We have discussed marriage many times.

I kept telling her that I had no money, and if I got married, I could only use this house in Jinchang Community to make a new house.

Zhang Hongxia agreed.

Yes, I did borrow 50,000 yuan from her.

That was something I pretended on purpose.

I told her: I had a lot of money outside and had no choice but to borrow usury from XBai. In order to make her believe that I did operate on a mobile loan, I also showed her the loan record.

This is my test of her, and I do need this money.

I was interested in a house in the city, with a down payment of more than 90 square meters and a down payment of 360,000 yuan. I planned to secretly complete the house purchase procedures without telling her, and pay the provident fund loan more than 4,000 yuan a month. I will bear the money independently. When I go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate, I will tell her and give her a surprise.

The next week, Zhang Hongchao came to the unit to look for me.

He opened his mouth and asked me to hand over the 50,000 yuan, saying that it was the money Zhang Hongxia prepared for him to buy a house.

I was stunned for a moment.

I called Zhang Hongxia and the three of them made an appointment. Then she told me: Her parents had agreed that the house where the old couple now lives is located in the city center and has a high price. They plan to sell it and use the money to buy a big house in the new city area and leave it to her younger brother Zhang Hongchao to make a wedding house. Then the old couple lived with them, so it would be convenient for them to take care of their children in the future.

I was skeptical of this statement at that time: Although the houses on both the new and old urban areas are very different, they are not as good as buying a new house of hundreds of square meters just by selling an old house of dozens of square meters.

Zhang Hongxia said that she would make up for the difference in the middle.

I said how is this possible? There are hundreds of thousands of differences between the two, and she has no deposits either.

Zhang Hongchao kept shouting beside him: If I want to marry his sister, I have to take out at least 300,000 yuan as a bride price. This is still beyond 50,000 yuan.

bride price?

Zhang Hongxia had never mentioned these things before.

I became popular at that time and took the siblings to find the old couple and confirmed in person.

Zhang Hongxia's mother turned against her and gave me two conditions directly.

First: When you marry into their family, you will live with them after marriage, and free up the house in Jinchang Community for Zhang Hongchao. If you accept this condition, you will only receive 100,000 yuan in the bride price.

Second: You can not marry into a marriage, but you need a bride price of 300,000 yuan. You have to give another 18,000 yuan red envelope when you get married.

I asked at the time: "Why?"

But her mother told me: I have been with her daughter for so long, and now I have a marriage negotiation. There is a rule in everything, and the bride price must not be left out.

Her father did not make any statement next to him, just said that he was "giving the bride price is for your own good."

Things got so fast that it was less than a week before and it felt like they were completely different.

I rushed to the old couple's house and was also very angry. After hearing the two requests made by Zhang Hongxia's mother on the spot, I calmed down and asked Zhang Hongxia: "Do you know these things? What do you want to do?"

Zhang Hongchao said coldly beside him: "Sister, show off with him and let him choose."

Zhang Hongxia knew my temper, so she asked her parents and brother to go out first, keep us behind, and explain the matter clearly.

More than two months ago, due to business dealings, Zhang Hongxia's unit contacted a new client. She was responsible for copywriting and negotiations, and later found out that an important member of the other party's negotiation team was actually her boyfriend who broke up many years ago.

The man is now quite wealthy and is very excited after meeting him and made an appointment with Zhang Hongxia for dinner.

After Zhang Hongxia met me, she deleted the past information on her phone and set the phone numbers of many people to blacklist.

She was indeed determined to live with me at that time, and decided to give up on the past and start over.

My ex-boyfriend couldn't get through her phone number, and she went to another place because of her work. After a long time, it would be fine.

This chance encounter made him decide to pursue it again and start over.

Zhang Hongxia did not agree, did not give him a phone number, nor did she add WeChat.

The ex-boyfriend refused to give up and took advantage of the negotiations between the two sides to send flowers every day and make an appointment for dinner in private.

Neither of them made any statement.

The ex-boyfriend was for negotiation purposes to avoid misunderstandings caused by the company's knowledge.

Zhang Hongxia was willing to refuse, but she was afraid that the news would reach my ears.

One night, the man made an appointment for dinner in the name of "business". When she went there, she found that the other party was the only one who wanted to leave, but she had already served the food. She was not good enough to give her ex-boyfriend face, so she sat down to have a meal and drank some wine. Zhang Hongxia felt guilty and didn't call me that night or send a message. Later, the man kept urging her to drink too much and said she was sending her home, but the two of them went to the hotel.

Her old love has rekindled, but she has not yet reached the point where she can completely abandon me.

The problem is that her ex-boyfriend has been pestering her since then. During those days of negotiations, she kept proposing to her and even knelt down and said: Leaving that year was a mistake, asking her to forgive her.

The man was very rich and had several houses under his name.

