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Zuo Chong is character, but Dai Chunfeng is attitude. In the past, when it comes to character, honesty, honesty, and sincere are all the virtues of gentlemen; dishonesty are deceitful villains. Half of character is generation and half of education; character manifests itself in nature and is the whole person. To say that a person is an honest gentleman or a deceitful villain is finally settled based on his behavior. A gentleman is probably always a gentleman, and a villain is probably always a villain. Although temperament can be changed, only a coffin can be used to determine people, that is just a special case. In the association, there are not too many such stereotyped gentlemen and villains, and ordinary people are generally floating and ups and downs between these two realms. The so-called ups and downs means that these people cannot control themselves and will inevitably be deceitful.

When it is false, this is also out of nature. There is another layer where these people sometimes consciously add and subtract their sincerity towards people and things to adapt to the situation. This is attitude. Attitude does not necessarily reflect the character; when an honest friend is forced to do so, he will lie or something. Attitude is out of necessity, out of the need for dealing with things or socializing, ordinary people are inevitably required. This is a project of "someland-like affection". Sometimes it can be forgiven, sometimes it can even be allowed. The changes in attitude may make people more interested in modern and changing society. What we often say in our mouths, the words "sincerity", "sincerity" and "hypocrisy" often written in our writing are probably all about attitude.

But most people seem to be too strict with these words. According to their opinion, there are too many people who are not sincere and unsincere. Young people are almost hypocritical in their view of people and things in society except themselves. The word "hypocritical" seems to be too broad. These are also common problems with the old gentlemen who say "people's hearts are not old, and the world is getting worse". Most people seem to confuse character and attitude, and young people are the same, but they add all kinds of fantasies of "natural" and "purity". Honesty character is indeed rare, but no one is wrong. In any case, there are always few perfect people or sages. We may only be more generous, and look at it from an attitude. Otherwise, there will be too many unnecessary troubles and disputes. As for innocence and purity, it seems that it is just the duty of children - old-fashioned children are really not happy. We may only be more generous, and look at it from an attitude. Otherwise, there will be too many unnecessary troubles and disputes. As for innocence and purity, it seems that it is just the duty of children - old-fashioned children are really not happy.

Eyes. But if a person is always so innocent and pure, he may not have much trouble, but he will give others too much trouble. Some people praise "childishness" and "childishness", which is limited to small programs that are irrelevant to the general, and can adjust the atmosphere of the tablet. If it is the same at an important moment, then innocence may be just willfulness, and purity may be just ignorance. Fortunately, insincerity, insincerity, hypocrisy, etc. have become catchphrases. Most people just follow everyone and frown, sneer, and say that they are helpless. Naturally, they cannot be serious, but they will suffer themselves and even others. Young people are prone to seriousness and dissatisfaction, and their dissatisfaction is often the driving force for social reform. But they must also be careful. If they pass the scores seriously in terms of honesty and falseness, they may become nihilists.

Song Minghao and Gu Qi have different differences between things, and words and deeds are the most difficult to be appropriate. Sincerity is indispensable, but different differences are different, so it is okay to consider adding or subtracting points. Various etiquettes or false scenes come from here. Some people say that etiquette is the art of life, and the original meaning of etiquette should be like this. The so-called politeness in daily life is also a kind of etiquette or false scene. Some people think that being too polite is too conservative, not a sincere attitude. These people advocate being straightforward and natural.

But, you have to look at people. If you see a stranger like this, it will be a bit wild. Even if you are acquaintances, you will naturally not be able to be uncontrollable. Couples are familiar with each other, and sometimes they have to be "respected as guests", which others can imagine. In short, in different situations, being straightforward can naturally express sincerity, and being polite can also express sincerity, but the degree of sincerity is different. Be polite and being generous and in accordance with your identity, otherwise it means too much sincerity; too much sincerity is too low.

