the real name system in the Western fantasy world is essentially the same concept as the true self that Eastern cultivators seek. Whether it is the real name or the true self, it represents the real and pure power of the self...

This power itself does not come from all things in the world. It only comes from oneself. Everyone has such power. But few people can discover this power...

Many people always hope that they can become another person, but in fact they often do not really realize that instead of becoming the shadow of others, it is better to truly find the power of themselves and become the unique self...

In fact, in physiognomy, there is also the so-called concept of physiognomy produced by the mind...

A person's appearance will actually change with many factors, and this change is often difficult to simply explain it with scientific explanation...

It’s like some people look kind, they look good at first glance, some people look gloomy on their faces, they look bad at first glance, some people look bad at first glance, some people look like gangsters...

These things are often on the temperament level. Although they seem to be completely unseen on the surface, most people can often feel the different senses brought to people by this facial expression...

This is what is called appearance is born from the heart. Most of the time, a person's appearance can tell a person's personality and temper. Except for a very few people who are born to look more ferocious or a very few people who are born to look extremely kind, most people will always transform their faces into a person's inner personality in the process of growing up. This is because of this, so many people can always see the other person's personality from the appearance of a person...

Just like the so-called kind-eyed and kind-eyed eyes, it is actually hard to simply describe what kind-eyed eyes look like. What kind-eyed eyes are like is nothing more than a feeling that gives people...

In fact, after all, this is the external influence of a true self on a person...

This influence itself is not an influence on the visual level. Most of the time, it is actually mainly an influence on the spiritual level...

It’s like a soldier who has seen blood on his hands. Because of the blood, such people often look cold on their faces. Even if they smile, they often give people a chilling feeling. Even if their bodies don’t look strong or even thin, such people can often easily give people a sense of psychological oppression...

This sense of oppression does not actually come from visual oppression, but is more of a kind of spiritual oppression...

In fact, many special forces soldiers are not much different from ordinary people from their physical shapes, but when they come into contact with these two, they can always easily feel the completely different aura between the two...

The concept of breath is illusory, something that cannot be seen or touched...

But sometimes, it can be felt, especially the difference in eyes. A person who has truly killed someone and seen blood. If he is glanced at such a person, most people will subconsciously shudder...

In fact, this is a difference on the level of the true self!

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Dragon-slaying illusion.

In the fantasy world, there are almost very few people who do not make any corrections to their appearance at all. Most people will always make more or less correct their appearance and body shape when creating characters in the game, and correct some things that are not satisfied with themselves in reality, so as to present the most perfect self-state in the game...

Players always envy some qualities that they do not have. They will always subconsciously incorporate some things they want when creating their own game characters...

However, the strong man in the true sense is disdainful to make any corrections to himself!

They have enough confidence and they know very well what they should be like!

They will not go with the flow, and will not change themselves because of the eyes of others...

People's aesthetic views are often very strange...

Just like for most people, fat people always look less beautiful, and many fat people always feel inferior because of their figure. They feel that they are not easy to attract the attention of the opposite sex, and they feel that they are very unpleasant in social interactions, so they always subconsciously want to change their appearance to cater to other people's eyes...

However, as well as fat people, the shape of Maitreya Buddha often represents a harmonious beauty that is difficult to describe in words in the eyes of most people...

A big belly can tolerate things that are difficult to tolerate in the world, always smile, laugh at the ridiculous people in the world!

He is also very fat, but Maitreya Buddha's fatness does not give people any ugly feeling, and is even full of a beauty that is difficult to describe in words...

In fact, it is not just Maitreya Buddha, but most of the gods in most religions, whether they are evil or ugly, for pilgrims, they all look full of charming beauty in their eyes...

In fact, it is not so much a sense of beauty, but rather a sense of fit...

Yes, fit!

The so-called fit is like the harmony in music, and it always gives people a feeling of coordination...

If the appearance of a god and the temperament of a person’s god can perfectly fit, it will naturally not give people an ugly feeling, but will instead make people feel a sense of shock from the heart!

It even makes people feel that the appearance of this god seems to be like this!

The real aesthetic thing is actually not just a one-sided concept...

It's a two-sided interactive relationship!

The same dance...

In ordinary people, it may look very weird, or even extremely weird dances...

If you are an ordinary person dancing, it will often make people laugh, especially among acquaintances, which can easily make people feel that this dance is so ugly...

However, if you are a professional dancer and use the most professional skills to dance, it will often bring a completely different sensory experience to others!

Perhaps in the previous second, people who thought the dance movements were very ugly and looked unsightly, but were full of funny people would be impressed by this weird and beautiful dance after a second!

Perhaps on the surface, there is no difference between the movements of an ordinary person and a dancer, but the dedication between the two lacks completely different things. When dancing, ordinary people often deny the dance in their hearts. It is more of a perfunctory attitude, and even feel that they are making a fool of themselves, so they really make a fool of themselves...

In the eyes of the dancers, their dance really turned into a wonderful performance!

This is the so-called power of the self...

The more a person can fit into something, the more he is, the more he is, the easier it is to gain the recognition of others. If a person feels that it is impossible to succeed before doing something, then what is left for others to see can only be the clumsy performance!
To be continued...