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0002 The tacit understanding of parents(1/2)

Wu Ye's mother came in just now. She went to the kitchen, put down the vegetables she just bought, and took off her apron. The gentle mother who came out of the kitchen did not hear the conversation between the father and son.

I looked at the coffee table and didn't suspect anything because of my son's wallet and car keys.

Maybe if she sees something, she won't reveal it.

In fact, she has always been a woman well protected by her husband. Even though she is decades old, she still has such a gentle girl's heart.

It doesn't mean young, but simple.

She has a solid barrier, so she retains her gentleness. Even the money, rice, oil and salt have not eroded this tenderness.

Her husband loves her, but her son also loves her mother. She has lived a life that most people would envy.

"Then I started cooking. I bought my son's favorite prawns and made braised prawns." The woman with a gentle face and a smile looked at her husband while wearing an apron: "And you

I like spring buds and scrambled eggs.”

Her whole person looked particularly gentle, with an elegant and virtuous jasper temperament. Her voice was nice and soft. Even though there were traces of age on her body, it was not difficult to tell that she had once been a great beauty.

He has a gentle smile and always makes people feel like a spring breeze.

"Okay!" Father and son replied in unison.

The father and son looked at each other.

"Mom, let me help you with the shrimps." Wu Ye volunteered.

"You don't understand. Just let me help your mother do this. You can stay on your own." Wu Ye's father took his wife into the kitchen and went to prepare dinner.

Wu Ye: "......"

Don't doubt it, the man just now was Lao Wu, it's just that he always looked different in front of his wife.

Treat your wife with extra gentleness, treat your son with great force.

Over the years, Wu Ye had lost all the games between father and son, but the father and son silently did not argue in front of her. She loved her husband very much, and of course, she also loved her son very much.

Gentle people should be treated with kindness, let alone the one you love the most.

Lao Wu often said, you can be angry with me, you can resent me, you can resist my arrangements, but you can't be angry with your mother, she only dotes on you.

Even if you accomplish nothing, even if you have countless shortcomings, she will love you.

Wu Ye has always been nothing but caring and helpless towards his mother.

She has the kind of emotional expression that foreigners have, and she is never stingy in expressing her emotions like Lao Wu.

She will say that mom misses you. Will you come back to see mom during the holidays? Mom feels that you have lost weight again. Mom hopes that you will find a good girl and fall in love.

She is always like this, making people love and helpless at the same time.

Even though Lao Wu could talk eloquently about anything and quote scriptures, in front of her, he was a prisoner of love, and his language skills directly deteriorated.

They had never quarreled for more than ten minutes in all these years. At the eighth minute, Lao Wu went to coax her. In fact, she forgave Lao Wu at the third minute.

This is what Wu Ye envies, and it is also Wu Ye who insists on finding a girl he likes. Who doesn't want sweet love?

It's just a pity that he didn't meet the right person.

In the kitchen.

Mrs. Wu looked at her husband who was cutting shrimps, put down the spatula, and closed the lid: "Husband, did you say something to Xiaoye?"

He understands his husband and his son.

Old Wu shook his head: "We just had a friendly and cordial exchange of words and ideas between men, so that we can understand each other's plans and plans. You know, since ancient times in Han Dynasty, the relationship between father and son has been

There are great communication difficulties among us, and it is a good thing to be able to communicate.”

Mrs. Wu curled her lips. Every time her husband spoke in this tone, it was definitely not what he meant literally.

There are many things hidden.

"What are your plans?" Mrs. Wu asked.

It’s not about asking the children what their plans are, the main thing is to know what the husband’s plans are, and the husband’s plans are more important.

Lao Wu continued to cut the shrimp, removing all the shrimp threads, and would check carefully every time to see if there were any residue.

In fact, he likes to eat shrimp, and Wu Ye also likes to eat them.

"After your son thought deeply and rationally based on the actual situation, he proposed to me the idea of ​​​​going out to have a career. Out of trust in the knowledge he learned, he felt that he did not want to be a rich second generation. He seemed to feel that this

Ci is a derogatory word." Lao Wu replied.

Mrs. Wu frowned.

After thinking for a moment, Mrs. Wu was worried: "Do you think my son is stupid in studying? Every inch has his strengths and every inch has his shortcomings. Even those who know themselves are not strong enough to understand?"

