Tan Jin'er and the female doctor were sitting in the room next door, observing Xier's behavior through monitoring.
In the camera, Xiao Xiaobai walked out of his food doll house with a piece of meat in his arms and walked into Xier's place, yelling to give Xier a piece of meat. By the way, he asked Xier if there were any carrots that he didn't eat, and gave her one, because she liked to eat carrots very much, and her own one was not enough.
It turned out to be here to exchange food.
Xier gave the carrots to Xiao Xiaobai happily. The little guy returned to his hut happily. But after a while, the little guy walked over again, yelling that Sister Xier wanted to eat rice or noodles.
"What do you want to eat?" Xier did not answer, but asked back.
Xiaoxiaobai said: "I want to eat noodles because I want to become a noodle person."
"hiahiahia~ Then I want to eat rice, give it to you, take it."
"Thank you, Sister Xidou~"
Xiao Xiaobai ran away happily with slim slim.
In front of the camera, the female doctor was amused and cried and said to Tan Jin'er: "You can't let this little guy disturb Xi'er anymore, otherwise the experiment will be ineffective."
Tan Jin'er was also amused and crying: "I'll talk to Xiao Xiaobai."
She got up and went to the next room, bent down and squatted in front of Xiao Xiaobai's food toy house. The door was not closed, and said to the busy little friend inside, "Xiao Xiaobai, are you busy?"
Xiao Xiaobai, who was busy, looked at her and laughed: "I'm busy and I'm cooking. Sister Jin'er, I'll treat you to lunch. What kind of dishes do you want to eat?"
Tan Jin'er smiled and said, "I'm quite full now, just make it for yourself to eat. I want to tell you a rule, that is, you can't always go around when cooking..."
Xiao Xiaobai immediately promised that he would never copy Xier. Tan Jin'er left. As soon as she got up, Xier next door poked her head out and invited her to sit in her doll room.
Tan Jin'er repeatedly declined the little sister's enthusiasm and then returned to the next room.
Without Xiao Xiaobai's disturbance, Xier finally immersed in the fun of playing house.
She quickly picked food in the supermarket, then returned to the kitchen, put on an apron, and started to cook.
Seeing that she was so skillful in cooking, the female doctor asked Tan Jiner: "Does Xier help cook at home?"
Tan Jin'er said: "She likes to help me very much."
The female doctor said, "Does she always hope to help you?"
Tan Jin'er thought about it and said, yes.
The female doctor wrote down the notebook and continued to stare at the screen intently.
As for Xiao Xiaobai next door, no one paid attention to it anymore. Because this little guy was lying directly in the kitchen to play with a crocodile baby, his bulging belly was facing the sky, and he seemed to have lost interest in cooking...
Tan Jiner observed carefully, but did not find anything abnormal about her little sister, which was the same as usual.
But the female doctor around her was relishing in her eyes and recorded something in her notebook from time to time.
Perhaps she noticed Tan Jiner's confusion and explained: "Jiner, you must have noticed that when Xier was picking food in the supermarket just now, did she carry a lot of ingredients?"
Tan Jiner recalled the scene just now and nodded and said yes.
The female doctor pointed to Xier in the camera and said, "Look at Xier, she made two dishes, and all the remaining ingredients were stored by her. Since she couldn't use them all, why should she take so many ingredients?"
Tan Jin'er was stunned and said, "Are you saying Xier afraid of being hungry? Is she feeling crisis?"
The female doctor nodded: "This is called scarcity fear."
"But she has never been hungry since she was a child. Although life is difficult, there is no problem with food and clothing."
"It's not that you have to be hungry to have scarcity. For children with precocious minds, they are actually clear about the financial situation at home. If the family is in trouble, they will also feel anxious. Don't think that children are carefree and innocent and ignorant."
These words silently made Tan Jin'er.
The female doctor continued, "Look at her distributes food to the doll and herself."
Tan Jin'er looked at the camera and Xi'er placed a rag doll at the dining table. She and the doll each had a bowl, and food was placed in the bowl.
The female doctor said: "Did you notice it? Did Xier allocate a lot of food to her dolls, but she distributed very little food to herself."
Tan Jin'er did notice that Xier's own food was about half that of a doll.
The little guy is still coaxing the baby to have a full meal.
Moreover, the baby has a lot of meat and vegetables in his rice bowl, but only two pieces of meat and some vegetables.
The female doctor said: "Xi'er usually eats at home, isn't it the same? I advise you to eat more and pick up food for you frequently, but you eat less, eat less, and have less dishes."
Tan Jin'er had already realized something, and she whispered: "She always said she couldn't eat that much."
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The female doctor nodded silently and said nothing.
Tan Jin'er asked, "Why does my sister have this kind of mentality?"
The female doctor said: "Because she felt she was not worthy."
"ah?"
Tan Jin'er's eyes widened, unbelievable.
The female doctor said: "By the food distribution ratio, self-worth awareness can be quantified. Xier adds less than half of the food she adds to her, which means that she subconsciously evaluates herself with less than 50%.
Tan Jiner couldn't believe it: "Does she feel that she doesn't deserve to eat so much?"
The female doctor said: "It can be thought that she is in a self-sacrifice mode. But this is just a single behavior we have seen this time. We cannot draw a complete conclusion. It is best to have long-term observations to be more accurate."
But Tan Jiner already believed this statement, because whenever Xier had something delicious and fun, she always thought of giving it to other children first and playing with it. Although she liked it very much, her priority was always after others. Only when she satisfied other children first, she would think of herself!
She has educated her little sister many times for this, and she has also seen Xiaobai educate Xier many times. Every time Xiaobai finds out, she will always stuff the things back into Xier's arms and will not allow her to give them to others.
Tan Jiner faced her sister's self-sacrifice pattern for the first time and couldn't help but want to cry.
They are all caused by themselves.
"What should I do?"
The doctor said: "Don't worry, I will make a plan, but it will take a long treatment process. After all, the psychology is the most difficult to reverse."
Tan Jiner said firmly: "I will cooperate with you with all my strength and I can do whatever I want."
"We should not underestimate the seriousness of the problem, but we should not over-pressure. Fortunately, Xier is still young and the girl is very cheerful. She has handed over many friends, which will help her mental health."
What the female doctor didn't say was that fortunately Xier had sex with so many friends, otherwise the problem would be even more serious.
The children she came into contact with were generally accompanied by depression, withdrawal, introversion, etc., and even schizophrenia, which were destroyed throughout her life.
Since Tan Xier arrived here, she has been smiling on her face and has a lively and cheerful personality. When she sees the company's employees, she will take the initiative to say hello, and she is not afraid of being angry at all.
Tan Jiner deeply agreed: "She met Xiaobai and the others when she was over three years old. She usually plays with Xiaobai. They are very good. They meet every day and go to school and do homework together... Thanks to Xiaobai."
Chapter completed!