Chapter 105 Fear of marriage
Wei Lan didn't talk about Qin Ya, Nie Zuo almost forgot that she still existed. Nie Zuo said: "This girl is still in the driving school, I have to go see her. Let's contact you later." Hang up the phone.
Mai Yan glanced at Nie Zuo and said, "Men, if the woman at home is not given, the woman in the company is generous. Will you not be able to control one day?"
Nie Zuo replied seriously: "Even if I wear a dress, my heart is still the Chinese heart."
Mai Yan was not angry. Knowing that Nie Zuo was joking, he said after a long time: "Why don't we live together first?"
"Yeah?" Nie Zuo was stunned.
"Will you dislike me in the future or get tired of me? It's the future." Mai Yan knew that in order to sleep with a woman, men dared to agree to any promises. She didn't want Nie Zuo to promise what to do in the future. She knew that extending the time for the two of them could effectively extend the love between the two. For example, Nie Zuo had extensive social interactions and had certain conditions for being loved by women. When she lost her freshness, she could only rely on responsibility to maintain his belt. Mai Yan had many advantages, but also had shortcomings, which was that she was quite pessimistic about love and marriage. This cannot be entirely blamed, because her parents had a great impact on her. In addition, many housewives now believe that it is difficult for men to cheat, and they lowered their requirements. Her husband only had a family care, and she didn't want to think about some details. Mai Yan saw that many more successful men over 40 years old around her would not be only one woman behind her.
Nie Zuo thought for a long time and said, "Of course I am in favor of living together. The Big Bad Wolf has been staring at Little Red Riding Hood for many years. But... Mai Yan, can you not look at the people around you? Take your eyes off, for example, look at many foreign couples, who are loyal to each other and protect each other."
"Clinton has cheated, are you talking about Mars?"
"..." This is really hard to refute, mainly due to social atmosphere, values and morality. Nie Zuo knew a boss who was very loyal to his wife because when he was poor, his wife never left her and worked together. However, when he went out to have dinner with clients and friends, his wife couldn't take her out. Everyone told some dirty jokes at the dinner table, chatting about romantic things, and they couldn't let go. Occasionally, he brought a yellow-faced woman to socialize, and his friends complained in private: You only brought your wife, everyone brought her all.
It's a mistress, you make everyone too embarrassed. Then he has a mistress. This mistress is a student who works and studies at A University. He didn't sleep with others, but he brought it out when needed. The student is very good at talking and suited. The boss told Nie Zuo that there was nothing he could do about it. He wanted to open a room with college students countless times, but he insisted on it. Looking at it, one is young and beautiful, lively and cheerful, and the other is old and has a weak face. During menopause, he said he didn't like to get off the bed sheet with the former, and he didn't believe it.
There are also many men who work hard with their wives. After they have money, they think they should do things they are not qualified to do when they were young. With social and economic development, the loyalty of couples is getting lower and lower.
Nie Zuo said: "Mai Yan attaches importance to marriage and regards marriage as a lifelong commitment. There are many such people in City A, not only me." You can't leave yourself behind when you are reasonable.
"You are talking about those otakus who lack sociality or cannot communicate?" Mai Yan glanced at Nie Zuo: "Are you sure you can do it?"
Nie Zuo nodded seriously: "Yes." The boss said: It's nothing difficult, just bear with it and pass it. The boss said: Just treat the college student as your daughter. The boss said: Don't you have a computer and your left hand?
Mai Yan smiled: "Then we don't need to live together."
“Can you live together.”
Mai Yan said: "If not, you can't keep your promise?"
“…”
Mai Yan sighed lightly: "Man, when I think of my dad, I feel chilled. I also know that I think too far, but..."
"I understand." Nie Zuo knew what Mai Yan meant. If Mai Yan had not planned to be with Nie Zuo for a long time, she would not have thought so much. Mai Yan was thinking too much now, and the social atmosphere and the example of her father made her feel a little scared about marriage. On the other hand, it was because she cared too much that she felt fear.
What do you need to do when you are lost and confused? Yu Zi gave Mai Yan an answer, and found an excellent woman to seduce him and seduce him. If he is not seduced, it means it is reliable. Mai Yan asked back, if I am seduced, did I do the thing to lure the wolf into the house? Yu Zi replied, I will leave sooner or later, and I will be reincarnated early.
Maiyan is still very confident about herself at the moment. She is just not confident about her future marriage, especially after she is 40 years old. She went to see a psychologist, and the psychologist told her that this was the damage to her parents' failed marriage and caused her psychological fear of marriage. The psychologist told her that to solve this problem, she could only ask her parents to have a face-to-face conversation and understand the real reason why her father left her mother and there was someone outside. The doctor told Maiyan that if a slap could not be slapped, the main fault of a man's cheating was a man, but it was more or less affected by a spouse.
Mai Yan was not like this before. Nie Zuo gave her a reliable sense of security, which made Mai Yan always feel confident, but with the contact with her parents, the shadow occupied her heart. Mai Yan thought for a long time, parked the car aside, told Nie Zuo about her own visit to a psychologist, and her inner thoughts. Nie Zuo had such a judgment before, but after all, it was a judgment, and he could not be sure and sure. This time Mai Yan opened her words, Nie Zuo thought for a while and replied: "I think you want to sit your dad and your mom together and talk about this."
Mai Yan gave Nie Zuo a white look: "They sat together and they would definitely quarrel within ten seconds." It was much more comfortable to tell this.
Nie Zuo said: "Didn't you go to see a psychologist? You just forged a medical record and said you were suffering from depression...Oh!"
Mai Yan took a bite Nie's left shoulder: "You are depressed, no, no, others are depressed, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,"
"Cute girl." Nie Zuo explained: "I am talking about fake medical records and I'm looking for someone to pretend to be your psychologist. You three go to the psychologist to explain it clearly."
Mai Yan thought for a while: "This method is good. But how can you fake medical records and pretend to be a doctor?"
Nie Zuoyixiao: "What a big deal, I'll do it."
Nie Zuo understands mental illness. He once had mental illnesses, anxiety, sleeping for no more than four hours a day, and having nightmares for half a year. He and Mai Yan have one thing in common, neither of whom grew up in a healthy and happy family, and their life trajectory is different from many people. Mental illnesses are sometimes not diseases, such as Nie Zuo likes Mai Yan to look serious, wears mild myopia eyes, concentrates on writing, and has waves down long hair... Whenever this happens, Nie Zuo will have bad thoughts. When Mai Yan finds out, he often looks proud and says, "You glasses control." Of course, Nie Zuo is not, but Mai Yan looks very intellectual when wearing glasses, which causes Nie Zuo to conquer. Some mental illnesses only have different aesthetic angles.
Mai Yan's psychological problems are very simple. There is only one reason why Mai Yan is afraid and confused about marriage. She does not know the reason for her parents' divorce. No one tells her the truth with integrity and no bias. Even Mai Yan's grandmother does not tell Mai Yan the truth, let Mai Yan think about it herself, but tells Mai Yan the truth after she thinks about it.
ps: If the word harmony appears in the book, please follow the number of words.
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Chapter completed!