Chapter 4942 PTSD(1/2)
Regarding Yu Lele's situation, a word immediately emerged in the teacher's mind: PTSD, which is the sequelae of post-traumatic stress disorder.
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"…….No."
The old lady shook her head, "Lele..."
"I don't like going to the hospital."
"We don't want to force him."
That car accident and the month I was lying in the hospital later was a nightmare for the child.
At the worst, the child even wants to vomit when he smells the stinky water.
They feel sorry for such a child.
How can I bear to force my child?
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"...We also feel that as time goes by... he will slowly accept the fact that his parents are no longer there."
Time will heal everything.
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When the old lady said this, the teacher couldn't say anything to persuade her.
It is mainly because Yu Lele's past performance did not make her notice the abnormality.
If it weren't for today, she might have never discovered this sequelae of Yu Lele.
As a teacher, she felt that she was a little dereliction of duty.
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What the old lady said... actually makes sense.
Time can heal everything.
Everything is short and fragile in the face of time...
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Rather than making the child suffer now...
It is better to leave time to let the growing children realize this fact by themselves...
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only……
The teacher was a little worried.
This is not without drawbacks.
if……
She said if...
No one tear apart the child's utopia and let the child indulge in it...
What should I do if I can't extricate myself?
I want to wake up again at that time...
But it's not easy.
No.
It is very difficult.
Almost impossible.
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“…It’s been two years since that incident…”
The teacher still expressed his concerns.
"Yu Lele hasn't understood yet..."
"You don't think this time..."
“Has it been too long?”
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“…The child is still young.”
His lips stuttered a few times, and the old lady spoke quietly.
The child is still young...
I still don't understand the meaning of life and death.
He needs more time to understand and accept...
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"It's been two years."
Even though I knew that my words were not pleasing, the teacher still said it.
She was worried that the worst outcome would happen.
In order to prevent problems in the future, some ugly words must be said in the front.
"You know the longer the time goes on..."
The teacher took a deep breath.
"... Maybe what I'm waiting for is not his awakening..."
"But his..."
The teacher paused, she glanced at the child whose ears were covered, and then said, "It's stubborn."
"At that time, it's all you..."
"There is no way to wake him up."
"He is confident that his parents are still by his side, and he has penetrated his bones."
"Have you ever thought this is possible?"
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The old lady's lips trembled.
She made no sound.
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The old lady's appearance made the teacher feel a little reluctant.
She knew that the old man had endured too much.
The pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person is unimaginable.
This is another situation for the only grandson...
But long pain is worse than short pain.
"I suggest you..."
The teacher looked at the old lady seriously and said, "I'm looking for a day to take Yu Lele to see a psychologist."
"Leave professional things to professionals."
"Maybe things went well beyond your expectations."
"Only when Yu Lele realizes that his parents are gone, can he truly get out of the car accident that year."
"...You don't want your children to stay addicted to the past, right?"
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The old lady pursed her lips.
Slowly, she nodded.
The old lady is always willing to believe the teacher's words.
only……
The situation of this child Lele is a bit special...
The old lady reached out and touched the child's head.
The soft touch of her under her hands did not make her feel better.
The old lady sometimes thinks...
To be continued...