Seeing people, treating guests, and giving gifts are also all pretentious. Some people say that these are just hypocritical and boring things. But these are actually expressing sincerity. You have to have this person in your heart to see him, invite him, and give him gifts, which is sincerity. As for the number of visits and the length of time, the situation of asking for a host or guest or accompanying guests, the situation of giving gifts is just a distinction between sincerity, not a distinction between being or not. Looking at people, there is a reply to the guests, and there is a reply to the sincerity. The old saying goes well, "It is not a courteous to come but not going back." No matter in ancient and modern times, human feelings are always the same. A person sends New Year gifts, and goes around, and one of the gifts he gives is back to his hands. He feels hypocritical and boring, and he treats it as a smile.

It is true that the conversation is true, but there is still sincerity. Another person met a friend who was not familiar with him on the road and said to him, "I want to see you." The person told others, "He doesn't need to see me, I know he won't come to see me. Look at this sentence, it's so meaningless!" The friend's sincerity seemed to be too much. Ms. Ling Shuhua wrote a short story called "Foreign Rules", which said that a young international student accompanied an old lady to the park and greeted her in this and that. She thought he fell in love with him, but how could he know that he was only doing "foreign rules"! This comedy was because the old lady did not understand the new etiquette and new scenes, and more estimates the sincerity of the international student. It can be seen that sincerity is indeed important.

People live for themselves and for others. Taking care of other people's emotions without hurting their own identity must be considered sincere and sincere. Such a generous view may make some people more interested in life. There is a saying in the West: "Life is about making plays." It's okay to do it, as long as you are determined to do it well, you will be able to do it. Be polite, etc. Some people think it is about making plays, but as long as you are for everyone's good, this kind of play is worth doing. On the other hand, sincerity and sincerity may not be a play. People now often say, "I tell you sincerely", "I am very sincere

", I show my sincerity and sincerity, and I have the spirit of selling melons saying sweetness, but honest gentlemen probably won't do this. However, ordinary people are used to nature and know that this is just to increase the weight of sincerity, emphasizing their attitude is not the same as the shouting of businessmen. Ordinary people are ordinary people, and they have to consider adding or subtracting their sincerity and changing their attitudes according to the situation; this is inevitably a bit of a play. There is also a saying in the West, "Honestness is the best policy", and "honestness" is just an attitude; this seems to be a playful word.

Wu Chunyang and Fu Ling

The same sentence "I'll invite you to my house to play tomorrow", children will be full of expectations. Once they fail, there will be no friends to do for a while; adults will only be polite and jokes, but once they come true, they will be a little surprised: what he said is true. This is actually the issue of "sincerity". If adults regard politeness as a blessing, and even accuse others of not being trustworthy, it would be too naive.

We tend to confuse character and attitude, and unconsciously lean on character. What is the difference between character and attitude? The author said: character is the generation and education, and it is the whole person; attitude is the conscious sincerity of people and things to adapt to changes in situations.

Since since sincerity refers to an attitude in many cases, and the attitude changes with the situation, it naturally produces etiquette and falsehood, such as politeness. Being kind is straightforward and relatively good. Although it is good at random, it still depends on the people and the occasion; being kind is sometimes considered to be mixed with false intentions, but it can also express sincerity.

Expressing politeness to others and accepting politeness to others is still a science. When expressing politeness, you must be generous (moderate) and in line with your identity (appropriate), otherwise your sincerity will appear "sincere". The stigma here means that value is reduced. Precise because sincerity is important, expressing politeness over-degree and not distinguishing between identity and occasion will cause disgust or misunderstanding from the recipient. The author's example of looking at people, treating guests and giving gifts is a good proof.

How do you think about the sincerity in daily life, but always with a little false politeness? The author said: "People live for themselves and for others. Taking care of other people's emotions without hurting their own identity must be considered sincere and sincere"; "It's okay to do a show, as long as you have the intention to do it well." You see, "Gu Quan" means that you have a "good for everyone" heart, and with such a heart, what can you criticize again? Only a wonderful person like the author can have such a wise eye for life.
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