"You can't sleep, right? Why don't we chat? If I couldn't sleep when I was a kid, my mother would chat with me, tell me a lot about my father, and then talk until I ended up getting tired and fell asleep."

Lin Hai slapped his forehead and said.

Xu Yawen was speechless, but she still said, "Then your father must be a very amazing person, so your mother will tell you so many stories."

Lin Hai thought for a while: "Actually, no matter how ordinary everyone is, they will have many experiences and stories. But for a child, the father will always be the most amazing person in the world."

"I always felt that my father was the most amazing person in the world."

Lin Hai said seriously. He has indeed always taken Ye Lingtian as an example. He has always been determined to grow up to be a person like his father since he was a child.

Xu Yawen was silent for a moment and said lightly: "Then you have a good father, and your parents must have a very good relationship."

"That's of course." Lin Hai said without thinking, "Since I was very young, my father taught me that men must protect their family. When they don't have a wife, they will protect their mothers and sisters. After they have a wife, they will protect their wife and put her first."

Xu Yawen asked in surprise: "Don't you always be filial to your parents? Why do you ask you to put your wife first? Isn't this what people often say that you forget your mother after marrying a wife?"

"Especially, what should you do if your mother and your wife have a conflict?" Xu Yawen asked curiously, "This is also a common problem that modern families encounter, right?"

It seems that although Xu Yawen has been studying abroad for many years, she still knows the traditional culture of China very well. It can be seen from her personality that she is a very traditional and conservative person.

"And, your father will discuss this kind of topic with you at best..." Xu Yawen couldn't find any words to describe for a moment.

Lin Hai smiled and said with a smile: "My father thinks that any education should be cultivated and shaped from a child, including the awareness of loving his family and protecting his family, as well as the sense of responsibility of a man."

"He told me that he had no requirement for me, and did not require me to succeed and become rich and prosperous. Even if I am a penniless pauper in the future, as long as I can be a dignified and responsible person and protect my family, he will be proud of me."

"And the question you mentioned, I didn't understand when I was young, and of course I can't understand now. Because I don't have a wife yet, the most important women in my life are my mother and my sister. At that time, I asked my father why I have to protect my wife in the future?"

"I guess you can't even think of how my father answered me."

Although many years have passed and Ye Lingtian has no news, Lin Hai still couldn't help but smile when he thought of the words and things between his father and son.

"My father said, of course I will protect my wife, just protect your own."

Xu Yawen was stunned, and then couldn't help laughing: "Your father is really a very interesting person."

"It's really hard to imagine that a father would say such things to his children, especially children." Xu Yawen couldn't help laughing.

"Of course, it's mainly because my father never just treats me as his son. It can be said that he has treated me as an independent individual since he was a child, or even an adult. His biggest requirement for me is that I want to be a man."

"He is actually a dull and unspeakable person. My mother would also quarrel with him in anger, and even say that he is just a piece of wood. He would not say anything sweet, but he only knows the simplest truths."

Lin Hai said, unable to help but think of his father again. The man who said he would protect his wife back then didn't know where he was. However, he said he wanted to protect Li Yuxin, but silently endured too much.

But Lin Hai could understand, especially after he entered the Special Military Department, he understood that what they wanted to protect was no longer just his family, but everyone, so sometimes he could only be forced to give up a lot of things, or even close relatives.

Fortunately, he still has him in this family, and he will protect his mother and sister on behalf of his father.

"Also, the family conflicts you mentioned do not seem to be a problem in my opinion. On the one hand, my mother is a very reasonable woman. She never cares about too much. On the other hand, she does not have high requirements for me. As long as I live a happy life, she once said that when I have my own family in the future, she will definitely not interfere. Even if she is alone, she can live a good life."

Xu Yawen listened carefully and inexplicably developed a lot of yearning.

"To be honest, I envy you very much. I have such a good family." Xu Yawen said leisurely, "In fact, sometimes you can understand by comparison that a so-called good family really does not mean how good material conditions are, but how high the happiness of the family is."

"It is obvious that your family, no matter the rich or poor, no matter what conditions you are under, can feel the happiness brought to you by family affection."

"Actually, I thought I had a happy family. When I was young, my dad loved my mom very much and loved me very much. Every time I went on a business trip, I would bring me beautiful clothes and a lot of delicious food."

"But later, everything gradually changed..."

Lin Hai listened to Xu Yawen silently and knew that for Xu Yawen, this was her biggest knot, and everything she least wanted but had to face.

"So Lin Hai, sometimes I really envy you, envy you for having such a family. Even if your father missed you and for a long time, his love and education for you has always been there."

She said, sighing involuntarily: "In comparison, I may not be able to compare with you. My father seems to have given me a lot, and I know many people may think that I have everything at a young age, villas, sports cars, money, expensive clothes, jewelry and gifts, all of which are at your fingertips."

"But I will ask myself, is this all my life making me feel happy? To be honest, there is really no. I know you may be laughing at me. I think I am standing and talking without a back pain, but in fact it is really the case."

"Even my mother said that if there were no Dacheng Group, maybe she and my father would not have reached this point today. Maybe our family has no money and lives a tight life, but they might be happier."

Lin Hai thought for a while and said, "In fact, it has nothing to do with the rich and poor. Many people are very poor. They will feel that it is the most precious thing to keep warm together in poverty. Some people will choose to let go of everything they used to make money. Some people will forget the people who have shared the joys and sorrows after they have money, and some people will think more about repaying the people who have accompanied them through thick and thin."

"No matter rich or poor, there are people who choose to stick to their original aspirations, and some give up or betray them. The most important thing is that it is related to inner choices. When you think what is important, you will definitely not be willing to destroy and hurt it."
Chapter completed!