Chapter 97: Ignore
"Have your mom told you?"
"No, I see that she is unhappy these days, and you haven't gone there again, thinking that you two are having a conflict."
Xu Na glanced in the rearview mirror and said, "Your mother and I are sisters. We broke the bones and tendons. We will be fine in a few days. Don't worry about this. Are you tired these days? Are you going to have a final exam, right?"
"I'm almost asleep, I can't finish the exercises every day." Shang Xin said this and said too much.
Children Hu Fan were still making trouble, and it was very lively all the way.
After the meal, he sent his niece home. Seeing his daughter sleeping, Xu Na talked to her niece about serious matters, "Have you seen that man? How are you?"
"I'm pretty fat, with his son, we are just four fat guys."
After hearing this, Xu Na wanted to laugh for no reason, "That's not good. If you find a thin man and compare him with you every day, you will be under a lot of pressure."
"I don't like the tone of his speaking to my mother. I always feel like educating people, but my mother still listens to what he says."
As soon as these words came out, Xu Na also found out where the problem was.
Children who grew up in single-parent families are always afraid that their father or mother will be taken away. Their original lives will suddenly squeeze in with an outsider, which will inevitably lead to panic.
Since she knew where the problem was, Xu Na was not worried. She knew that it would be a fantasy to expect Xu Li to talk about these with her children. Perhaps Xu Li has not noticed this problem until now.
"Shang Xin, your mother remarried. Although she had one more person to enter your life, her love for you would not change, and she would have more. Even if she sacrificed herself, she would not abandon her children." Xu Na had already parked the car and turned off the fire. She did not rush to get out of the car. "When your father and your mother divorced, she asked you for you and gave your mother 100,000 yuan, but your mother did not agree. She did not ask for money and chose you. When you grow up, you have to have your own life. Have you ever thought about it? When you grow up and have your own family, will your mother still be alone, will she be alone?"
Shang Xin lowered his head, raised his head for a long time, and smiled, "Auntie, I understand."
Xu Na is very happy that her niece can accept it so quickly, but the reality really has to be faced, and there are still many difficulties to overcome. Xu Na feels that she needs to talk to Xu Li about this.
The wind was cold in the evening of July in the north. Xu Na fell down the car window and stood outside the car, watching her niece enter the dumpling restaurant. Soon after, Xu Li walked out.
Xu Li was still calm, but Xu Na ignored it, "I want to talk to you about Shang Xin."
Without mentioning the last quarrel, Xu Li's tone was still a little awkward, "Tell me."
"You plan to remarry. Have you ever talked about it? Children who grew up in single-parent families are very emotionally responsible for bringing their relatives, so it is difficult to accept remarry in the short term. Now that you develop feelings, you have to communicate with your children and listen to their thoughts."
Xu Li did not interrupt, which meant that she had gone when she listened. Xu Na continued, "The original life of two people was suddenly broken, and another outsider was about to come in, which would make the child feel that the only person she relied on was taken away. The child was panicked and had nowhere to say, and the child would become closed and inferior."
"Fellowship is a matter of two people, marriage is a fusion of two families. You are both remarried families and have one child. That is the matter of four people, not the affairs of you two."
Chapter completed!