Lao Wu gave a thumbs up. His wife is still sane, but his son is just a fool.

My husband and I are both smart people, but I don't know why my son is so stubborn and stupid, and doesn't understand simple and easy-to-understand principles.

"Youth represents unlimited possibilities, and often shows off self-confidence. I feel that I am hiding in the abyss and revealing the majestic sky, and the red sun is rising in all directions. Excessive self-confidence means complacency and lack of knowledge. I still think this is a sign of stupidity."

Lao Wu rinsed the shrimps and placed them on the counter.

Mrs. Wu pinched him gently. She was obviously not satisfied with this statement. She was not stupid. She had known for a long time that the father and son had wrong ideas. One wanted the child to learn more, while the other resisted and refused to learn those things.

Wu Ye likes to be unrestrained, to be free, and to have a lazy attitude towards life.

Old Wu is a standard businessman, and his thinking inevitably carries the pride unique to successful people. In his conversations, he also has a guiding tone that is confident in his experience, which Wu Ye doesn't like.

If you don't like it, you are also your own father.

No matter how stupid he is, he is still his own son.

There is nothing the two can do against each other.

"Don't be so mean to your children," Mrs. Wu said.

Old Wu shook his head: "You haven't had that clear feeling. This world is very cruel to these children, and it's much harsher than what I said. I firmly believe that he will only break his head and bleed, and then come back to lick his wounds."

.”

Mrs. Wu rolled her eyes.

"My son is not a dog."

"I prefer him to be a wolf. A wolf travels thousands of miles to eat meat, and a dog..." Old Wu swallowed back the second half of the sentence.

He doesn't like to say dirty words in front of his wife. It's not that he's not good at swearing, but that he doesn't want to say them.

"What do you think?" Mrs. Wu didn't pay attention to the second half of his sentence. As long as the first half was good, she always only picked out the good and filtered out the bad.

Lao Wu took an apple from the refrigerator, took the knife and started peeling it. The sharp custom-made tool easily scratched the peel: "It's not bad to have scars. Men are like iron. Only after full reaction and forging can they become a man."

A famous sword."

"This matter is no longer negotiable?"

"A loving mother often loses her sons." Lao Wu replied briefly.

Although my wife dotes on her son, she has always made a clear distinction between right and wrong, and she has never disagreed with him on any major matter over the years.

Regarding the method of educating children, both of them comprehensively discussed their opinions and chose the appropriate one.

"I saw that he had taken out his bank cards and car keys."

Want to clean up and leave the house?

The old mother couldn't accept this approach, which was equivalent to cutting off her own feet, and she had to persuade her children.

Lao Wu smiled and said: "He still has some pride, or he may have his own support. In short, it is not a bad thing. He has mature legal and moral concepts. He is not a bad boy, he is just stupid."

He has known his children for more than 20 years, and he, as a father, has also guided and participated in the shaping of the children's personality and outlook.

It becomes clearer that children actually have some talents, but their lives are just too ideal.

I still want wealth and freedom.

Who doesn't want to be a salty fish? He also wants to retire and take his wife to travel around the world. As expected, the child is out of the question.

Now we have freedom in terms of wealth, but we don’t have freedom in time, and we can’t really talk about freedom in terms of wealth. We have to postpone it for another three years.

"It's okay to let him beat and beat him. He's 22 and is no longer a child. I have to look around to see which girl is suitable and look for him." Mrs. Wu has long been envious of those old sisters, and several of them have grandchildren.

My son actually didn't have a relationship in college. This shocked my mother and made her anxious.

In a blink of an eye, I'll be 25 in a few years, and in a blink of an eye I'll be 30, old man.

Regarding her son's need to be self-reliant, she also agreed.

Old Wu looked at her and couldn't help but laugh: "Love is not introduced. At least many young people think that this kind of thing is called desperation."

There are many young people in Lao Wu's company. He will also chat with young people, and even lurk in various large groups in the company to see what young people are discussing.

On the one hand, it’s for work, and on the other hand, it’s to understand the children.

"Love, a Chinese word, refers to the mutual admiration and friendship between two sentient individuals. It also refers to the feeling of love. The mutual emotions between two individuals, the joy and happiness experienced." Mrs. Wu said

Put the food on the plate.

"So... there must be two individuals first."
To be continued...
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