Five hundred and forty-eighth internal cause(1/2)
Her husband only runs business outside all day long. Chen Linju feels that Zhang Chaojun is becoming more and more indifferent to her. Except for giving money to her every time when he comes home, he rarely talks even if they meet.
Facts have proven that many problems are caused intentionally by idleness.
It is so comfortable to live at home without having to work, and my husband will give the money he earns to me.
Without pressure, there is no motivation. As a full-time wife, Chen Linju’s daily life is very monotonous. In addition to picking up and dropping off her children every day, she also has three meals a day for her old mother.
Apart from that, she spent most of her time on her mobile phone.
Brush, brush, brush... I have to turn off my phone and go to bed after at least twelve o'clock every day.
The brainless short video looks very interesting, and you can watch it for hours.
All kinds of messy chicken soup stories tell stories, and Chen Linju especially likes to read the type where "women must never treat themselves badly".
With a monthly mobile phone subscription, except for the cost of Internet access, all phone calls are free throughout the year.
My eyes hurt after watching too many short videos. At this time, Chen Linju calls her best friend to chat.
Hu Guiyun is Chen Linju's junior high school classmate. The two have a very good relationship, and their pure friendship has been maintained to this day.
Hu Guiyun has always been thin. She was married and divorced.
In fact, there were signs of divorce as early as when she gave birth to a child. Speaking of which, Hu Guiyun is also a very practical woman: when she was in high school, she liked a boy who was two years ahead of her. The boy later took the exam.
When she was in college, she met Hu Guiyun at a class reunion. She already had a boyfriend at the time, but she ignored it and went out with the boy that night. They had a night that she thought was full of romance and that she would never regret.
Facts have proved that there are many unknown and unspectacular artillerymen in this world.
Hu Guiyun was hit by a bullet... She had no choice but to marry her current boyfriend. Eight months later, she gave birth to a child.
Although Hu Guiyun kept saying that this was a "premature birth," her husband's mother was very shrewd. She felt that something was going on at the time. However, Hu Guiyun paid close attention to the child, so her mother-in-law had no choice but to start in advance and control the family's property.
The main thing is to reconfirm and notarize the pre-marital property. The other thing is to ask the son, Hu Guiyun's husband, to hand over his monthly salary and have it under his control.
Hu Guiyun complained, scolded, argued, and made trouble... all these little tricks were useless in the face of her mother-in-law's strength.
Later, my mother-in-law found an opportunity and secretly took a DNA test with her child, which proved that she was not related by blood to Hu Guiyun's current husband.
The mother-in-law is a powerful person. She went to Hu Guiyun to show off her cards: "Either you take the initiative to divorce, or I will publicize the matter. If it is the first option, I will give you 50,000 yuan. It is your choice."
Hu Guiyun really wants the third option: refuse divorce and maintain the status quo.
Her mother-in-law slapped her hard at that time. Hu Guiyun had a very clear understanding at that time - her mother-in-law was extremely powerful in fighting, and he, a scumbag, was no match for her.
Then get a divorce!
People who have gone through the same experience often feel that they have something in common.
Chen Linju is too idle. She has a sensitive personality and likes to complain. She calls Hu Guiyun whenever she has nothing to do and tells her about her "sufferings".
My husband is not at home all year round.
I am the only one who looks after the children and my mother at home.
Every day I'm not hanging around the pot, doing laundry, tidying up the house, and cleaning.
You see, in my youth, I have turned into a yellow-faced woman ahead of schedule.
To put it bluntly, it’s all free time.
Thinking back to the beginning, after Chen Linju divorced her ex-husband, she struggled with her children and her mother, looking for work everywhere and even not having enough to eat.
Now, after finding a good man like Zhang Chaojun, who took the initiative to hand over the financial power to Chen Linju, and also had a lot of money, with an average monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan, she felt that her life was too dull and without passion.
"I'm really miserable." Chen Linju would complain every time she called Hu Guiyun: "He's not at home all day long, and I have to worry about everything at home and outside. After being busy with the young and busy with the old, this life is simply unbearable.
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These words are half true and half false. Chen Linju feels that life is unsatisfactory, but in fact no one's life can be 100% happy. There must be small frictions between husband and wife. Especially when expectations are too high, all kinds of messy things will happen.
idea.
Strictly speaking, the relationship between Hu Guiyun and Chen Linju is not very close. However, both of them have the same experience of marriage and divorce, so they have a natural sense of closeness. Before Chen Linju found Zhang Chaojun and got married, they often got together.
They complained about the hardships of life and cursed each other's ex-husbands with all kinds of dirty words.
This is all normal. You need to vent your unsatisfactory life, and no matter whether you have done something wrong or not, you need to be comforted subjectively. Hu Guiyun doesn't know what Chen Linju thinks specifically, but she feels that they need to hug each other for warmth. Gradually,
The relationship between the two is getting closer and closer, almost like two sisters.
Later, Chen Linju got married, and Hu Guiyun was invited to the wedding and had a simple banquet. In her opinion, Zhang Chaojun was just like that, unattractive in appearance, even ugly, with thick and dark skin, which was similar to that of a construction site.
There is no difference between the migrant workers who work to earn a living.
Frankly speaking, Hu Guiyun really didn't have any bad thoughts towards Zhang Chaojun. She just felt that Chen Linju was not worth it - such a good woman found such an ugly man. Not to mention her age, she was not in line with her in all aspects.
aesthetic standards.
