Chapter 10238 Multiple Constraints
As for being annoyed?
That's even more impossible!
Luo Fengtang is not that stupid to be angry with his wife because of the child's affairs, because it is simply because he is in trouble with himself and is making himself uncomfortable.
The reason why he made so many suggestions today was mainly because it made him feel distressed to see his child being beaten.
If someone else had beaten his youngest son, he would have done the same thing.
But since the perpetrator was the daughter-in-law, there was nothing we could do.
"Qing'er, don't be so serious. Just because other people's children are like that doesn't mean our children are like that."
"No matter what, I am still very optimistic about our two children. They are both kind children by nature! They are just a little greedy and naughty!"
Yang Ruoqing said: "I admit what you said, the two little guys are both good-natured, but people in this world are inherently good by nature. Even my cousin Yang Yongxian used to be a scholar with a strong sense of justice."
"There are also Dabai and Xiaohei. We have watched their brothers grow up. When they were young, one of them was clever and could always say things that adults couldn't say. My aunt and the others regarded them as child prodigies!"
"There is also a tiger-like head and a tiger-like brain, which is very cute just by looking at it. It is also a happy treasure for everyone."
"So all kinds of pampering and flattery were given to Big White and Little Hei, but what happened in the end? The sapling grew crooked and turned into a tree with a crooked neck. In the end, it was too late to correct it!
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"And these two children in our family are also twins, and they are also two boys."
"Tuantuan has a quiet personality, but likes to observe more. He is more intelligent than Yuanyuan."
"Precocious wisdom is a good thing, but it is also not a good thing. It depends on how we guide and restrain it!"
"As for Yuanyuan, he actually doesn't have as many tricks as Tuantuan."
"But Yuanyuan is easily exploited by Tuan Tuan and used as a gunman. If you think about it carefully, have you ever had such a thing happen when the two of them got along together?"
After Yang Ruoqing reminded him, Luo Fengtang carefully recalled what he had seen and heard while living with the two children during his return to the village.
"As a father, I can't sit back and judge whether Tuan Tuan is too clever or not."
"But I know that, for example, Tuantuan wants something, and Yuanyuan happens to want it too. Maybe the impulse that Yuanyuan wants is not as strong as Tuantuan, but Tuantuan will find ways to encourage Yuanyuan and let Yuanyuan want it."
Yuanyuan takes the initiative to say what he wants."
"Similar things have happened more than once or twice."
Yang Ruoqing snapped her fingers: "So, these two children have to be corrected at any time. If they don't correct themselves a little, they will both run wildly on their own paths and develop wildly. When the time comes, they won't be able to pull them back!"
In Yang Ruoqing's view, the way of raising boys and girls needs to be adjusted.
When I was raising baby Luo, I was more lenient with her and not very restrictive. As long as it was something she liked to do and eat, as long as it was not excessive, her wishes would come true.
That's because she is a girl, and she wants to rebuild her courage and courage, and expand her horizons and structure.
There is no need to deliberately cultivate the ability to endure hardships and stand hard work, because as a girl of the Luo family, as long as she does not commit suicide, she is destined to basically never suffer hardship in this life, and she will always have good food and clothing.
But for the boys of the Luo family, it's different.
Boys should shoulder the responsibility of taking on small families, big families, and even more and heavier responsibilities.
You have to protect your wife and children, you have to protect your family and parents, and you have to stand firm in this world by your own abilities.
Therefore, for boys, it is necessary to sharpen their minds from an early age.
The warmth of the family and the carefree upbringing are the most basic prerequisites. In addition, we must also strengthen education and not be doting. The more doting you do, the more sissy you will be, otherwise you will become a mama's boy.
"And the most important thing is," Yang Ruoqing then told Luo Fengtang, "the reason why I don't give Yuanyuan lunch is because I don't want him to eat too much and stuff himself up and ruin his stomach."
"For breakfast in the morning, I personally prepared rice for him, egg fried rice, egg noodles, poached eggs, boiled eggs, six steamed dumplings, and a small half bowl of vegetables..."
"Seriously, a one-and-a-half-year-old child eating this much is really enough. He must not eat any more. If he eats any more, his intestines and stomach will be damaged."
"Besides, today is the New Year's Eve, and the New Year's Eve dinner will definitely be a big table of food, including chicken, duck, fish and all kinds of meat and oil."
"And during the Chinese New Year, the children have to dip their heads in some rice wine and fruit wine to taste it."
"Do you think his little stomach can handle it? When the time comes, his stomach will be damaged and he will suffer from indigestion. He will have to go to the hospital for the Chinese New Year. The adults will not worry about it. The key is that the child will suffer on his own, Tang Yazi.
Say no?"
Luo Fengtang nodded repeatedly, "Qing'er, you are absolutely right. It is indeed true."
"For a child, sometimes it's better to be hungry properly. Besides, he has eaten so much, so it's impossible for him to be hungry."
In this case, the couple stopped worrying about this matter and went to work quickly.
Posting couplets, tidying up the house, etc. Later, I have to go to the ancestral hall to burn incense, and to worship at the Tutu Temple in the south of the village. There are a lot of things.
Then Yang Ruoqing had to make arrangements to give the two little ones a bath, so that they could put on new clothes for the New Year.
Otherwise, when you are running around at night to pay New Year greetings, you won’t have time to do that.
A small second bedroom across the road.
Cao Bamei and Xiuhong were also busy preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner in the kitchen, while brothers Yang Yongjin, Yang Yongqing and Yang Yongzhi were posting couplets in the yard.
The brothers sat together and made calculations three years ago, although the eldest brother...right?
However, as brothers, the eldest brother is ruthless, but they cannot be unjust.
So they plan to celebrate the Chinese New Year this year. Instead of posting red festive couplets, they will replace them with green ones.
Green is very particular in this area. Whenever there is a funeral at home this year, a couplet of this color will be posted on the door.
This is a way to mourn the loss of loved ones.
At this moment, my brothers were helping me stick in the yard, and everyone was doing all this in silence without any laughter or laughter.
However, the children didn't understand and still enjoyed the New Year atmosphere. Several children ran around in the yard, shouting and yelling.
This scene couldn't help but remind the brothers of their childhood. During the Chinese New Year, the old Yang family had not yet been separated, their father was still alive, and the eldest brother was still a motivated scholar...
Chapter completed!