This alone is enough to throw me several streets away.

Zhang Hongxia has never agreed.

Her ex-boyfriend found Zhang Hongchao.

The two of them knew each other back then. The man told Zhang Hongchao these things and said bluntly: As long as Zhang Hongchao helps to get Zhang Hongxia, he will give him a house to get married.

I believe that the man really wants to marry Zhang Hongxia, after all, they have had a relationship. In contrast, I am an outsider... But after so many years, my attitude towards Zhang Hongxia has changed from rejection to acceptance. Now I plan to get married, but he intervenes. What's the matter?

Zhang Hongxia is very spoiled to Zhang Hongchao, her younger brother. She has to give him some money every month, and the amount is quite large. In fact, Zhang Hongchao has always been hostile to me. He believes that after Zhang Hongxia met me, she reduced the money she gave him every month because she spent too much on me. And after we got married, the money might be gone. After all, we also have our own families and children to take care of and cannot continue to support him as an idle person.

Zhang Hongchao pulled the old couple in.

He spoke very well at home. After all, he was the son of the Zhang family. His status in the old man far exceeded that of Zhang Hongxia, the sister. Although the old couple had promised our marriage before, they could not resist Zhang Hongchao. They had more or less thoughts of greed for money in their hearts. So during that time, they called Zhang Hongxia home for dinner every day. The three of them took turns to persuade him, and Zhang Hongxia gradually changed her mind.

I was completely kept in the dark, like a fool, and knew nothing.

They made a plan: in the name of the bride price, they forced me to submit, which is one of them.

I kept hiding from Zhang Hongxia, and she didn't know that I had this deposit. 300,000 is already a large amount. No matter how much it is, it would be unreasonable and would have a negative effect.

If I borrow money everywhere and take out the money, Zhang Hongxia would use the child in her belly to threaten it: using the breakup chip to kill the child.

Although the pregnancy time is short, she sees all my behaviors. She knows that I value this child very much. If I am willing to break up, she will give birth to me and then marry that man.

Haha, it's weird, isn't it?

When I heard what she said, I was stunned. To be honest, I have seen love stories and heard a lot of them. However, this is the first time I have encountered her ex-boyfriend who does not care about the process and does not care about the consequences, even if she is pregnant and sent to someone else's child, she is determined to marry her.

I once thought that Zhang Hongxia was lying to cover up some shameful purpose.

What happened later told me that I was still too naive.

There is no ridiculous story that I would rather give her a child to me for love.

Everything was made up by her.

The reason why I said that was just to make me devote myself and completely cut off any of her thoughts.

If you don’t have money or house, you will break up if you break up.

As long as she fooled me, she would turn around and go to the hospital for an abortion.

The reason why she didn't have the surgery as soon as possible was because she was in the negotiation period and she didn't want to affect her work.

In short, no matter how I say it, it is to make me retreat and leave forever.

Neither the Zhang family nor Zhang Hongxia themselves promoted it to the outside world.

After all, this is not a good thing. Zhang Hongxia has been with me for so many years, and all her colleagues in her unit know that we are talking about marriage. At this time, we suddenly change the groom... Haha, people need a face to live, which is the bottom line.

She needs time to deal with this coldly and gradually let her ex-boyfriend enter life. If it is not handled well, it will only bring negative results to her.

She is no longer the reckless little girl who did things many years ago.

After hearing what she said that day, I asked, "Have you thought about it?"

She was silent for a long time and nodded.

This is enough.

When I left, the two old bastards of the Zhang family kept laughing. Her mother was very arrogant and her eyes were full of mockery. Her father had a slight apology on his face, but his expression was relieved.

Her younger brother Zhang Hongchao is the most hateful. He said: "If you don't have money, don't think of marrying my sister. Pee and take good care of yourself. If you are a decades old, you don't even have a house. Who will live with you if your eyes are blind."

I wanted to rush into the kitchen and slam the kitchen knife to kill their whole family.

I knew that murder was illegal, so I said nothing and turned around and left.

They will definitely pay the price for it!

I must kill them, come one by one, like slaughtering pigs.

No one can insult me.

After all, Zhang Hongxia and I have been together for a long time, and she was a little disgusted with this matter. After that, she called me for several days and said that she was having an appointment to have dinner and came out to meet her. She explained it carefully and apologized by the way.

Haha, it's a fool!

She was obviously afraid that I would go to her unit to cause trouble, so that everyone would know that she would do something in person and behind her back.

If I make this big, she will not only lose face in the company, but may also affect the cooperation between the two sides. Then the business will not be negotiated and she will not be able to step down.

I know very well that Zhang Hongxia is actually not very important. She had to pursue me back then, but now even if she loses points in her reputation, it will not have much impact on her.

At her age, getting married has become the primary choice.
To be continued...