Every woman has a beautiful fairy tale in her heart, hoping that one day Prince Charming will appear in front of her.
It’s good to have ideas. But in fact, not everyone riding a white horse is a prince. Moreover, creatures like “princes” are very rare to begin with. If you can catch one, it will be a high price. How can they appear in large numbers?
Due to preconceptions and the fact that Chen Linju complained on the phone all day long, Hu Guiyun, as a qualified best friend and a normal person with a sound mind, must have considered Chen Linju's thoughts and feelings first, rather than the truth.
After all, the person who married Zhang Chaojun was Chen Linju. As an outsider, Hu Guiyun had no way of knowing the full story of whether the couple lived happily or not. At most, he could just take a peek, and use his own previous marriage experience as a reference.
More importantly, Hu Guiyun has been to Chen Linju's home several times and has never seen Zhang Chaojun. In Chen Linju's words: He works outside, he works outside, and he makes money outside.
They all sound like legitimate reasons, sounding and completely justified.
Once suspicion arises and then expands into dissatisfaction, even a trivial matter will quickly ferment and spiral out of control.
"Why does your man never come home?"
"Calculate for yourself, there are three hundred and sixty-five days in a year, how many days does he stay at home?"
"Don't say I didn't remind you, this person has selfish motives. Zhang Chaojun says he is working on projects outside, but in fact you don't know what he is doing. Do you have any brains?
You are his wife, you have to watch him!"
"I don't believe that all the money he earns every month will be given to you. Why? Doesn't he have any brains? You are not his first wife. You and he are divorced, and these men are the same.
In the end, it is selfish. Although Zhang Chaojun lives out of town and does not have a house in the provincial capital, do you believe that he is honest and entrusts all his money to you for safekeeping? "
"Anyway, I think Zhang Chaojun is pretty good at pretending. He earns two points and gives you one point, and he keeps half for himself. I've seen this kind of man too many times, and it's only a brainless person like you who treats him as a treasure. Think about it,
You are not Xi Shi Diao Chan, and your family situation is not very good, so why should he treat you wholeheartedly? I guess Zhang Chaojun just wants to find a woman who can look after his house honestly, so I will give you ten thousand yuan a month.
Not bad.”
"Let me tell you, Zhang Chaojun's actual earnings must be more than that. This money must be kept in his own pocket. He is not a fool, so why should he hand it all over? This man will become bad when he has money. He must be different outside.
woman."
"Besides, what normal man doesn't go home all the time like him? Now that you are alone in an empty house, how long have you been married to him? What's the difference between you and being a widow now?"
Chen Linju complained, but she never thought too much about it. However, after Hu Guiyun's analysis, she suddenly felt that what her best friend said was all reasonable.
"He...he really has a woman outside?" Chen Linju felt her heart tightening instantly.
"It's almost ten thousand." Hu Guiyun didn't dare to say it. She could only continue to analyze according to her own logic: "Think about it! If he can give you ten thousand, it means that he still has at least ten thousand in his pocket. You used to
If you work outside, you should be very clear about the concept of 10,000 yuan. People like Zhang Chaojun who don’t care about the family can eat and drink well outside, even if it’s a different woman every night, that’s enough.”
After all, Hu Guiyun has little knowledge. She doesn't know that high-quality women are worth tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, or even millions. What she understands and has seen with her own eyes is only the kind worth tens or hundreds of dollars. But even that kind
In her opinion, women, both in appearance and figure, are far beyond Chen Linju.
Hu Guiyun felt that as long as Zhang Chaojun was not blind or stupid, why should he choose Chen Linju?
If you can make money, eat, drink and enjoy yourself, why would you want to marry a woman like Chen Linju? You are simply causing trouble for yourself!
Hu Guiyun was a little jealous about her best friend's remarriage. But if she was jealous and resentful and didn't want others to be kind to her, she couldn't reach that level.
After hearing this, Chen Linju had an idea in her mind.
The more times the two resentful women get together, the more time passes, and even things that don't exist will become true.
Chen Linju is not an idiot, she still has her own judgment ability.
The real straw that breaks the camel's back comes from the mouth of others.
Chen Linju was idle and bored all day, so she began to imitate the idlers in the community and play mahjong.
It's not a big fight, it's a bloody battle, the kind where you have a five-dollar bet.
Her skills are average, and winning or losing mainly depends on luck. Anyway, she just kills time and dawdles.
Those who have time to play mahjong every day are idle people. They either have a free job or have money at home. People who are really running for a living will not sit at the table, touch the cans in their hands, and say it doesn’t hurt.
If it's not itchy.
Mahjong players are both male and female, and the overall age group is older.
This is normal. After all, those who have money and leisure are mostly middle-aged and elderly people.
Chen Linju is not too young, nor is she too old. After marrying Zhang Chaojun, she stayed at home and was exposed to wind and sun. She gained weight day by day and her skin became whiter than before.
Overall, she is somewhat pretty. Especially her round face makes her even more cute.
The men at the mahjong table all like to make jokes and tease the women at the table with words. Anyway, there are only four of them milling around, and everyone’s four faces are familiar. After looking at Chen Linju for a long time, I feel that Chen Linju looks pretty good, and there are several men who are right for her.
She had an idea and made an appointment to have dinner together after playing mahjong.
To be continued...