"What kind of person is a normal person?"

This question can be very funny or very philosophical.

The reason for being funny is very simple, because most people don’t ask such a question for no reason.

If one day someone around me suddenly asks such a question, then my first reaction must be to laugh, right?

After all, normal people will definitely not suddenly want to ask such a question.

The reason for philosophy is even simpler. It is nothing more than this question from an objective perspective, which can also become a topic of debate with connotation.

However, if such a debate topic is not raised until high school, no one will raise it and treat it as a homework.

However, Fang Li raised such a question to the teacher on the first day of his first grade in elementary school.

That year, Fang Li was only eight years old.

It is conceivable how embarrassing and confused the reactions of the elementary school teacher standing on the podium and the group of ignorant children around him were when such a question appeared from the mouth of an eight-year-old child.

Judging from this point of view alone, Fang Li is no longer a normal person.

Such a problem should never occur with an eight-year-old child.

However, no matter what aspect, Fangli is actually a normal person.

Children of the same age are playing, and they are also playing.

When children of the same age are causing trouble, Fangli is also causing trouble.

Children of the same age are also innocent when they are innocent.

Children of the same age are also spanking childishly.

In other words, the stamen is neither precocious nor abnormal, and is a normal child both physically and mentally.

However, Fang Li couldn't help asking such a question on the first day of elementary school at the age of eight.

Because, in a daze, I knew the only difference between myself and the rest of me.

...

That year, Fang Li was only seven years old.

Before the age of seven, Fang Li had always been growing up as an ordinary child.

At that time, because my parents were busy working all day long, the person who was around Fangli was the grandfather.

Grandpa loves Fangli very much.

When Fang Li wants to play, grandpa will play with Fang Li.

When Fang Li is scolded by her parents, her grandfather will come out to protect Fang Li.

When Fangli is hit and injured, grandpa will comfort Fangli, who is insufferable pain.

When Fang Li became interested in any toy, grandpa would also buy the toy just to make Fang Li happy.

Therefore, Fang Li also likes grandpa very much.

Even when he grows up, Fang Li can tell the people around him that his favorite person is his grandfather.

How would you react when such a person disappears from your world?

Fang Li had not considered this issue before.

But when he was seven years old, Fang Li had to consider it.

"Woo...woo...woo..."

The crying sounded throughout the space.

Some of them are extremely depressed, while others are unscrupulous, but anyone can feel the sadness and sadness inside.

Beneath that cry, the entire vast space was filled with a sad atmosphere.

Under the crying, the ignorant children were exaggerated and cried one by one.

Fang Li was in such an environment, with one hand being held by his mother and his eyes turning to his front.

There, a black and white photo was being placed.

The person in the photo is Grandpa Fangli.

Looking at that photo, Fang Li really missed her grandfather.

Fang Li knew that the people around him also missed grandpa very much, so he cried at this time.

However, Fangli couldn't even shed a tear.

Even though parents were crying, the adults and children around them were crying, Fangli still couldn't cry.

So Fang Li asked.

"Mom, why are you all crying?"

At that time, my mother, who was crying, answered in this way.

"...Because, grandpa will not come back anymore."

Fang Li knows.

Fang Li still knows this fact.

Fang Li knew that grandpa would never come back.

But…

"But why do you have to cry like this?"

When Fangli asked such a question, his mother's expression was a little surprised and confused.

Then, my mother answered Fang Li like this.

"Grandpa won't come back, normal people will feel sad and sad, so they will cry."

After hearing this, Fang Li said nothing again.

However, Fang Li had a question in his heart.

"A normal person should cry at this time?"

It is because of this that Fang Li asked the teacher such a question when he was eight years old.

When I grew up, Fang Li realized that it was indeed a matter of course.

For a normal person, the death of a relative should naturally cry.

Because, you will be sad and sad, that is normal people.

From a psychological perspective, it is normal to have a principle of unity between a person's subjective world and an objective world.

Because psychology is a reflection of objective reality, any normal psychological activities and behavior must be consistent with the objective environment, even if it is just in form and content.

When a person's spirit or psychology loses unity with the external environment, then the person will inevitably not be understood by others.

At that time, this person will become abnormal.

Therefore, from this theory, Fang Li is not a normal person.

That day, Fangli did not cry.

When others are sad, they only have peace.

When others take it for granted, Fangli only has doubts in his heart.

When others are crying, Fang Li is only surprised.

How could it not be considered abnormal if you are so incompatible and even cruel?

No matter what, the other party raised himself since childhood, had a very good relationship with him, and was his favorite relative.

Such a person has passed away and will never be seen again. It is precisely because he is a child that he should be even more sad, right?

However, from beginning to end, I never felt a trace of sadness, a trace of sadness, or even the urge to shed a tear.

At that time, the adults did not care about this, just pretending that the meaning of death was really not understood, or that they were precocious and not affected by the children around them, and thus were exaggerated and crying.

Only Fang Li, in a ignorant state, understood one thing.

That's...

“I’m different from the people around me…”

That was the only idea Fang Li had at that time.

When he grew up, Fang Li understood why he was like that at that time.

Not only because Fang Li became sensible, but also because Fang Li inevitably experienced the same thing several times.

At that time, Fangli was also unable to cry or feel sad.

Then, Fang Li understood.

No matter how important the other person is to him or how close he is to him, once he (she) dies, he will never shed a tear or feel a trace of sadness.
To be continued...