Chapter 55: Children are Difficult (Part 2)
He acted as a child psychologist very conscientiously. He listened to Xiao Zhengtai’s troubles, depression, and grievances, both big and small, Wei Chi was very serious and focused from beginning to end, and treated Xiao Zhengtai Li Zhi very seriously as an adult. Of course, perhaps some of his troubles are insignificant from the perspective of an adult, but the child is serious, which is a major event in his world. Those who listen, please treat them seriously.
Wei Chi tried to give his own opinions or suggestions in the way Xiao Zhengtai thought. If he couldn't understand it for the time being, he asked in detail and gave his own answer after thinking. In general, both of them were very happy in this exchange. Xiao Yizi was very obedient and knew that her brother and Wei Chi were talking about very serious things. He obediently relied on Wei Chi's arms and did not make trouble. At most, Wei Chi rubbed Li Zhi's head, rubbed her, patted Li Zhi's shoulder, and patted her. Although she was young, she could not ignore her human rights and treated them equally.
Wei Chi is recommended by so many colleagues in modern times to be a pediatrician. The reason why he is so popular is to put it bluntly, this guy is a very good person who is good at communicating with others. He is a little poor, but this guy has a very eye-catching person. When he should be serious, he is absolutely down-to-earth and rational. Moreover, this guy is a very good person. No matter how big or small, as long as he is serious, he is willing to give the same attitude. Zi once said that attitude determines everything.
It is a very comfortable and happy thing to communicate with sincere people. Others show their own world for you to see, and you also show your own world for others to see. Different things collide with each other and you will always gain some rewards.
After finishing the work of a psychological counselor, Wei Chi watched the two young figures walk away and got up to go home. After walking two steps, he was stopped by the oncoming female official. Wei Chi recognized that he was from Empress Changsun's harem, so he was not waiting for him specifically, right?
"Mr. Wei, I'm telling you to go there."
"Oh, please lead the way."
Wei Chi and the others looked behind him, and it seemed that it was the Imperial Garden. By the way, there was nothing to do in the garden at this time, but the owner was not him, so he could not decide.
Wei Chi went over and saw Empress Changsun sitting alone in the pavilion from a distance, with a thoughtful expression. When Wei Chi came, she showed a dignified and calm smile and said, "Zi Yue is here, let's sit down. Today, I want to trouble you again."
Wei Chi quickly said, "Empress is too humble and can relieve her worries. I am very honored to be aware of my lack of talent and knowledge and will not be able to help her."
Empress Changsun smiled and shook her head, saying, "Ji Nu and Yizi went to find Ziyue just now?"
Wei Chi smiled and said, "Yes, the King of Jin and the little princess have not seen me for several days. Today I heard that I came to the palace and came over to chat for a few words and listened to two stories."
Empress Changsun smiled and said, "After I talked with Chengqian, I feel that my mother has not done it well. Does Ziyue think so too?"
Khan, this was serious. Wei Chi hurriedly said, "Empress, I think it's good to be in the position of Empress. I have always believed that human energy is limited. Empress is in charge of the harem and assists Your Majesty, so that Your Majesty has no worries. Although I don't understand the hard work, it must be not simple. Whether it is the prince, the prince, the princes, or the princess, they are all very good."
Empress Changsun smiled bitterly and said, "If it were so good, why would Chengqian's feet..."
While speaking and expression, he was still a little sad. Wei Chi smiled, suddenly stood up, looked in the direction of the East Palace, and said, "Empress, please see, the East Palace is there, Tai Chi Palace is here, there is a distance from the East Palace to Tai Chi Palace, and this distance is not formed in one day or two days. Fortunately, now, the Crown Prince has taken steps, and the Empress has also taken steps. If you are interested, the problem will no longer be a problem."
"There is a saying that distance produces beauty. I think it is not completely correct. Everything has two sides. The right distance is respect for each other, but if the distance is too far, it means alienation. Lack of necessary communication will cause problems. As time goes by, problems accumulate more and more, and many things are formed in this way. Let's talk about the situation in my family. My father, my elder brother, my father and my son, and I are the only ones who talk too much. My father and my elder brother are not good at speaking.
Often, the father starts from the father's perspective, and the elder brother starts from the elder brother's perspective, intentionally or unintentionally, through the other party's behavior and words, slowly, misunderstandings arise, and when there are misunderstandings, conflicts are likely to arise. Human hearts are very complicated, and sometimes they may not be able to figure it out themselves. Occasional communication is necessary. Just like a river, if it is often cleared, the water flow can be smoother, and there is less danger of flooding, and it is still silted by the river sand, and the situation will only become more and more dangerous."
"Zi Yue's words are reasonable."
Empress Changsun nodded and continued to ask: "Please continue to talk about your experience in dredging river sand."
Wei Chi giggled, grabbed his head, frowned and thought for a long time, and said, "Empress, you are a mother, and a woman. I am a man with a different identity and status. Those who are suitable for me may not be suitable for me. To put it bluntly, it is only a few words."
"Please say it."
Wei Chi thought about it again and said, "In summary, it is actually to be attentive, patient, equal, and respect each other. I have read some books on education before, and generally agree with and encourage education."
“What is encouragement of education?”
Wei Chi dug out a lot of modern educational theories and talked about them. Empress Changsun nodded directly. His Majesty Li Er and his wife are both smart people, so Wei Chi doesn't need Wei Chi to guide them on how to teach their children. Wei Chi doesn't think he is qualified to make trouble. But, in general, he will talk about some modern things. As for what is suitable and what is not suitable, he will naturally judge.
"...Empress, parents are the best teachers for children."
Empress Changsun was stunned, Wei Chi sighed silently, remembering that night, under the quiet moonlight, Prince Chengqian's narration and tears, remembering the melancholy of Li Zhi, the little prince Li Zhi, and said with great sincerity, "Empress, I am not an expert in this field, and what I said may not be correct. I will talk about my childhood."
"My mother, a very ordinary peasant woman, is ordinary, weak and gentle. She has no knowledge except for her own name, can recognize numbers, and is a little familiar with her. But she has a pair of skilled hands. Although her family was poor when she was a child, our brothers and sisters never felt that life was hard, because her mother never made us feel that life was hard, but instead made us feel very happy. Now we can remember it with a smile. I think it is not necessary to do anything, but it is enough to let the child grow up and recall the past with a smile."
What you have experienced may not be all beautiful, but as long as you can laugh when you recall it, it is happiness. Although you may not understand it at that time, when you understand it in the future, you will always gain something. We have been so happy and loved so carefully.
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Well, today I received a notification from the editor, and I will force the homepage next week! I will save the manuscript! Hehe, so, there are three chapters to be published today. I will hide it first. Wow, Kakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkakkak
Chapter completed!