"Actually, I came here to meet the woman's parents this time."

The more we talked, the more things Jiang Xiaohan revealed, but no matter what, Jiang Xiaohan never broke the last layer of window paper.

Not suitable.

Although the old man is quite kind now, if he knew that Jiang Xiaohan's so-called girlfriend was his own granddaughter, he would have attacked Jiang Xiaohan on the spot.

Not to mention anything else, there must be a thought of beating up.

But now, when Jiang Xiaohan said that he was here to meet his parents, Mr. Zhao looked worried.

When he asked, Jiang Xiaohan said a little "shy": "I haven't officially visited the door yet. After all, it's the first time, and we are still in school now, I'm afraid..."

In front of Mr. Zhao, Jiang Xiaohan expressed his worries and concerns.

After hearing this, the old man waved his hand immediately to stop Jiang Xiaohan from continuing, and said, "These are all trivial matters. What era is now? Even parents should respect their children's choices. After all, they are free from love."

Mr. Zhao did not look down on Jiang Xiaohan because of his distress and concern.

On the contrary, in the old man's opinion, even though Jiang Xiaohan was a little worried, he still dared to come to the door at this critical moment, which was definitely a sign of responsibility.

It is precisely because of his nervousness about his girlfriend that Jiang Xiaohan has some concerns.

Perhaps because he had a very good chat with Jiang Xiaohan, the old man was unconsciously standing on Jiang Xiaohan's side when he was looking at the problem and comforted him.

As a veteran, Mr. Zhao felt that he could see more thoroughly than the young man Jiang Xiaohan, and he didn't mind to explain it appropriately at this time.

"The old man is right, so I have already planned to visit him in the next few days." It seems that Jiang Xiaohan was very encouraged after hearing Mr. Zhao's words.

"Just be open-minded."

Facing Jiang Xiaohan's reaction, Mr. Zhao expressed his satisfaction.

Not only did he listen to his words, but also because Jiang Xiaohan was very polite to his temper, Mr. Zhao's eyes at Jiang Xiaohan became more and more satisfied.

Children can teach.

"However, in addition to taking responsibility, we must also be good at leveraging our own advantages." Mr. Zhao gave another tip.

"Oh? How do you say it?"

Jiang Xiaohan was a little surprised.

This time I wasn't pretending, but I was really surprised.

Jiang Xiaohan didn't expect that the old man would talk to him about this, and Jiang Xiaohan could not fully understand what he wanted to express for a while.

"You think, what are your advantages now?"

"What?"

Jiang Xiaohan was a little confused.

handsome?

young?

rich?

Personal charm?

Or...

Jiang Xiaohan thought a lot, but in the end he couldn't help but look at the old man in confusion.

"Cooking skills!"

Mr. Zhao was a little embarrassed: "I'm quite smart, why don't I be enlightened at this time?"

Jiang Xiaohan was a little confused.

The old man glanced at Jiang Xiaohan with a mysterious look on his face, and then said proudly: "You think, on the day you officially arrive, why don't you take advantage of your advantages and give a first say in the first place?"

"How can you take the lead in taking advantage of others?"

Jiang Xiaohan asked humbly for advice.

He didn't know what tricks the old man would have.

"Since you are going to come to your door, you must show your truest and best side, not only to satisfy the other party's elders, but also to make the other party feel at ease to give you his daughter TOEFL..."

"...In the past, women can cook, but now, knowing how to cook is also an advantage for boys. It can also be used as an entry point for women to understand and recognize you. After officially meeting the other parents, you need to find an opportunity to use the name of helping in the kitchen, and then show them a skill..."

"Remember, don't be too deliberate, try to be as natural as possible, and..."

“…”

Sitting obediently, Jiang Xiaohan listened humbly to every word of the old man, nodding from time to time with approval. Looking at his appearance that he had benefited a lot, he almost took out a small notebook to take notes on the spot.

Listening to the old man's words, Jiang Xiaohan really felt like he was clearing away the clouds.

Before this, Jiang Xiaohan had never thought of this.

The old man's move inadvertently turned passive into initiative is really a matter of convincing.

"Just like this, will it make people feel that it is rude and rude?"

When the old man said it almost the same, Jiang Xiaohan raised a question modestly.

Mr. Zhao was not surprised by Jiang Xiaohan's problem, but nodded with satisfaction, because Jiang Xiaohan was able to raise this question, which means that he had heard what he had just said.

"It depends on how you do it, so we have to mention the degree of measure."

The old man thought about it and said, "First of all, you must first correct your attitude, be upright and polite, and let the parents of the woman feel your respect and respect for them.

After you have corrected your attitude, you must be clear about what you should do and what you should not do. Do not do things that go beyond your reach.

With this premise, the situation you were worried about will basically not happen.

If you think this way, and show your cooking skills at the woman's house, you are actually doing these things as a future son-in-law. You have to put your identity into it. This will not only not make people feel that you are overwhelming, but may make it easier for the woman's elders to accept you.

In the final analysis, if you want to pass their level, you must first pass your level."

"Old man, I've been taught."

Jiang Xiaohan is really convinced.

This old man’s perspective on the problem is indeed sharp, and even the entry point is eye-catching.

Include the role in advance.

Know how to advance and retreat, and grasp the right measure.

Attitude, politeness.

as well as……

It really hit the nail on the head, making people suddenly realize it.

“There is another problem.”

Looking at Mr. Zhao with some embarrassment, Jiang Xiaohan continued to ask: "They have a lot of family members. How will I deal with it then?"

Next, after hearing Jiang Xiaohan talk about the situation roughly, Mr. Zhao didn't think much, and said directly: "Actually, it's very simple, and things are not as complicated as you think. You just need to figure out who is the key."

As if he was afraid that he would not understand clearly enough, Mr. Zhao emphasized: "In short, it is the woman's family who has the final say. Just get the person done. The others will not affect the overall situation.

To use an idiom, it is to capture the king first!”

"Capture the king first?"
Chapter completed!